In my dream, I was at a gathering with friends and some families. I was walking by when I seen a close friend of mine walking with two girls. He reached out his arms and held hands with both of them. I thought it was very strange because he’s not the type to do a thing like that, he’s more mature and usually walks alone. I then sat at a table with friends, including him and the strange girls. A ridiculous argument had risen between my sister and I, that stirred the table. (Some friends were speaking of Santa Claus and describing him. Someone mentioned his being big, and my sister quietly said that’s mean with a shy smile. So I asked her “How is it mean? It’s true!” And she said “yall said he’s fat, that’s rude”). Then I had mistakenly yelled something incorrectly (I yelled “well what do you expect us to say? That’s how he’s known! He’s Fat Clause! — instead of saying Santa Clause, I was caught in the argument and said Fat Clause instead.) and we all just burst into hysterical laughter. Tables were tipped, people fell from their chairs, and did ridiculous things in laughter (like one of those shows where an Idiot is on top of the other, choking and banging the head of the other, as they both laugh hysterically) for a long while.
Then in another part of my dream, I was in a room with balcony wooden-shutter doors. They were open, and right outside it led a short deck to an ocean with sand low beneath the deck. Their was a big guy dressed like a fisher, standing at the end of it. I walked out and he was showing me how to do something, maybe throw the pole or something. Then after, I don’t remember if it’s the reason I ran or went inside, but I went back in the room. When I did, I noticed the waves getting bigger and closer on shore. Then a big wave came crashing over the deck, towards my room, and I quickly ran to shut the doors before it came. I wasn’t scared or panicked, just worried for the room because the bed and carpet, everything would be soaked. The doors opened and another huge wave came crashing in, blocking the doorway and into the room. I don’t remember anything after that.
Dear Christine,
In this dream you are trying to figure out how to deal with negative argument producing talk and also how to deal with criticism. The argument seems to have resolved itself in the dream with laughter, which means that when it comes to arguing or making a point, you don’t take offense or react too strongly to the opinions of others.
The wave coming into your house represents a wave of criticism which really disturbs things. The more is left undealty with, the bigger the waves become and then more negative water disturbs your own self. What needs to happen with all criticism is to have a big wave of positive encouragement. Criticism grows and takes over when there is not enough recognition and appreciation for the positive in the environment. The best strategy is to constantly find positive in others and tell them.
I had another dream days ago right after the shark dream, the very next day. Goodness something must really be mysteriously odd this point of time. Anyway since that dream nothing. So its as if nothing. You just never know when it wants to come to you. Thank you. I hope you could get back to me soonest on this dream.
Anyway the dream below
I was in some other dream first I think cause I can’t remember but I was with a friend and another girl person in some settings doing things and talking can’t remember what, it was a gloomy like sun set ambient or lesser in hue meaning dimmer, in some building or what not, but at the end, I phased into another thing maybe or was it a flow. I can’t remember.
As I was all a sudden in a middle of a lake facing a shore which was further off me. I was sitting in something. It was awfully quiet and still like a dead place. It was so stiff and still you can’t hear anything and it gave me chills as I didn’t wanna find out what might just pop out the water and my only option was to obviously get to shore quickly if I didn’t wanna sit and wait for what would happen next. I don’t even know what I was sitting in and it must have been a boat, I don’t think it had paddles for me to move and I wouldn’t want to put my hand in the water to move the ‘boat’, it’ll give splashes and I felt vulnerable to have hands in the water to push my way to shore. In this dead like untouched or unfounded or abandoned whatever you might call it type of ‘place’. So I moved my lower body to and fro in my sitting position, to push me forward and to my surprise I was gliding somewhat like a skate board and stopping, before it stopped again I moved my lower body again to move again and repeatedly till I reached the shore, of course I got off and quickly discreetly wanted to get far from that shore, but when I reached it seemed like a bank of the lake, it was a walkable steep slope upward meaning I have to walk upwards on that slope which wasn’t a flat land as I thought. So it was like a higher ground beside the lake. Okay this earthy slope had individual darkish green plants growing from it. They looked quite tall and long meaning maybe half my legs height and the plant looks like two long slim leaves coiled or folded together which were those hard surface leaf, not those soft leaves which easily get crushed. So those two coiled leaves for plants where all arranged scattered individually on the sloppy bank in dark green.
