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Hi I dreamed that my mother and a unknown girl had been raped.. And the man who did it came back and said I’ll be back I’m not finished with the 2 of you??
I really don’t know what to make of this. Can you let me know what it means.
Tx Priscilla.
Dear Priscilla,
Rape, in a symbolic sense like a dream, means that someone uses negative power to make themselves feel stronger than others. In certain people it is like an addiction. In places where there isn’t a lot of protection for women it happens frequently. The purpose of the dream is twofold. First you have to recognize that there are people who use power inappropriately so you need to recognize them, and second you need to develop your own true empowerment that is much stronger than their addicted weak selves. When you have empowerment, you can do just about anything, but having negative power used against you can be extremely weakening.
Last night I dreamed that my ex boyfriend (who died almost 2 years ago) came over and we had sex. It was nice and it felt real, but I knew even when I saw him in my dream that he was dead. Our relationship was really good when good and really bad when bad in real life. Also, my fiance (in real life) was still my fiance and I was cheating on him with my ex. I did not feel bad for what I was doing with my ex. I know we spoke to each other but I can’t remember what is was about.
Dear Tiffany,
So in real life you were having sex with someone you call a boyfriend while you were engaged with someone else. Ok, that is a bit messed up!!!! LOL. It is ok to have sex with him now in the dream world, but not ok in the real world for obvious reasons (it threatens your current relationship). The reason you have sex with him is because there is an energy, a positive energy in him, that you need in yourself, but you cannot find a way to actualize it in yourself. You rely on a partner to give it to you. Your fiancé doesn’t have the quality, but your ex does. You have to find out what the quality by asking yourself what you admired in him that is non-physical and then work like crazy to develop it in yourself. When you are able to have the quality he has in your own self functioning without him, then you will really have a successful relationship with your fiancé.
I had this dream a few months ago, it’s not really bothering me anymore (unless I think about it) I’m just curious and would finally like to understand so that it doesn’t keep coming on my mind time to time…
My two pet bunnies 🐰🐇 had seizures one after the other (and by that I mean they had the weirdest body movements, twisting tortion spasms) and suddenly collapsed and died with in a few seconds of these actions, one after the other. They both also made a weird noise right when they collapsed. I didn’t know what to do I was so shocked I was debating whether I should tell my parents or not? And I thought I should bury them without telling anyone maybe. And then I overheard them talking about and saw that they had put out an improper, not completely covered flimsy broken and torn old cardboard box? That too lined with plastic?? And I was wondering, why did they take that out and consider using such an imperfect coffin? And just the shock of it all… I just wasn’t able to wrap my head around it all
In real life my bunnies are still alive and healthy, by the way. This was just a bizarre dream about them and I would like to know what it means?
Dear Bizarre Bunny,
Bunnies represent that inner qualities of softness or gentleness. Having your bunnies suddenly die is like having your own quality of gentleness die. This usually happens in the culture of work or serious competition, but I am not sure if that is happening to you. A lot people do not validate how important gentleness is. Because two bunnies die, it is doubly important for you. Most people think that is the hard qualities that are important for success because they don’t understand how extremely powerful a quality like gentleness is. You should meditate on the value of the quality and understand where it fits in your life because it is obviously a big key to your success.
I’ve had consistent reoccurring dreams about running from an unknown entity. I’m always really scared, sometimes I’m with two or three friends, sometimes I will be hiding. Usually the world I’m in is really weird, when I really remember well was on a very advanced cruise ship, another was like I was a shrunken version of myself walking through my high school. But I’m always running away from something, and when I wake up I can’t remember what I was so afraid of
Dear Gwyn,
This dream indicates that you are fearful of unknowns, like there is something out there that is going to get you. At times it makes you feel small and insignificant. When you have the fear of the unknown, it lets you know that you need more ability to see the future or to see possibilities in a positive manner and then dive into them. The fear imagines negative happen because it is calling on memories when negative would have happened to you. When you overcome the fear, through your inner work, you will become a lot more adventurous and daring.
