This first comment is for Emma’s dream:
In this dream your sister, who is pregnant, is acting as if it is ok to go out and drink and do drugs when you are pregnant. You want her to be responsible, but she acts recklessly so you get really upset which makes you end up in a fall which really hurts you.
What is important for you to realize is this dream is for you, not your sister, even if she isn’t responsible. If you change your own self, then things will get much better for others. So what is probably happening in your mind is that you see someone acting without responsibility and then you go out into the future and see the consequences of it and realize that their lack of responsibility is going to affect you in an adverse way. At that point you get angry and try to get the person to change. In this case it is your sister but it could be others as well because this is a mental pattern.
What the dream is trying to tell you is that despite your good intentions to wake your sister up, the anger doesn’t work because you end up falling and hurting yourself. What you need to understand is that anger doesn’t get what you want it to get for you.
The way to solve the dream is actually something that you might not have thought of. Instead of focusing on your sister what is important to do is to focus on your own inner pregnancy, (not a real pregnancy), but you taken care of giving birth to something new like a new project or a new you. You can relax and get really excited about it and then it will change everything. You have to let go of trying to do anything about your sister because it just doesn’t work, but if you get excited about new things, then eventually she might also.
You are ready to give birth to new ideas or a new project or something so really go for it.
I’m hoping you can help me. I had a dream last night that I went to pick a friend up from work but he is trying to have a sexual relationship with me. I do not want this but we are friends. So I’m in my car. I have a newborn baby girl in my arms. She is very tiny wearing peach or light pink. she doesn’t cry at all. Then I am lost. End up on a roller coaster with him and the baby. Get back to my car and can’t find where we needed to go. I end up driving over a bridge with a calm river underneath but it’s the wrong way so I go in reverse. It is night time through the whole dream and i never put the baby down. Last I drop him off at his car and go home. My husband is there and we are fighting. I still have the baby in my arms. Like I’m trying to protect her. That’s all i can remember but what does this mean?
So it was one of those ones that started out where you’re sleeping, and my sister came home and she started puking and me and my mom ran to see if she was okay, and I guess she had ended up doing a vodka shooter at the bar and it made her sick because she’s pregnant, then after she got it all out of her system she came into my room with me and I got back into bed, and she started looking through my clothes and I was like what are you doing? And she was like ” this will be super cute for tonight” and I was like you’re actually gonna go out partying? And she was like well ya I found out everything was okay with my pregnancy so It doesn’t matter, and then she asked me if I had any cocaine, and I like couldn’t speak because I was so mad, and then I started yelling at her to grow up, and called her pathetic, and then she ran out the door and I ran onto my balcony, and I was running fast and I remember considering jumping off, but I don’t remember actually jumping I just wanted to stop her from going out, then all of a sudden I was falling hard and fast and I landed on my back. there was a ton of fresh snow and it was snowing outside even though it was summer. I felt so much pain, and I couldn’t move or yell for help and I was slowly losing consciousness and then my head fell into the snow and I kept sinking and I couldn’t breathe and then I could hear her footsteps going to her truck in the driveway, I was trying so hard to tell for help, and the door closing and her driving away and I woke up gasping for air.
A snake being shoved towards you means that you are having a changed shoved onto you that you probably don’t want to make. This could be like a move or change of job, etc.. Missing teeth or broken teeth means that you have some difficulties in thinking process that leads to decision making or change. Front teeth are what you bite into things with while back teeth are more about thinking about things for a long time before deciding. It is important to know which teeth are missing. If it is in combination with the snake it is probably your front teeth which will make it hard to accept new things.
That makes perfect sense. “hanging the snake (change) around your neck and impregnated you with it” He is your boyfriend, which means you are not married, which means that you are undecided, but acting as if you are fully married. You are not satisfied with him sexually because you are not really that satisfied with him. You shouldn’t move as a couple until you feel really positive in the relationship. That is the basic principle. When you have the feeling more positive about him, then you can consider the move, but the change now is to be firm in your independence.