If you have seen how corn looks like wrapped in its leaf you would have an idea this is something like that but not quite also as it looked like two slim long and hard leaf folded together which makes the plant. And I don’t think there was anything inside it and it was dark green and many of it settling two inches away from one and other on the soil of the up hill bank/shore/slope.
Anyway I woke up after focusing on the plant. And the setting was very dim and bit gloom, I think the lake was dim pale green however the soil of the earth at the bank slope was rich brown slight red. And the green plant was just rich darkish green prominently.
Dear Jane,
In this dream you have a problem because of the nature of the water, not because of your own self. The fact that you got away so easily means that you were not completely dysfunctional in the situation. You could move away from the dead environment. You could also focus on the plant.
The problem is that you found yourself in a negative dead environment and then with a steep slope to get out. The solution for you is to be more proactive in getting into environments that are full of life and growth opportunities. Try to avoid being in places where the people’s spirits are as if they are dead. That is what the gloomy lake represents. You need life and growth opportunities and you have to be proactive rather than letting life happen to you.
In my dream, I was at a new place my family just got. I was in my room, which had a small opening in the ceiling to see the night sky. I was walking towards my door and looked up at the black sky when a circle of light appeared out of nowhere. I immediately got a little scared because I had my suspicions that it was something bad, because I was in a dim setting and it was strangely quiet, already eery. Then suddenly an array of lights appeared in the shape of what appeared to be the front of a triangle, and it swiftly moved. It was a UFO! I was once told that if one sees you, you’ll be abducted, so I immediately began a panic as I struggled to unlock and open my bedroom door to get out and run for my mom. I wanted to run and scream for help as soon as I got out, ready to explain what was currently happening.. but as it hovered, I suddenly felt my throat close up, and I knew I had to hurry because the UFO was stopping my inability to scream, and I felt muffled. I finally got out and ran for another room, but it had windows. So I ran for my sister’s room, which was strangely small and had no windows because it was in the middle of the house, but if felt safer because nothing could see in. I can’t remember what happened afterward, but I didn’t get abducted. All I remember is I begged my sister to stay in the room because nobody else was home and anything could happen.
I can only remember part of my dream which was like an ocean maybe as it’s all waters and with huge great white sharks maybe 3 i don’t remember and it was close up to me. And also in the water surface, and under up front me. Waters were dark. Not sunlight waters. But it wasn’t night either. It’s just a gloom but waters and sharks could be seen clear.
Can’t remember the rest or any sequence.
Also on a long highway to somewhere away by car, and finally reaching a jam. Many cars blocking the road. Up ahead massive flood and a overhead bridge on the left, under the bridge a junction and with a big drain i think or sewer and a big fat pipe from it with water gushing out into the drain, however I doubt that caused the flood as the drain wasn’t full of water as I could see from its surface or i wouldn’t know it was a drain or sewer, and there was multitudes of cars all jammed up and further up cars were under water and one was moving under water with its car roof seen gliding. A man referee standing on a car controlling traffic with a whistle. Myself and others I know were standing on one car and they 3 jumped in the water to cross the flood i guess. And when I was about to jump referee told me to make sure I got everything like torch light etc. Hmm, and I was getting those quickly from a ‘bag in hand’ i guess, to transfer into my pocket and jump. And before that I woke up.
Water looked muddy like those flood waters. And those 3 with me aren’t people am close to or talk to in real life. I think the main thing is the water, journey to get away or get somewhere, and I’ve dreamt of great whites before.
Dear Jane,
The sharks and dark waters represent people with really aggressive motives ready to negative things in your environment. The goal of this kind of dream is do the opposite which is to aggressive positively and bring lots of light to relationships.
The flood is the kind of disaster shark-like people create. The referee represents the energy that you have to have in dealing with the sharks and flood which is proper caution and a lot of wisdom. Sharks are good predators (sharks as people. ) They are usually better at what they do in a negative way than people who are positive can do in a positive way. This is why you need caution and wisdom so that you are guided properly. Eventually you will be able to do your really positive work in a positively aggressive way, but first you need a lot of wisdom in dealing with them.