I have a few dreams that leave me wondering what they mean.
1.) Walking home with my sister there are a bunch of military people telling everyone to go inside and hurry. My sister and I run home and open the door only for my cat to run out, we get to the end of the street and find the military people crowded around something and my father grabs a hold of me and while holding me tightly and petting my hair he says “it’s all a dream Nikki, Clooney (our cat) is already dead”
2.) I’ve had a lot of dreams of my ex telling me that he wants to get back together and it feels so real that even in my dream I’m basically telling myself not to wake up cause I don’t haven’t lost him in dream land yet
3.) While my ex and I were together I had a dream where it was all in a deep shade of red and he kept stabbing himself saying “I wanna die” Over and over again to the point that he starts to miss himself and stabs me repeatedly in the dream I’m also telling him to stop while grabbing at his arms and crying hysterically
4.) When I was around 10ish probably I had a dream of a lady who had a long flowy dress and it was white. The chest area was below her breast and her breast had mouths. She was leaning over a guy and he was strapped to a table, her breast basically killed the guy and I watched in horror in this closet till she finds me and makes me hide the man’s dead body outside in the snow.
5.) I have a bunch of dreams of where I never know where my classes are at school, I’ll know where I should go but I’ll never know where the class is. Also most of the time something bad is happening like I’m running from something.
Dear Nikki,
1. The military outside of your house means that you have a feeling that the outside world is too rigid, rule-oriented, and controlling. When your cat goes out there where the military is, it means that your independent thinking mind is going out, and when it does, it gets killed or you lose it. This is actually what happens to people where there is over control. They have to give up thinking. Your dad saying it is only a dream means the actual world is not quite how the dream world is. The reason that you have the dream is because you get stuck in a memory of when things were too controlled, then you cannot be free to have your own opinions, etc..
2. The reason for the second dream is so that you remember the positive experiences about being with your ex so that you can be attracted and go after someone new, but you need to wake up to the reality that there were significant issues in the relationship which show up in the next dream that you sent.
3. When a person stabs himself in a dream, it means he is killing his relationship with his true self. This happens to people because the ego side is just too much for them. Stabbing you means that he is trying to kill your true self. This happens because he cannot be in a relationship was he is himself. He can only be in a relationship that is ego-based. It shows why the relationship was never going to last.
4. This dream is very interesting, albeit disturbing for a 10 year old. Killing someone with their breasts means that she attracts people with the promise of love and nurturing, and then takes them for all that they have until they can’t take it anymore. The reason you have the dream is so that you will do exactly the opposite in your relational life. You will attract people and then being loving and nurturing to them and be fully in the open about the loving state.
5. In this dream you are actually running from something which means that before you can your class and start the learning process, you have to address the fear that makes you run. This is because it is difficult to learn what you need while you are in a fear state. You need to be in a positive space for learning to happen, not a fear space.
Good morning. I had a dream what it seemed I was in jail. The reason why I say seemed because it felt and looked like jail but then what seemed to guards also seemed to be nurses. I was able to live around as I please. Everyone liked me including workers. What was strange to me I was able to still drive going places with the workers, able to walk up and down the street….. basically I still had freedom in a sense. One thing that’s puzzling is I don’t know how I got there. Please help me with this
I have had a dream about a large orange crab, it pinched my neck while moving sideways and it was very difficult to get it to let go. I was swimming and it came out of nowhere and there were no other crabs. It began pinching down slowly but hard.
Any ideas on what this means ?
TIA
Dear Jasmin,
Swimming in a dream means your goal is to have really positive relationships, which you are capable of, except when a crabby person comes into your mist and becomes a pain in the neck. The crab represents a crabby, negative person who is annoying. What works with this kind of person is to get into a deep state of calm or tranquility. The purpose of a crabby person is get you take their point of view, but when you are calm and tranquil, they cannot get you on their side. Then they go away.