Hi Richard, thanks so much for that reply, I was terrified. how ever I think that I understand this in a way. my current relationship with my bf is not great but not bad either, like in silent mode or something. sometimes, lately more than ever it feels like he is pushing me to go where he wants to go and just go without an argument or a fuss. ( He wants me to move away with him and my daughter, and move closer to his family and to what he wants to do there) I see it as a bit selfish and I don’t see the benefits for me, away from my family, further away from my job (Which I hate, but have no choice) and I want to be independent to a degree where I can be sure that when he ever decides to walk away from us, that I can look after myself and my daughter, but if I were to move there with him, I’d be stripped of my independence a bit. I am not too sure if this is the message. In another sense I put myself in his position, he is the man after all, and men are the providers and the head of the house, I don’t want to strip him from that too. I have stripped him from his sexual confidence because I am hardly ever satisfied and yes I feel guilty about it but at the time I didn’t know how to handle it. i am in process of trying to fix that for us. since it seems like he doesn’t know what to do.
Jane,
Whenever you have a snake dream, just say to yourself right away that I need to make a big change in my life and the snake is the symbol for it. When you get fear connected to a snake as in your dream, then you know that the change related to the snake in the dream is negative. A snake is transformation oriented when it is positive because it sheds its skin which means it can let go of the past really easily and it has humility by the way it changes itself to go over what shape an object is.
So in your dream you are in the context of a Christian event where everyone is praising and worshiping. Then someone comes up to you and kisses you passionately and wraps a snake around your neck. This means that he is trying to make a connection with you so that you will change in the way he wants you to change. It is like he is trying to give you a new birth like being reborn the way he wants.
This is really the way people try to get you to believe what they want you to believe in the world to which you react with a lot of fear. They get you in a praising kind of frenzy and then when you are vulnerable they impregnate you with their way of doing things. It doesn’t have to be a Christian event. It could easily be a speaker in front of a group.
So when you are with any type of group that is trying to be get you to change in this way, there are a couple of keys to watch for. First of all, you have to detect if they are really interested in you or just interested in their own self. You know this by whether they are trying to convince you of something or if they are listening. If they are listening, then it is all good and you can stay there because they are interested in helping in the change process. The second is whether they are just talking or is the focus on service. If they are focused on serving rather than talking, then you know it is good.
In the new paradigm inspiration comes from the inside as opposed to a couple of inspired speakers and it is focused on action over words.
So if you want to make a big change in your life, which having a snake suggests, then the place to start is on the inside and in the arena of service to others.
Thanks for the previous reply, Richard. Seems like I had another dream worse than the one before. I’m truly upset by it this morning. I dreamed that I was at a christian event at a big hall. Everyone praised and worshiped. Including me. After the event a guy came and talk to me. He handed me a snake after he kissed me passionately. It felt intense and he draped the snake around my neck as a scarf. The snake hissed and impregnated me. The snake turned red and fell to my chest. What could this possibly mean….?
Being in a movie watching mode means that the fear you have is generated from seeing something terrible happening to someone else and then imagining that it is going to happen to you. The dream plays out what may be something like the worst fear you could imagine. It is good that you remember it because when you remember it, you can begin to work with it.
So when you see something bad happening to someone else in real life, the fear response in you is to think that the same thing might happen to you. This puts you in a fear state that makes you uncomfortable.
So the process that you need to learn is to stay out of the fear response and get into a space of being really helpful in her transformation. It is like it is not helpful when someone is in a terrible condition filled with fear and pain for you to go into a similar state. There are two things that the dream would be asking you to learn how to do which could take quite a bit of time but really worth it for your future life.
First is to be detached from the fear itself, that is, to not take it on. This means that you can see someone in a bad condition but not become fearful yourself. Next is to help them to get a place of safety which is relatively easily, and then begin to imagine what there life would be like if it were completely transformed into the positive opposite.