Towards the end of my dream, my family was at a friend’s house. We were moving things and they had told me that for now, they moved my couch to my friend’s annoying brother’s room, so I got mad and went to to go take it back. I didn’t find it and he was bothering me somehow, so I started angrily clenching my teeth, till I felt a something tight! I ran for the nearest bathroom in search for floss to maybe fix the feeling of something wedged in my teeth, but no luck, so I checked my teeth in the mirror. They seemed fine, but I knew something was wrong. Then I spotted it, a wiggling tooth on the top set. I looked at my other teeth one more time, then when I came back to it, realized that other tooth was gone! Even worse, it was noticeably in the front, so I panicked when I could see that it was easily seen when I smiled. Then out of nowhere when I put my teeth together, Not clenching though, they just all crumbled out into my hand! Now this is where I thought in disbelief “ok this HAS to be a dream, my teeth can’t just all fall out,” I looked at my gums with little chips of teeth, worried, “Right? At least I hope this is a dream.” Then I woke up shortly after.
Dear Patricia,
First of all when you notice that you are dreaming when you are dreaming, this is called being lucid in a dream or lucid dreaming. What is good about it is that you can do the same thing in your waking life. When you are having a negative moment in real life, you can be lucid about it, wake up from the negative feelings and then change them. In the dream you are angry at the way the thing that could give you comfort, the couch, is moved to a place that is really annoying to you. Think about the couch as a metaphor for those things that give you comfort and ease. What annoys you is when those things are taken away and given to someone you loathe. So the first work you have to do with yourself is to get control over the things that bring you comfort rather than others having control over them.
When you lose control and they have it and they do whatever they want, you end up clinching your teeth and they begin to loosen and fall out. Teeth are symbols of decision making and making choices so when they fall out, you lose that ability. You can keep your teeth simply by relaxing finding your own inner comfort and ease all the time. A lot of people do practice like meditation or yoga to find inner comfort. I like to do a lot of running. Each person has their way to find it.
Dear Nina i dreamt of my dissabled brother and my dissabled friend but they were both ok. then I bought an umbrella from 2 old people a man and a women I gave the old man R35.00 for the umbrella then I noticed
that he cant see then he said the money was shot then I have him more then noticed that the amount was now R45.00 then decided to take the umbrella that fitted the amount. when I went back to school I decided to open the umbrella only to find out that the umbrella has holes in it then I woke up what does this mean.
Dear Mpumi,
When you see that the disabled people are ok, it means that their souls are in tact. Though they may have a physical disability, spiritually they are ok. An umbrella symbolically is something that you use to protect yourself from the rain. Rain, when it is negative, is a symbol for all of those things that dampen your enthusiasm and excitement in life. You are trying to protect yourself from this, but no matter what you spend in energy or time to protect yourself, you still get rained on because of the holes. A better strategy is the same one that disabled people often use. Despite their disability they remain optimistic and enthusiastic. They forget the handicap and then just go forward in life. The strategy that can work for you is to forget the rain and work instead on your inner enthusiasm and excitement as if it were a great big sun. When you are always enthusiastic despite the outward conditions, your life is always joyful and happy.
this is a lot and the content is kind of sexual so please proceed with caution. i also have a history of sexual abuse so that may play a role in your interpretation.
So we had a big family reunion at my grandpa’s house. It was fun because there was a lot of cool stuff to do
But there was also other big houses surrounding my grandpa’s house too
I wandered off somehow and got lost inside his house and went down to the basement where there was construction going on
I go down there and there’s a massive gay orgy going on between the construction workers
I’m very confused and the men are looking at me like I am next.
There’s also teen boys there fighting and blocking the door and when I tried to get out they tried to fight me
Somehow I get out and there’s all these different houses and for some reason I can’t find my grandpa’s even though I just got out of his basement ??
Ok then I see this house with a bunch of kids outside playing and I’m like, that’s it that has to be it
I go in there and it’s a bunch of creepily dressed adults sitting at these dining tables
This couple comes up to me at the door and they’re like “what’s the password” and I back away and about to take off running
They’re like throwing things at me and yelling things and they’re dressed in all black like they’re at a funeral
I’m freaking out then suddenly the lady is like helping me find my grandpa’s house
And I’m there talking about how terrible everything is and how children are being exploited in these houses
I end up in my grandpa’s basement for a brief time
I miraculously escape (again) and end up in an empty amusement park ??