I can’t remember what happened before this although I feel it was important also. I just remember being at my mom’s apartment complex, my old home, and she was giving something to the flying helicopter in the parking lot. As it flew off, I was grabbing a sponge from a strangers yellow mustang, without permission, for some reason to use it to take off my makeup. Across the street, right next door to the complex is a brick wall and on the other side is a trailer park. My sister ran across the street to get something from her friend who drove up on the other side. It was then that I looked up and seen an explosion in the distance, like the helicopter hit another or something. Then all of a sudden, I seen it hurdling in our direction and I prepared to run out of the way and call for my mom to come see. It didnt land right in front of me, but instead on the other side of the brick wall as a big explosion went high into the air and I called my mom to come out and take a look before it disappeared. However instead of doing that, a line of fire ran down that side, enclosing the car of my sisters friend who quickly said she had to go and got in her car and left. Then the line spread out from the trailer park and down the street of our complex on the far side, then down the curb of the street we were on as I just thought “well, so much for the wild fires” cause down the other street, the fire was going toward another trailer park surrounded by tall grass. We jumped over the curb and ran back into the apartment, throwing buckets of water to put out the fire as neighbors did the same. It didn’t escalate further as the entire fire was put out. It was crazy to see right in front of me and exciting but kind of scary at the same time.
Dear Patricia,
This dream is a metaphor to what happens when a plan that a person is excited about crashes. The helicopter represents taking off with a plan to get somewhere and the explosion represents the failure of the plan. The fire spreading represents the anger that spreads after the failure of the plan. You help calm the anger by pouring water onto the flames. Since you are in your old home in your mom’s apartment complex, you can assume that this is her pattern. Your job seems to be to put our your mom’s anger from her crashes. When you let go of having to calm your mom (your old pattern), you can start a new one which is to create your own plans and go for them. Since you have a calmer mind, you can be more rational about your planning.
I just woke up crying. In my dream I was watching Winnie the Pooh with my mom. I saw it in the dream but I don’t know if it’s a scene from any of the episodes, movies, spin offs I just remember Pooh swinging from vines with Piglet and having some dialogue, I don’t remember what exactly but me and my mom were discussing it like going back to my childhood (when we were discussing with each other, like talking about the last time we watched this when I was younger and maybe how she/I remembered this dialogue/the Winnie the Pooh story we were watching) which made me feel emotional and I just suddenly bust out crying and telling my mom that I miss all the stuff we used to do together when I was little like watch these kids movies/shows together and play together and when she used to read to me. Note that these type of things are what parents do when their kids are 0-5 years old, mainly 2-4, 5ish, sometimes older than that sure but not as much as thos early years, when children don’t know how to read, have not began going to school, etc. I don’t have this Winnie the Pooh memory in particular (like watching these scene with my mom in real life) but I still woke up crying because the emotion is so real, even if it was caused by imaginary events in my dream. Even when I realise that, I don’t have TOO many memories of my mom doing these things unfortunately (again age 2-4/5, it’s just a few of my earliest memories and even then a lot of them are not of me and my mom like this, which makes me feel a bit sad, because I do want to relieve these memories with her again, there’s just not many of this kind particular kind that I remember… I do feel like if I ask her she would remember more though, and we really could do those things again, I want to…
It’s just like that dream with the friend I posted below, I did begin talking to her again on text because the dream made that feeling of missing her and losing her if I didn’t reach out fast enough very real, I felt that way after the dream too, luckily she is talking to me and it’s normal, I hope with time our friendship gets deeper again like it used to be. It’s like both of these dreams brought a real emotion to the forefront. I would like all three interpreted (2 are posted below, one as a reply to the other since I had them in the same night a few days ago….) I also dont remember which email I’d I used when I posted that so I might be using a different one when I post this, but it’s still me, just had another dream today after the previous two posted a few days ago.
Hi again, In this dream you are getting more of what the solution to the first dream is rather than more issues. When you let go of the haunting images, then you can actually remember positives and when you remember positives then your relationships improve. It is all about accessing positive memories.
I dreamed that my leg was swollen. Not my whole leg, just calf. It was super fat.