You probably have a gift of helping people change their lives, but you haven’t really fully got into it yet. I am just guessing about that. When you have a fearful dream, what you try to do is to get to the positive on the other end. The fear just tells you that you are at the beginning of developing a great new process in yourself, but you have to get beyond the fear first.
It really helps to get beyond a fear when you can imagine the really bright future on the other end of the fear. That gives you the motivation to work through it. Then you can go more quickly on the path to becoming the person you are meant to become.
Good luck. Stay detached. See the fear but be helpful.
I had a really disturbing dream last night, and normally I am not into my dreams/ their meanings, but this is just eating at me. It was rather short. I was watching a movie, only it was actually happening. Like it was a real movie, and I was there. I am not to sure of all of the details, but one specific part. I am staring at this girl, maybe about twenty or so. Her face is white (like the color white, not just white skin). I know she is on drugs. She has scissors stuck in the bottom of both of her eyes. Like slid under both of her eyeballs. Her eyes are wide open and full of blood, and she is just staring at me. Her mouth is also open and its full of blood. None running down her face, but full of blood. She almost looks happy or calm, but I know in the dream she should not feel this way, and I know she has either been drugged, or taken drugs. I get a really uneasy feeling like someone is going to do this to me in the dream. As if something sinister is going on, all the sudden its a party, I can see the figures of people all over, but its dark, and I can not make them out. I can only see her face. That’s the end. I woke up, and went back to sleep. I have been thinking about it all day, and feeling really uneasy. Any idea what this might mean? Any help would be great. Thanks so much
Jane, One way to look at the dream is that the child is you and you are trying to advance upward in your life. What you run into along the way are spider webs which are symbols for you of negative feminine power. So you probably had difficulties with particular women as a child that has made it difficult for you to forward and up.
Feminine power, which is symbolized in the webs, when it is positive is about making connections with others. Women traditional achieve by connecting with others, which is something men should do also. You had some negative spiders which prevents you from doing this process better. So I would say to give a lot of thought for the best way to connect with others.
Hi Richard,
I’ve been forgetting my dreams lately. I occasionally remember one though, here it goes.
I was holding a child in my hand, going up a straight steel stairwell and pulling away spider webs with every third step or so. It’s all I can remember…. (I do hate spiders)
Brandon,
This is a really interesting dream because you derived some positive feelings about despite no one being around in the parade. Basically the dream is trying to get you to learn how to give yourself positive self recognition for the positive things you are doing as if you were in a parade being cheered by thousands of people. Whenever you do something that is positive with positive intentions, it has a huge ripple effect even though you never see the results. Most positive acts never receive any recognition, but they really are extremely valuable. What you need is a way to have self recognition so that you will be really positive and do lots of great things that get zero recognition. When you remember the parade metaphor and hear the cheering voices in your head, it will be amazing how motivated you get.
Last night I had a dream that was in a open top car in a parade. I was waving up at the tall buildings and on the sides but not one person was there not even in the car with me. The reason I knew we in a parade because the car was moving slow with no traffic or stop lights. Although no one was there I felt just so happy and content. I remember saying in the dream ” If I could just know what it feel like to be parade like this” because I closed my eyes and imagined that there was hundreds of thousands people there waving and confetti flying just for me. I opened my eyes again still in the dream and see no one there but me again but I just felt so good in the car by myself because it like i knew in the dream that one day or just around the corner there would be massive crowds of people there just for me a confetti flying every where.
Thanks
There is a positive and negative aspect to the dream. The positive aspect is that when you speak against the storm, it goes away. The storm is a symbol of criticism because it is the negative force in the world that tries to makes its way to the top. A lot of people rise to the top through the use of criticism because it is a storm that people attend to. So when you speak against the storm, it is like you are doing what you can to eliminate criticism as a means of ascent.