My mom is with me and we go on this ride and I tell her that “some bad things are going on in grandpa’s house” but I don’t remember telling her about the surrounding houses
and that’s when it ended.
Oh and I just remembered when I first went into the basement these 2 construction workers were like kicking this white object around to each other and one of them passed it to me, which I wasn’t able to catch but then I think I did and kicked it back but horribly
Then one of the guys (he had blonde hair and blue eyes) started attacking me
Dear Nina,
When you have a dream about a basement and it is negative and fearful, it means that you are experience the lower nature or ego in your grandfather’s self. This is like his dark side. He probably also has a really positive higher nature, but this dream is an education for you about the darkness. The darkness is the culture of men, which is like rough construction workers. The gay part is that their negative domineering behavior is like having a gay orgy. They don’t want to give up the male dominance. The purpose of the dream is for you to recognize this in your family so that you can become detached from it and then seek a newer more enlightened path based upon equality and true intimacy. The darkness in the men is something you fear and something that you need to have a lot of wisdom about in dealing with because they won’t easily give up their old dark ways where they dominated even though it is not to their benefit in the long run. The sexual abuse history will make it difficult for you to be empowered in a strong way to get to the kind of equal relationships that you would seek. The best thing I can recommend is to go to a therapist that really works for you so that you can learn to trust others, feel safe, and not fall for fake love.
Dear Edna,
Bears, when they are aggressive and negative, mean that you are fighting with some kind of strong abusive energy from someone in your life. The purpose of the dream is get you to stop fighting and learn how to become strong inwardly like a bear. Then you will feel super empowered to achieve whatever you set your mind on because nothing will get in your way. It is important that you feel protected from any external negative force like people trying to force their will on you, then do the work it takes to become a strong bear. Most people need help becoming a bear inside because they usually have some kind of trauma to overcome.
Hi I had a dream that I was doing a little girls hair for school also I’m in the house I live in she had bleach blond hair about four years old big brown eyes I was just woundering what it means
Dear Kala,
The girl represents the child-like energy inside of you that wants to appear about in the world. Child-like energy has a lot of enthusiasm and curiosity. These are things you need to make your life work right now.
Hi.I hope tou help beacause im not feeling good since yesterday.
I had a dream about me staying in a cemetery,with a lot of people but i went there accidentally.After a few minutes staying there,i turned my head and saw lot of closed coffins.than inwas walking out of cemetry and i met my younger sister 15 years old,ou of cemetery it was a fiels full of tulips and it started to rain.than i was runing in the rain and met my 4 year old brother and felt worried about him.I took him with me and he wasn’t wearing any shoes so i found a pair of them in front of a stranger house for him to wear.than i left with him,worried.and woke up also worried.
Dear Ana,
Here is a quick interpretation of your dream. A cemetery is a place associated and symbolic of death. It is as if you are in a dead place in your life by accident. Even when you go with your sister to a happy place, a field of tulips, you get rained on, which in a way deadens the joy. When you stay in the rain-filled, death-like emotions, you also worry about your youngest brother. What you need to do, which will help you a lot, is to change the scene in your mind from a cemetery to a happier place like the beach or a beautiful park. Then you also need to get out of the rain and into the sunshine in your life.
This is all mental habits, but it will help if you actually go to uplifting places that are sunny. You need to change the mental habits of negative and darker thinking to positive and brighter think. Then your life will really work for you.
Hi. I am hoping you can help me. I had a dream this morning that has left me confused. There was a man that said he is a reaper & is here to reap my brother. He said I had to go with him. Next thing I know we are in a car driving on the freeway. While on the freeway I see a man who was on the news…the police say he kidnaped his 4 month old daughter…in my dream I see this man & a little girl. There is some thing, man?, Deanna, I don’t know but, he wraps himself around the man while I open my car door & grab the little girl to save her. Next to happen is we arrive in a hospital where my brother is. I’m told he was in a car accident, though outwardly it does not look like it. My brother looks much younger than his actual age. He says he is fine but I can tell he’s in pain. Then I woke up because a door slammed. What does all this mean?