Dear Jess,
The calf muscle is that one that allows you to spring forward and upward because it is attached to the Achilles which is attached to the foot. When it is swollen, it means that you cannot go forward enthusiastically with a lot of spring in your spirit. To get your spirit to have more spring you have to find out where you lost your enthusiasm or where it was injured in your life.
I was at my house with my husband there was a snake in a cage outside. Then someone who I don’t know came and took our small pet dog (a Morkie) and fed it to the snake. I was crying really bad. In the dream our dog was sick but not close to dying, but the person reasoned that the dog needed to be eaten by the snake so it did not continue suffering.
Dear Christine,
So the way you can deal with this dream is to do it from the end to beginning only in a positive manner rather than a negative. That will be the solution to the dream. First you need to begin with positive dog energy. Positive dog energy is love and friendship because that is what dogs represent. So when you start with relationship and love, then you can go for new changes which is represented by the snake. First relationship building in love and then changes come naturally. In the dream the you are being asked to change by killing the love. It doesn’t work that way.
I was with this guy…? Like married to him?? And I think I had a kid and some other girl like his sister staying with us I guess?? And we didsome type of prayer of ritual or something bcz that house we were living in was old and haunted… So after that whatever “thing” was there was making creepy things happen to the three of them… Like turning their heads 180° and looking like some scary skull/rotten human head suddenly and then going back… And all them acting weird many times suddenly doing strange movements looking like that…so I had enough the next time my husband did it I stabbed him when he did it and he bled to death or was bleeding and everyone else was calling the ambulance while I escaped and went to find my exs friend in some weird living arrangement they had… I don’t know why I wanted to talk to him, I just found him older and more knowledgeable…I thought maybe he could help so I did find him and went into their room and he was laughing and calling my ex from nearby (who was wearing weird big glasses all of a sudden, small frame but huge round kinda lenses) and he was just staring at me while his friend was laughing and calling him like “hahaha look who’s here” I was telling him this is no time for jokes I killed my husband and the whole thing is paranormal just listen and help me
This is actually a very strange dream happening just a day/the same night as I blocked his friends, including the one I saw in this dream? And even after this dream this morning I want to keep them all blocked so that my ex has no way of reaching me, my stance hasn’t changed, in fact I even blocked them on Instagram after this dream since I had forgotten to do that yesterday… I don’t know why I believed it was appropriate to seek out this friend in my dream
I also want to add that this morning after the dream I woke up to the news of my friends boyfriend dying… I don’t know if that’s related but I thought I’d share
Before waking up however I had another dream after this horror movie one, desperately chasing my friend who was graduating and leaving college along with the rest of my batch (I’m behind them because I failed by a whole 1.5-2 years, they graduated and I didn’t in real life, however in real life they are still here especially this friend she is also 6 months behind but they just had the graduation ceremony together in real life, it’s actually atleast whole 4 months more before she’ll leave if not more) but I was desperately trying to find her and hug her and tell her how I’m so proud of her and I’m sorry for growing apart and I’ll miss her, I did find her and hug her and cry I felt so bad, she was hugging me back and I think she cried a little too and she was telling me to take care of myself and to pray to a particular God in our religion, strange too because in reality the day devoted to this God /big festival just recently passed…
Now in real life like I have told you about me failing more and being behind academically has happened and that is one reason why we grew distant, the second is my ex tried to talk nonsense to her ((same ex I posted in the dream above)) and he was trying to turn her mind against me and/or even using her to spy on me when we had a fight… I really don’t know what happened between them and so whenever my friend used to reach out after that a couple times I didn’t really respond because I was afraid… And apart from that occasionally we bump into each other in real life, sometimes we’ll kinda avoid each other if we’re doing something else (like if she’s outside and I pass by and she’s talking to someone already, she won’t necessarily look at me and say hi and vive versa) but other times when we come across each other we’ll say hi how you doing