The negative aspect of the dream is that you are preaching from the position of standing still and being up above others in the sky. It is much better position, if you want to have a hugely positive effect on people, to be on the ground with the people in a state of forward movement rather than standing still. There isn’t a connection between the preaching and the people becoming whole, but there is a connection between you facing your own inner storm of criticism and everyone being affected in a positive way.
The reason for having the dream twice is so that you will be sure to get the message. What is needed to make people whole are powerful deeds done amongst them. That is the healing work. It can be done when you face and deal with your own inner criticism that is like a storm.
You may be tempted to believe that preaching from the sky is what makes people whole, but that method has never worked. Walking with the people and doing your own spiritual work is the single most powerful transformational tool. The really positive thing about the dream is the ability to deal with the inner storm.
I was standing still in the sky preaching and teaching to thousands of people a large storm,s came up I spoke against the storm it disappear all the people fell to the ground I heard a voice say they are made whole then they all got up. I had this dream two time.
Bethel,
There are some really good parts and also some negative aspects of the dream that are important for you to attend to. The positive aspect of the dream is about Jlo. You are in a white room which signifies purity. Purity has to do with having positive and pure motives for doing things. Jlo represents going for something with a high degree of excellence and having a good motive. She can be like a role model for you, but really the energy she is calling on inside of you is excellence. Excellence is the ability to go after something with everything you have to reach a high goal.
Terrence Howard represents trying to go for something with the motive of making a lot of money quickly at the expense of someone else’s life. This is what the cocaine represents. Both he and Jlo make a lot of money, but their motives, according to the dream are exactly the opposite. That makes all the difference. The problem for you is that you are tempted by the quick money, but only don’t do it because of the fear of being caught.
So then when you start down the path of doing things for the wrong motive, you give up your virginity really easily, and then you get easily offended when you are trying to serve, and you end up in a place that is very meaningless and not fulfilling.
The question you have is what to do. The key is to keep your life pure and then have a lot of self-discipline to go after the things that are important to you and not slip into a life with the wrong motives. The bad motives for you in the dream are like trying to take the easy way out in life.
I would say that the place to start with a program of excellence is in deciding what you are particularly strong in and then working hard to develop there. When you gain confidence in yourself, then you can work in others. It may be in the area of dance, but I am not sure because don’t know enough about you. It is usually easiest to start wok in an area that is physical like dance because you can let go of negative energy with exercise and you can see progress immediately.
Feel free to ask more, Bethel. You have a great life in front of you.
Dear Richard
I’ve heard a lot about you and could you please interpret this dream for me. It all started in a white room, and for some reason Jlo was standing infront of me. she was dancing and walking backwarrds and i was following her. Then the white room changed into a gym and usher,cello,terrence howard and my brothers were waiting for me in a around table. I sat with them and Terrnce gave us each a pack of cocain to sell it. Everyone sold theirs but i dint. I was afraid that I’ll get caught and get deported. Them my brother suggested that i should sell them online. He also said that I’ll make $40,000 in 2 weeks. Then the scene changed and i was in a boys dorm some were. My friend’s boyfriend asked me if i could have sex with him and i said yes. We were in the bathtub and i asked him “why are you cheating on your girlfreind?” he said ‘”to piss her off”. For me, i dint do him to piss my friend off, i did it because i wanted to loss my virginity. Then again the scene changed and i was in a school that i volunteered at. This asian girl called me a negro, i got so mad, i almost punched her. She said about us sneaking in a building which i think it was a company that gave teens a job and i got rejected. We went in their and i saw kids working. 8 year olds packing stuff. I saw my bestfreind serving food but i dint say hi to her. Then we went into some sort of room and my freinds boyfreind (the one i slept with) was in a very high shelf and he drooped a big bag like a sack of hot cheetos.Then my whole freshmen class started celebreting over the rain of hot cheetos. I know its just a stupid dream but i dreamed it 4 times and i think its trying to tell me something. Could you help me please.