Hi Janet,
Normally a reaper would by like the grim reaper which means he would be taking your brother to the next world because he was going to die. In your dream the reaper helps you to save the kidnapped girl and then you go to the hospital to see your brother. What this means is that you have an extraordinary ability to help people out of really difficult situations as if you are getting supernatural help. Your brother seems to need your help now because of something that happened to him when he was younger. You can help him.
I dreamt I was having problems with my lower lady parts so I went to the doctor for an exam. Upon conclusion of the exam the doctor told me that I have breast cancer. Since I was there by myself and in shock the doctor held me for a while and let me cry. I came home and told my boyfriend and he told me that my insurance wouldn’t cover my treatments. Then I woke up.
Dear Desiree,
What is really interesting about your dream, Desiree, is the structure of the dream, not necessarily the parts of your body. The structure of the dream indicates that you have a pattern in your mind that makes things go from uncomfortable to really bad to worse. If you understand how the pattern works inside of you, then you can reverse and have things go from comfortable to really positive to even better. Your “lower lady parts” are metaphorically where you experience the most intimate and blissful feelings because it is where you get an orgasm in sex. Breasts are where you do nurturing because they give milk to a baby.
So when you are feeling positive about getting really close to others, then you can really nurture abilities in others, and then it will make you financially secure. This indicates that your income source has a lot to do with getting closer to others and nurturing them. I don’t know how exactly. I am just reading what the dream says when you turn it into a positive. You can get really excited about this because it just means that you need to work on getting closer to others. You are probably naturally already good at it. Then things will go from good to better to amazing.
I am gay in real life. I haven’t come out to my parents yet but my sibling know and accept me for who I am. My mother lobes me a lot.I dreamt that my mother was going through my things in my room and suddenly she saw a picture of me and a girl kissing each other. She came to me and showed me the photograph and got very angry. And she was screaming that-“Steffi how can you be gay?” Then I woke up.
Dear Stefanie,
In the dream your mother asks a really interesting question at the end (if you take out her anger and shock). She asks you how you can be gay? It is a really interesting question. When you do dream work, you always have to start in the spiritual world and then move gradually to the real world as in real time and space. In the real world you are attracted to other females sexually. In the spiritual/emotional world you are frightened to let your mother know because you are fearful that it is going to interrupt the bond you have with her. You love her and she loves you, but you are playing out in the dream what her reaction is going to be if you tell her. It can’t be very easy for you and it won’t be easy for her. The first step you are going to need to make is to switch the perspectives you are taking. Instead of you being fearful of her reaction and her lack of acceptance of you, you can flip it. There is a part of you that does not accept your mother for who she is, and she has done a really good job in the family to keep it secret. She is hiding something about herself and you have to find out what it is. The problem you have is that when you find out, you are going to have a hard time accepting it. When you do accept her fully, then talking about being gay will be relatively easily and you will be able to both ask important questions of each other. It takes a great deal of openness to get to the deeper stuff so be sure that you are prepared for it. If you do the more traditional way, which is to just come out and say you are gay, it will be really difficult for your relationship with her. She has stuff she is hiding that she wants to share with someone. Best if it is you.
Hello.
In my waking life I live in a an apartment alone away from my parents. I am studying in college. They live in another state. I saw a dream yesterday and it was really scary. In that dream I saw that while I was trying to sleep a ghost(or spirit) came and it was a girl dressed in black with long black hair and I saw her pacing through the room. I tried to catch her but couldn’t. I tried to stop her but couldn’t. She was running very fast throughout the room. I thought that it’s not real. So I took a blanket and slept in my bed but then I saw that she came near me and pulled me by my leg and I was screaming. She was dragging me along the floor but then she disappeared. I then went to my bed and tried to sleep again but the same thing happened. Then I thought I need to get out of this room asap. So I tried to quickly get out of the room. She tried to hold me back and stop me from going out but I managed to go out of the room and I took a blanket and pillow along with me. I went to my landlady’s room and told her what happened. She laughed at me. She didn’t believe me. Then I woke up.
Note: I couldn’t see the face of the spirit but I know it was a girl.