and keep it moving after that short greeting. I don’t know what she thinks of me anymore and I feel terrible about what happened, the fact that her parents also know me (I stayed in their house earlier and met them many times, they keep coming to college to pick her up for the weekend or whatever) a couple times after we grew distant I saw them and avoided them and stayed far, a few other times I didn’t even see them and then I’d see her parents call to me and wave and say hi. To be honest I’ve been dealing with a lot of my own problems and personal demons and doing things that I shouldn’t have, etc over the past couple of years in which we have grown distant. I honestly feel terrible about it from time distant, and the above factors did not help either, yesterday I saw her remove her profile picture and I was scared that she deleted my number, so I made another friend save her number and check and luckily she hasn’t deleted my number. I feel so terrible after this dream I really really want to fix everything between me and her there’s no ill will no fight no judgement nothing from my side ever I only grew distant because of FEAR and nothing else. I didn’t want her to know about how bad my life truly was for the past couple years. And now after the dream I fear it might be too late, I don’t know I will have to look into it, maybe come clean to her I don’t know. Anyways, this is about the second dream I had after the previous one I submitted for dream interpretation, two dreams in one night/morning I have sent these both for interpretation while adding adequate relevant real life backstory for you to be able to interpret better. Thanks in advance Richard. Looking forward to both dreams interpreted by you.
Hi again,
So if you do what I recommend in the first dream, you will get back together with your friend, but more than that you will improve your academics and have a lot more positive relationships. It is worth investing in whatever you have to do to get into a very positive state. Who is the God in the dream? Just curious.
Hi, The first thing you should know is that a house in a dream represents your own self. When the house is old and haunted, it means that this part of your ego mind is old and haunted. Being old means that you probably inherited it and being haunted means it sees things from time to time that are like ghost-like such as what you saw in the dream. When you are in that mind set in real life, then you have a tendency to kill off your relationships as you did in the dream and then go backwards to the old ones.
What you need instead is a new mind set, like a new self. The new self looks forward in a positive manner toward the future and remembers the positive out of the past. It is not haunted by bad images and negative memories. I am guessing that others in your family have a similar pattern so you are probably going to need help changing it. The future for you, when you make the changes in your self is going to be super positive and full of confidence.
Please if anyone can interpret this :In my dream i was with my classmates and we were in a luxurious house for some kind of event I can’t remember . I was standing with some of my classmates ( girls) and my sister and then suddenly the point of view changed . I saw myself and the others before but then I just saw the path between two red carpets in front of me and I felt someone touching me and hugging me on my belly first . It felt so real honestly . He is my crush . And he hugged me from the back and whispered to my right ear : ” can we please go somewhere . I’ll guide you . Don’t be afraid . ” And then we walked the path . He felt so familiar yet it was intriguing and I felt butterflies inside my stomach the whole time. We walked the path and then we got to a restroom that was really big . There was one girl who is our classmate and she asked what are eyou guys doing here ? . He let go of me and went in front of me . I can’t remember what he said . This felt so real . When he was hugging me it felt so good and weird at the same time. It shoul be noted that my crush n I don’t speak on a daily we just exchange stares u know. Plus he has a gf. ( Excuse my bad English it’s not my mother tongue)
Dear Kate,
The issue with having a crush is that you are always living in the world of imagination of what it will be like with him and it is always really great. So what you are experiencing in the dream is how your mind imagines it would be and then lives inside that possibility as if it were real. The virtue you actually need is courage. When you have courage, then all of the things that you envision can come true. Without courage you stay in the state of wishing. Most relationships are a mixture of what you felt in the dream, plus negatives because we are all quite imperfect. Besides the fear of rejection there is also the fear that the real thing is not going to be as good as the imagination. Have courage and go for it. If it doesn’t work out with your crush, it will work out with someone else, probably better.