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This first comment is for Emma’s dream:
In this dream your sister, who is pregnant, is acting as if it is ok to go out and drink and do drugs when you are pregnant. You want her to be responsible, but she acts recklessly so you get really upset which makes you end up in a fall which really hurts you.
What is important for you to realize is this dream is for you, not your sister, even if she isn’t responsible. If you change your own self, then things will get much better for others. So what is probably happening in your mind is that you see someone acting without responsibility and then you go out into the future and see the consequences of it and realize that their lack of responsibility is going to affect you in an adverse way. At that point you get angry and try to get the person to change. In this case it is your sister but it could be others as well because this is a mental pattern.
What the dream is trying to tell you is that despite your good intentions to wake your sister up, the anger doesn’t work because you end up falling and hurting yourself. What you need to understand is that anger doesn’t get what you want it to get for you.
The way to solve the dream is actually something that you might not have thought of. Instead of focusing on your sister what is important to do is to focus on your own inner pregnancy, (not a real pregnancy), but you taken care of giving birth to something new like a new project or a new you. You can relax and get really excited about it and then it will change everything. You have to let go of trying to do anything about your sister because it just doesn’t work, but if you get excited about new things, then eventually she might also.
You are ready to give birth to new ideas or a new project or something so really go for it.
I’m hoping you can help me. I had a dream last night that I went to pick a friend up from work but he is trying to have a sexual relationship with me. I do not want this but we are friends. So I’m in my car. I have a newborn baby girl in my arms. She is very tiny wearing peach or light pink. she doesn’t cry at all. Then I am lost. End up on a roller coaster with him and the baby. Get back to my car and can’t find where we needed to go. I end up driving over a bridge with a calm river underneath but it’s the wrong way so I go in reverse. It is night time through the whole dream and i never put the baby down. Last I drop him off at his car and go home. My husband is there and we are fighting. I still have the baby in my arms. Like I’m trying to protect her. That’s all i can remember but what does this mean?
So it was one of those ones that started out where you’re sleeping, and my sister came home and she started puking and me and my mom ran to see if she was okay, and I guess she had ended up doing a vodka shooter at the bar and it made her sick because she’s pregnant, then after she got it all out of her system she came into my room with me and I got back into bed, and she started looking through my clothes and I was like what are you doing? And she was like ” this will be super cute for tonight” and I was like you’re actually gonna go out partying? And she was like well ya I found out everything was okay with my pregnancy so It doesn’t matter, and then she asked me if I had any cocaine, and I like couldn’t speak because I was so mad, and then I started yelling at her to grow up, and called her pathetic, and then she ran out the door and I ran onto my balcony, and I was running fast and I remember considering jumping off, but I don’t remember actually jumping I just wanted to stop her from going out, then all of a sudden I was falling hard and fast and I landed on my back. there was a ton of fresh snow and it was snowing outside even though it was summer. I felt so much pain, and I couldn’t move or yell for help and I was slowly losing consciousness and then my head fell into the snow and I kept sinking and I couldn’t breathe and then I could hear her footsteps going to her truck in the driveway, I was trying so hard to tell for help, and the door closing and her driving away and I woke up gasping for air.
A snake being shoved towards you means that you are having a changed shoved onto you that you probably don’t want to make. This could be like a move or change of job, etc.. Missing teeth or broken teeth means that you have some difficulties in thinking process that leads to decision making or change. Front teeth are what you bite into things with while back teeth are more about thinking about things for a long time before deciding. It is important to know which teeth are missing. If it is in combination with the snake it is probably your front teeth which will make it hard to accept new things.
Hello,
I have had 2 things that keeping coming u pin my dreams. One is broken teeth or missing teeth. and snakes being shoved towards me. Any ideas?
That makes perfect sense. “hanging the snake (change) around your neck and impregnated you with it” He is your boyfriend, which means you are not married, which means that you are undecided, but acting as if you are fully married. You are not satisfied with him sexually because you are not really that satisfied with him. You shouldn’t move as a couple until you feel really positive in the relationship. That is the basic principle. When you have the feeling more positive about him, then you can consider the move, but the change now is to be firm in your independence.