Hello, the past week I have dreamt about a different significant ex. From yearssss ago 3 in total.Now the past two nights the same one, my most recent ex who I am also pregnant by. Last nights dream was kinda a blur now. But I dreamt I drove out to some grassland and had set some alligators or crocodiles free. I was walking amongst them not scared one bit. And then I got back in my truck I Remember having to shut the door really quick so the alligator or croc wouldn’t try and get back in the truck with me I knew they needed to stay where I had took them. Then I go back home and end up with my most recent ex and we proceed to sexually arouse each other. Then I end up in a class room as a student with some people I haven’t seen in a while. My youngest son was also present with me in the classroom. (I’m nearly 30 now ) In waking life I’m being pressured to have an abortion by my family. They don’t think it’s a good idea to have a baby again by some one who left me. I don’t believe in abortions. Also I have this feeling in waking life that I’m soon going to pass this baby by miscarriage. I don’t feel
Pregnant anymore. And I also dreamt the night before last I had a miscarriage. And my most recent ex was in that dream as well.
Hi The reason that you keep dreaming about your ex boyfriends is that you keep making the same kind of mistake in your relationships. The ex boyfriends are represented by the alligators. You set them free which is the right thing to do, but then you go right back to being sexually aroused by one of them as if you never learned anything from previous relationship. You keep attracting alligators, which are men that lurk, see where you are vulnerable, and then pounce. When they leave, you are left with all of the responsibility. You are right to keep the baby at least to not get an abortion.
You seem to have a vulnerability to men who are not so responsible. They probably promise you love and the sex feels good like a drug so you go after it, but it is just going to keep you getting you in a big mess. It seems to me that you are an otherwise positive person and have quite a bit together, but you don’t have a very good selection process with men. You especially need to stay out of bed with men until you can see their true character, especially their ability to take on a man’s true responsibility for his family.
This is not an easy issue to solve by yourself or with your family alone. You would benefit a lot from good professional help so that you can keep yourself strong.
Thank you for your response. Greatly appreciated. As far as sex I actually hate it. Hate giving myself away, I tend to avoid it with excuses..The selection in men definitely though you are correct, It sucks badly and never ends well on my end. Been dealing with an alligator for 4 years 😞 Thanks again 🙂
My leg is hurt in real life and prohibits me from walking and driving. In my dream, I was over at a delanghy’s house from school with a bunch of other girls from school (Kat, Sam, Shelby, Maddi, is all I can remember), and Nick. They all decided they wanted to go somewhere, but there wasn’t room in their cars to drive me, so I insisted they go on ahead, and they promised they would be quick. I expected Nick to stay back with me because he only knew Kat, but he decided to go with them. It made me extremely upset, but he went anyways. I stayed back and delanghy’s house and waited, and eventually fell asleep because I was exhausted. I was woken up by all of them coming into the house, and I turned to the clock and it said 1 a. m., which was 5 1/2 hours later than they originally said they would be out. When they came in they were all happy and laughing and talking, and when they saw me they joked and laughed and said they forgot I was there. I broke out into tears, and grabbed my car keys and started heading toward the door to leave (Idk how I was able to walk and drive because of my leg), and I turned around and saw Nick sitting super close to all of them and laughing and talking. I asked him why he went with them, and he said they are more fun than you and then started laughing. I turned around to leave, hysterically crying, and he stood up and came over to me and asked where I was going, and I told him to go back to his 14 girlfriends and I was going home. He then said, “well if you insist”, and turned around to walk back to the bed without any hesitation. I ran out of the house and to my car, and sped off. While I was driving I was trying to come up with a way that I could instantly kill myself by crashing my car, and then I woke up.
Dear Lily Beth,
In real life you cannot move because of a physical problem, but in the dream world you found out in a negative manner that you are capable of moving quite easily. If you would have known in the dream that you are capable of moving in a non-physical (spiritual) environment, the dream would have had a different outcome. You would have been with them the whole time and you wouldn’t have been left out. What this tells you is that, despite your physical limitations, you are capable of moving in the non-physical world. This means, in this case, that you have the ability to include yourself with others. To do this you have to believe you can. You can because you offer to them something that no one else has. When you figure that out, you will never be excluded.