I dreamt that my 3 year old presumably had some kind of sickness (or at least that’s what my wife told me in the dream) and her idea was for us to kill him to ease his suffering. She decided the most humane way was to break his neck. She tried and couldn’t do it so I then tried. I tried to quickly snap it and it didnt work, so I then just tried to keep turning his head till it broke. It also didnt work. I remember being very sad that he was hurting worse now and injured worse from cracking his neck. I remember laying him in his bed and walking away. He showed again later and I cradled him in my arms and laid him back down and told him I loved him and to stay laying down. He showed up again a short time later crying with a little bit of blood coming from his mouth and saying ” i just wish it was Christmas again”. At that point I woke up crying. I am in mental hell right now. I cant get the memory of him crying and saying that about Christmas out of my head
Hi Joe,
Sorry I missed your dream and am just now getting to it. The mindset that you have in the dream that you share with your wife is that of the desire to ease suffering. Your son actually had the right attitude in the dream. He is thinking of joyfulness. In the dream he is actually the teacher of you two. Everyone suffers in life because it is a reality that no one can escape. It is just part of learning and part of the collective growth of humanity. When you have tons of joy, the pain is barely felt. Bringing joy and feeling joy is what seems to be needed here.
So I recently had a breakup. My dream started with me going to work at Best Buy ™️ not in my uniform but in casual clothes. I clock in and undress to get into my usual uniform right? My shirt wasn’t in the locker. So for some reason (who knows why) i walk outside of the back room with no shirt on and find my manager asking him for a shirt. He goes running off for a shirt for me to wear and I find my exes mom coming in to my work. I pretend not to see her but I could feel her staring at me. My manager eventually comes back with a shirt and I now have a top on so i go back to either the photo department or the tech department and his mom comes over. She said something snyde like “i think it’s unprofessional to walk out nude onto the sales floor” then she called me a whore. I remember feeling really humiliated and I laughed it off in the dream then proceeded to try and sell her things but she kept calling me a slut and a whore throughout the sales pitch. Once i got her into signing something i could feel her staring at me again but this time it feels extremely unnerving. Idk how to describe it other than i felt like my insides were twisting and I woke up with the same feeling in a sweat. This dream seemed partially lucid but i was definitely not in control of when I had half nude lol. Any thoughts?
Dear Amanda,
What this dream says is that in your relationship you felt exposed and embarrassed in a negative as if you half nude in public. So when you put yourself out there in public in a new way, you will have a tendency to feel that kind of exposed, humiliated feeling. What you have to replace it with, it the beautiful and amazing person that you are inside and put that out there.
I had a dream I was walking up the steps to the porch of my childhood home (the last place we lived before my parents got divorced). When I got to the porch it was all wobbly and shifting and I was hollering to my dad inside to open the door before the porch collapsed. I made it inside and the porch stayed intact. Once inside there were presents taped to all the blades of the ceiling fan in the living room and the fan was on. There were also presents stacked together (unwrapped), but attached to the ceiling with space between them and the floor. I had a chat with my dad, but I do not remember about what, he was being silly and acting high (which is not unusual for him. he was absent in my life between the ages of 10 – 15, then in my life until I was 17 and his presence is sporadic)
Dear Christine,
The house represents your childhood self during the time when your parents were having a rough time. It is run down and the positive things are really hard to access. Your father is not fully present. This means that when you are trying to get to your new more positive self, you will feel a bit like you did as a child in that house like things are going to collapse or you are not going to be able to get to things. They are left over memories that run old patterns. The new pattern is to build your self with solid qualities, to support yourself, and reward yourself often.
I saw such a strange dream today! And I don’t even know if it was a dream or it was real
There were people in my room but not standing they were in the air and they were extending their hand to me to hold and I remember I woke up to hold the hand then I slept back , it happened 3 times. And then I exactly woke up at 7, just a second before my alarm was supposed to ring!
I have been such dreams before as well ince i saw a dream of scary lady peeling off her skin and trying to kill me as well then i saw another dream of a dog biting my hand and it was bleeding and hurting in real as well
Dear Asmaan,
The first dream seems positive, but I cannot tell for sure. If it is positive, then you have positive people trying to help lift your spirit. When you feel like you have this kind of encouragement in your life, you should respond to it because it is good. The second dream is the opposite which is the fear that you are going to get hurt and shunned or in a relationship. This is because you have probably had some bad experiences in the past. If you have up energy like enthusiasm or joy, then your relationships will all be so much better.