Hi Richard, thanks so much for that reply, I was terrified. how ever I think that I understand this in a way. my current relationship with my bf is not great but not bad either, like in silent mode or something. sometimes, lately more than ever it feels like he is pushing me to go where he wants to go and just go without an argument or a fuss. ( He wants me to move away with him and my daughter, and move closer to his family and to what he wants to do there) I see it as a bit selfish and I don’t see the benefits for me, away from my family, further away from my job (Which I hate, but have no choice) and I want to be independent to a degree where I can be sure that when he ever decides to walk away from us, that I can look after myself and my daughter, but if I were to move there with him, I’d be stripped of my independence a bit. I am not too sure if this is the message. In another sense I put myself in his position, he is the man after all, and men are the providers and the head of the house, I don’t want to strip him from that too. I have stripped him from his sexual confidence because I am hardly ever satisfied and yes I feel guilty about it but at the time I didn’t know how to handle it. i am in process of trying to fix that for us. since it seems like he doesn’t know what to do.
Jane,
Whenever you have a snake dream, just say to yourself right away that I need to make a big change in my life and the snake is the symbol for it. When you get fear connected to a snake as in your dream, then you know that the change related to the snake in the dream is negative. A snake is transformation oriented when it is positive because it sheds its skin which means it can let go of the past really easily and it has humility by the way it changes itself to go over what shape an object is.
So in your dream you are in the context of a Christian event where everyone is praising and worshiping. Then someone comes up to you and kisses you passionately and wraps a snake around your neck. This means that he is trying to make a connection with you so that you will change in the way he wants you to change. It is like he is trying to give you a new birth like being reborn the way he wants.
This is really the way people try to get you to believe what they want you to believe in the world to which you react with a lot of fear. They get you in a praising kind of frenzy and then when you are vulnerable they impregnate you with their way of doing things. It doesn’t have to be a Christian event. It could easily be a speaker in front of a group.
So when you are with any type of group that is trying to be get you to change in this way, there are a couple of keys to watch for. First of all, you have to detect if they are really interested in you or just interested in their own self. You know this by whether they are trying to convince you of something or if they are listening. If they are listening, then it is all good and you can stay there because they are interested in helping in the change process. The second is whether they are just talking or is the focus on service. If they are focused on serving rather than talking, then you know it is good.
In the new paradigm inspiration comes from the inside as opposed to a couple of inspired speakers and it is focused on action over words.
So if you want to make a big change in your life, which having a snake suggests, then the place to start is on the inside and in the arena of service to others.
name is Jane, I had the dream of the spider webs and now the snake.
Thanks for the previous reply, Richard. Seems like I had another dream worse than the one before. I’m truly upset by it this morning. I dreamed that I was at a christian event at a big hall. Everyone praised and worshiped. Including me. After the event a guy came and talk to me. He handed me a snake after he kissed me passionately. It felt intense and he draped the snake around my neck as a scarf. The snake hissed and impregnated me. The snake turned red and fell to my chest. What could this possibly mean….?
Being in a movie watching mode means that the fear you have is generated from seeing something terrible happening to someone else and then imagining that it is going to happen to you. The dream plays out what may be something like the worst fear you could imagine. It is good that you remember it because when you remember it, you can begin to work with it.
So when you see something bad happening to someone else in real life, the fear response in you is to think that the same thing might happen to you. This puts you in a fear state that makes you uncomfortable.
So the process that you need to learn is to stay out of the fear response and get into a space of being really helpful in her transformation. It is like it is not helpful when someone is in a terrible condition filled with fear and pain for you to go into a similar state. There are two things that the dream would be asking you to learn how to do which could take quite a bit of time but really worth it for your future life.
First is to be detached from the fear itself, that is, to not take it on. This means that you can see someone in a bad condition but not become fearful yourself. Next is to help them to get a place of safety which is relatively easily, and then begin to imagine what there life would be like if it were completely transformed into the positive opposite.
