Counseling Work with Richard

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Everyone wants to change.  We are hard wired for it.   You can start the change work right away by scheduling some time with me to help you through that process no matter what the issue.

Most people start work with me through what they discover in their dreams.   It is a great place to start.  Dreams take you to a place of greater understanding of your true self.   If you want to go further, most people need more in depth work to understand exactly how their thoughts, emotions, and patterns of behavior are preventing them from getting them to where they want to go.

My approach uses a lot of the techniques I learned in NLP along with 20 years of experience working with the dynamics between the true self and ego.

I work with all kinds of fears,  overcoming shyness,  dealing with anxiety and panic attacks,  depression, self-esteem issues,  relational problems, sports related problems, and dealing a lot of stress.  The big key is figure out how you are being held back, understand and disconnect the negative energy and patterns from their origins, and then release and live in new enduring positive capacities.   The new capacities are just waiting to be unleashed.

I mostly work on Skype, but we can also do sessions in person.   Just email me at dreamsforpeace@gmail.com or richardchastings@gmail.com.    You can also call +1604-396-2599

Cost:  $50.00 USD/hr.  2nd hour- half.   Payments are made through Paypal which I can help you set up if you do not have account or other types of transfers.

Today is a great day to to start the change process.

5 Comments on “Counseling Work with Richard

  1. I hope someone can help me figure out what my dream is telling me.

    I had a dream that my boyfriend was at a event with this girl they were acting like close friends perhaps even like best friends. I walk in I spot them laughing and talking so I go over and sit in a available empty seat one row in front of them which was close enough to where they could spot me or see me but to my surprise he didn’t say anything or even acknowledge my presence. I get upset that he didn’t speak or say hi or try to introduce me to his friend but I try to remain calm because I was fuming inside and say to myself that’s okay because I know when this event is over he will come over and say hello to me and introduce me to his friend and his friend to me.

    So the event is over I go out in the open area where people are chatting and conversing. So I’m standing over to the side and I see my boyfriend and his friend talking so I wait for him to come over to where I was standing and to my surprise he doesn’t even look in my direction it’s like he’s ignoring me or isn’t aware that I’m even there which is once again surprising to me but I continue to stand there waiting on him to come over to where I was standing. Then as some time has passed his friend who I have never met and she has never met comes over to me by herself and says to me I knew you looked familiar and she extended her arms out to me like she wanted to hug me and she says I’m sorry and I declined her hug and her apology and say to her no it’s okay but I had my eyes on my boyfriend who still didn’t look in my direction or acknowledge me then I dismissed myself and exit by leaving the event.

    Then it fast forwards to when we have to return to a house, I don’t know who’s house it was because we don’t live together in real life. So I’m inside this house and I’m looking out the window watching my boyfriend saying goodbye to his friend because she was leaving to go back to her place so he was seeing her off and as I’m looking at them I say to myself he better not try to come in this house and try to speak or talk to me and act like he knows me after his behavior towards me all day because I was definitely going to slap him across his face because I was angry. So I walk away with a smirk on my face. I go into the kitchen area making me some food but thinking about how and if he was going to explain himself as far as his behavior all day. He comes in the house and this is where my dream gets fuzzy I don’t know if he addressed the issue or not because that’s where my dream ended and I woke up.

    • This is a response to the dream from Anonymous,
      The problem you have in this dream is that he is acting badly, but you are the one who is all upset and ready to attack him. In his mind he has done nothing wrong because he has you and also has the other girl. He is happy as can be, but you are not because you don’t even have him anymore.
      The attention he gives to the girl in the dream could be a metaphor for the way he attends to other things and not you or it could be another woman. Your goal is to have a relationship where there is a mutual feeling for each other and you both attend to each other.

      But first you need to attend to yourself and make sure that you are taking care of who you are on the inside and nurturing that person who you truly are. You can’t expect others to do it for you. When you can nurture your own self , then the world will open up to you and your relationships will improve dramatically.

  2. Dear Richard,

    Today is more than a year later after writing that post and I wanted to thank you again for how your coaching has offered such inspiration to me. In the year since I started breaking those habits of thought which were keeping me in a negative pattern in relationships I have been able to transform ALL my relationships! The most important thing I learned from your dream interpretations was how to take the message of my dream and ACT in a new way in my life. These new and couragous actions changed the direction of my life and began showing me whole new areas of strength and creativity within myself which I didn’t even know where there but now I draw on them daily and am happier than I could have ever imagined.
    I live in peace now – internally and externally and I know that one of the central features to my path to peace was your coaching over the years.

    What I found most helpful about your approach was how I was able to share parts of myself with you which I was embarrased out or would usually keep hidden. The way you would read my dreams without judgement and really listen to anything I had to share was very healing for me. When I could share my “shadow” parts with you and receive your encouragement, I felt empowered to take on the task of transforming the negatives to their postive opposites. There was a time when I was having nightmares every night for months and it was your un-ending encouragement which gave me the certitude that there was meaning in these messages for me and that I could create a flood of positiivty instead of being drowned in a flood of negativity.

    I am eternally grateful for the coaching service you provide and would happily share any testimonials which would be helpful for you in your coaching business. I wish everyone who seeks to transform their lives would connect with you and experience the release from the chains of negativity the way I have.

    “Dreams for Peace” is not just a metaphor or a nice saying – it is REAL. Understanding our dreams can and DOES create more peace in our lives – and not just a temporary fleeting kind of peace…but an eternal and lasting true peace which comes with the deep awareness of our True Self and living out our purpose in life.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all that you do!

    p.s. I have my own blog now too…you can find it at http://www.rachelsenlightenedmillionaireblog.wordpress.com...

    With sincere gratitude and warm greetings,
    Your friend in blogging and transformation,
    Rachel Perry

    Artist,
    Author,
    Coach,
    Dreamer 🙂

  3. Thank you for the great feedback, Rachel. Relationship patterns are by the far, the hardest things to change.

  4. Dear Richard,

    Good morning.

    Today I awoke and felt inspired to read your blog. It was enjoyable for me to see that some of the issues I’ve been dreaming about appear to be very common to you.

    Your reflections are very insightful and much appreciated.

    I wanted to share that your interpretations into my dreams about my relationships have proven to be extremely helpful. In fact, your interpretations about the people I have been letting into my life in the past year. I have been doing my change work, reflecting on dreams, praying for detachment and assistance, and learning a life lesson that showed me exactly why I chose the wrong partner for myself the first time and showed me how to prevent doing it again. For this reason I am a stronger person now, more positive, and my heart filled with the Love of Baha’u’llah.

    My dreams have always been a guide for me, intuitively. But after I began to receive your interpretations I began to understand my negative patterns with greater clarity and have been able to discover within myself the ability to change negatives into positives consciously. This process has truly taken my personal growth to a new level and I just want to thank you again for the service you provide to so many people in doing this dream work.

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