I hope you see this soon Richard…
So there is this guy I have seen in my dreams at least twice. He has a very simple yet attractive look. We met (in my dreams) because our fathers are friends. Our families met and we just hung out normally… But I could feel something, you know (an underlying mutual attraction) nothing happened though in the first dream, then in the second dream we met on our own/away from our families I think? Like we met outside, and there was another girl (a sister of his or another one of our friends I’m assuming) and we were all going somewhere by a local train (within the city, you know those local metros/subway types all over the world) then when we got off we crossed the street and he he’ll be back with weed from his house (because we decided to smoke together) and he said bye and kissed my neck in public… I trembled for a moment because obviously it felt great (andkeep in mind in this dream up till before that happened, during the train ride and all I felt more and more enamored by his presence and couldn’t stop staring at him) then I got a call from my mom she was telling me to be back by evening and I agreed… Then I got into a car with his mom dad and (sister? Other girl who was with me) and they were talking to me about how we’re hanging out because we want to “smoke the weed” They weren’t angry they were serious and probably going to drop us off where we’d smoke…and I really wanted to make out wit him after he kissed me, at the more isolated/less busy area where we’d smoke…Thats when I woke up, looked at the time, came to my senses and realised how weird this all was, because I’m not the type of person to live in a bubble, how am I growing more attracted to an imaginary person! And then that brings up the question of—-is he real? Is he out there? Is this dream some sort of premonition? Should I try to meet him in real life?? And what do these dreams even mean to begin with??
Hi,
In the dream what you have to realize is that the energy of love is opening up in you. It is as if the dream is using the imaginary guy to wake up the possibility of love inside of you. He is not anyone in particular that you are likely to meet. Smoking the weed together means you have zero confidence in the energy of the love. It is like you have to use a substance to get your minds out of the way so that you can experience your attraction. It is a dangerous practice because sooner or later the mind will take back over and you will lose the love. You can start opening up the attraction and love aspect in yourself because it is so key to successful living.
Hi! I had a weird dream last night about somebody and still couldnt figure out its meaning. Hence curiosity got the best ot me and i had to ask about it.. so basically , it was me and this person in a white bathroom trying to have intercourse in the bathtub. But the person got flaccid after the initial erection and it didnt work out . The dream ended by him saying to not tell anyone about this.
Hi Lilith,
This is how I read your dream. Intercourse in a dream has a lot to do with you becoming intimate with a particular energy. In this case, since you are in the bathroom, the quality that you are seeking to integrate is purity. Purity is one of those underrated by qualities in the culture because most economic activities operate on the basis of self interest and greed. So while initially there is a strong excitement about doing things for the right reasons, after awhile the enthusiasm wanes. This could happen because of the amount of impurity around or the lack of positive motives. Keep working on the quality. In the long term of life it makes all of the difference. People who take short cuts in life have long term disasters.
Over the last week I’ve had really bad anxiety. But last night in my dream there was a man protecting me. I think he was protecting my emotions and thoughts. All I can remember is laying in bed and feeling sad, like a deep sad. I look over by the bed and this man is sitting in a chair. I could feel my eyes getting teary and he asked me if I was ok then got up and kissed me. But when he did it felt like I felt it in real life, the actual kiss and the rushing feeling of calm coming over my whole body. Like I really, in real life, felt and trusted the protection he was giving me. I saw his face but I didn’t know him. Can I manifest him? Or is he trying to find me lol. I’m just trying to understand why his feelings felt so real.
Hi Celia, Such a cool dream. Whoever he is, he is there for you to support and protect and comfort you. Whether you think of him as an inner being or a being from the next world, when you call him to mind that sense of calm can come over you. Once that kind of confidence in your calmness happens, then all kinds of positive relationships will manifest.