You probably have a gift of helping people change their lives, but you haven’t really fully got into it yet. I am just guessing about that. When you have a fearful dream, what you try to do is to get to the positive on the other end. The fear just tells you that you are at the beginning of developing a great new process in yourself, but you have to get beyond the fear first.
It really helps to get beyond a fear when you can imagine the really bright future on the other end of the fear. That gives you the motivation to work through it. Then you can go more quickly on the path to becoming the person you are meant to become.
Good luck. Stay detached. See the fear but be helpful.
Hi there,
I had a really disturbing dream last night, and normally I am not into my dreams/ their meanings, but this is just eating at me. It was rather short. I was watching a movie, only it was actually happening. Like it was a real movie, and I was there. I am not to sure of all of the details, but one specific part. I am staring at this girl, maybe about twenty or so. Her face is white (like the color white, not just white skin). I know she is on drugs. She has scissors stuck in the bottom of both of her eyes. Like slid under both of her eyeballs. Her eyes are wide open and full of blood, and she is just staring at me. Her mouth is also open and its full of blood. None running down her face, but full of blood. She almost looks happy or calm, but I know in the dream she should not feel this way, and I know she has either been drugged, or taken drugs. I get a really uneasy feeling like someone is going to do this to me in the dream. As if something sinister is going on, all the sudden its a party, I can see the figures of people all over, but its dark, and I can not make them out. I can only see her face. That’s the end. I woke up, and went back to sleep. I have been thinking about it all day, and feeling really uneasy. Any idea what this might mean? Any help would be great. Thanks so much
Jane, One way to look at the dream is that the child is you and you are trying to advance upward in your life. What you run into along the way are spider webs which are symbols for you of negative feminine power. So you probably had difficulties with particular women as a child that has made it difficult for you to forward and up.
Feminine power, which is symbolized in the webs, when it is positive is about making connections with others. Women traditional achieve by connecting with others, which is something men should do also. You had some negative spiders which prevents you from doing this process better. So I would say to give a lot of thought for the best way to connect with others.
Hi Richard,
I’ve been forgetting my dreams lately. I occasionally remember one though, here it goes.
I was holding a child in my hand, going up a straight steel stairwell and pulling away spider webs with every third step or so. It’s all I can remember…. (I do hate spiders)
Brandon,
This is a really interesting dream because you derived some positive feelings about despite no one being around in the parade. Basically the dream is trying to get you to learn how to give yourself positive self recognition for the positive things you are doing as if you were in a parade being cheered by thousands of people. Whenever you do something that is positive with positive intentions, it has a huge ripple effect even though you never see the results. Most positive acts never receive any recognition, but they really are extremely valuable. What you need is a way to have self recognition so that you will be really positive and do lots of great things that get zero recognition. When you remember the parade metaphor and hear the cheering voices in your head, it will be amazing how motivated you get.
Last night I had a dream that was in a open top car in a parade. I was waving up at the tall buildings and on the sides but not one person was there not even in the car with me. The reason I knew we in a parade because the car was moving slow with no traffic or stop lights. Although no one was there I felt just so happy and content. I remember saying in the dream ” If I could just know what it feel like to be parade like this” because I closed my eyes and imagined that there was hundreds of thousands people there waving and confetti flying just for me. I opened my eyes again still in the dream and see no one there but me again but I just felt so good in the car by myself because it like i knew in the dream that one day or just around the corner there would be massive crowds of people there just for me a confetti flying every where.
Thanks
There is a positive and negative aspect to the dream. The positive aspect is that when you speak against the storm, it goes away. The storm is a symbol of criticism because it is the negative force in the world that tries to makes its way to the top. A lot of people rise to the top through the use of criticism because it is a storm that people attend to. So when you speak against the storm, it is like you are doing what you can to eliminate criticism as a means of ascent.
The negative aspect of the dream is that you are preaching from the position of standing still and being up above others in the sky. It is much better position, if you want to have a hugely positive effect on people, to be on the ground with the people in a state of forward movement rather than standing still. There isn’t a connection between the preaching and the people becoming whole, but there is a connection between you facing your own inner storm of criticism and everyone being affected in a positive way.
The reason for having the dream twice is so that you will be sure to get the message. What is needed to make people whole are powerful deeds done amongst them. That is the healing work. It can be done when you face and deal with your own inner criticism that is like a storm.
You may be tempted to believe that preaching from the sky is what makes people whole, but that method has never worked. Walking with the people and doing your own spiritual work is the single most powerful transformational tool. The really positive thing about the dream is the ability to deal with the inner storm.
I was standing still in the sky preaching and teaching to thousands of people a large storm,s came up I spoke against the storm it disappear all the people fell to the ground I heard a voice say they are made whole then they all got up. I had this dream two time.
Bethel,
There are some really good parts and also some negative aspects of the dream that are important for you to attend to. The positive aspect of the dream is about Jlo. You are in a white room which signifies purity. Purity has to do with having positive and pure motives for doing things. Jlo represents going for something with a high degree of excellence and having a good motive. She can be like a role model for you, but really the energy she is calling on inside of you is excellence. Excellence is the ability to go after something with everything you have to reach a high goal.
Terrence Howard represents trying to go for something with the motive of making a lot of money quickly at the expense of someone else’s life. This is what the cocaine represents. Both he and Jlo make a lot of money, but their motives, according to the dream are exactly the opposite. That makes all the difference. The problem for you is that you are tempted by the quick money, but only don’t do it because of the fear of being caught.
So then when you start down the path of doing things for the wrong motive, you give up your virginity really easily, and then you get easily offended when you are trying to serve, and you end up in a place that is very meaningless and not fulfilling.
The question you have is what to do. The key is to keep your life pure and then have a lot of self-discipline to go after the things that are important to you and not slip into a life with the wrong motives. The bad motives for you in the dream are like trying to take the easy way out in life.
I would say that the place to start with a program of excellence is in deciding what you are particularly strong in and then working hard to develop there. When you gain confidence in yourself, then you can work in others. It may be in the area of dance, but I am not sure because don’t know enough about you. It is usually easiest to start wok in an area that is physical like dance because you can let go of negative energy with exercise and you can see progress immediately.
Feel free to ask more, Bethel. You have a great life in front of you.
Dear Richard
I’ve heard a lot about you and could you please interpret this dream for me. It all started in a white room, and for some reason Jlo was standing infront of me. she was dancing and walking backwarrds and i was following her. Then the white room changed into a gym and usher,cello,terrence howard and my brothers were waiting for me in a around table. I sat with them and Terrnce gave us each a pack of cocain to sell it. Everyone sold theirs but i dint. I was afraid that I’ll get caught and get deported. Them my brother suggested that i should sell them online. He also said that I’ll make $40,000 in 2 weeks. Then the scene changed and i was in a boys dorm some were. My friend’s boyfriend asked me if i could have sex with him and i said yes. We were in the bathtub and i asked him “why are you cheating on your girlfreind?” he said ‘”to piss her off”. For me, i dint do him to piss my friend off, i did it because i wanted to loss my virginity. Then again the scene changed and i was in a school that i volunteered at. This asian girl called me a negro, i got so mad, i almost punched her. She said about us sneaking in a building which i think it was a company that gave teens a job and i got rejected. We went in their and i saw kids working. 8 year olds packing stuff. I saw my bestfreind serving food but i dint say hi to her. Then we went into some sort of room and my freinds boyfreind (the one i slept with) was in a very high shelf and he drooped a big bag like a sack of hot cheetos.Then my whole freshmen class started celebreting over the rain of hot cheetos. I know its just a stupid dream but i dreamed it 4 times and i think its trying to tell me something. Could you help me please.