I dreamed 3 times about a tall handsome man with dimples staring at me and smiling… I can see him from head to toe… and I’m wondering in my head why is this guy staring at me but he say nothing… the third dream finally again he look and state but nothing, then finally just before I woke up he asked me “why do you put up with that?” The back ground look as if it was a resturant but not sure…
Dear Chicha,
In this dream you are being shown that you have the ability to attract men into your life, but you don’t have the ability to initiate action with them. They are standing there, but you are waiting for them to say something to you. If you would just be the one to initiate and make the first steps, then he will have the chance to reciprocate. Most people are fearful of initiating even when attracted because they are fearful of rejection. Go forward.
Richard your correct….I always felt there was another me inside that’s not afraid, that I keep from coming out… That’s on the surface…I will have to look deep inside and find out about my work place..you brought up something I never considered. thanks..
Hello.
I am very worried about this dream I just saw. I woke up in a sweat. It was horrible. In the dream,I saw that I am in love with a witch(or magician,I don’t know the exact term but she does magic and she’s a very powerful one at that and she was very beautiful). So what I did is cast a love spell on her to get her love and attention. But then I saw that she got angry and sent a man whose height was very small. That man can to our house to kill me probably or attack I don’t know. I fought it and my parents were there with me too fighting him and protecting me. But I was in the front and fighting him with a sword and I cut his two hands off. And my mother threw an egg at him. And he licked the yolk and one of his hands grew back again.So mom decided not to throw any more eggs at him. Then he went back. I am very scared to be honest. I hope you will be able to interpret it.
Dear Marie,
This is a dream about having to deal with black or dark energy that appears like magic. In real life dark magic is the negative ability of people to take a darkness or weakness in someone else and then use it to their advantage for their own personal gain. In your dream you are so frightened by it that you don’t know what to do other than try to make the person love you, but they see you are really full of fear so that they go after you. Even when you try to destroy them, they are more powerful than you and try to come after you. In actual life there are people who do this by manipulating friends and others to get what they want for their own gain. They are not at all interested in helping or benefiting others. They are completely self-oriented. They get to you by trying to turn others against you or trying to make you look really bad in the eyes of others, and at the same time making themselves look as if they are in the good. It is really negative stuff so you should respect what they can do. What works with them is to build your own positive relationships with others that is not self-serving but beneficial to others. In others words, you build relationships where you are uplifting people and helping them without selfish motives. As soon as you have motives that are impure or selfish, they know how to get to you. It is what they are good at. Work on your positive relationships with others and leave the manipulators out of your life.
Thank you for your response. It’s very detailed and I agree with you and thanks for such a great advice,trying to implement it wholeheartedly in my life.
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In my dream, I was at a gathering with friends and some families. I was walking by when I seen a close friend of mine walking with two girls. He reached out his arms and held hands with both of them. I thought it was very strange because he’s not the type to do a thing like that, he’s more mature and usually walks alone. I then sat at a table with friends, including him and the strange girls. A ridiculous argument had risen between my sister and I, that stirred the table. (Some friends were speaking of Santa Claus and describing him. Someone mentioned his being big, and my sister quietly said that’s mean with a shy smile. So I asked her “How is it mean? It’s true!” And she said “yall said he’s fat, that’s rude”). Then I had mistakenly yelled something incorrectly (I yelled “well what do you expect us to say? That’s how he’s known! He’s Fat Clause! — instead of saying Santa Clause, I was caught in the argument and said Fat Clause instead.) and we all just burst into hysterical laughter. Tables were tipped, people fell from their chairs, and did ridiculous things in laughter (like one of those shows where an Idiot is on top of the other, choking and banging the head of the other, as they both laugh hysterically) for a long while.
Then in another part of my dream, I was in a room with balcony wooden-shutter doors. They were open, and right outside it led a short deck to an ocean with sand low beneath the deck. Their was a big guy dressed like a fisher, standing at the end of it. I walked out and he was showing me how to do something, maybe throw the pole or something. Then after, I don’t remember if it’s the reason I ran or went inside, but I went back in the room. When I did, I noticed the waves getting bigger and closer on shore. Then a big wave came crashing over the deck, towards my room, and I quickly ran to shut the doors before it came. I wasn’t scared or panicked, just worried for the room because the bed and carpet, everything would be soaked. The doors opened and another huge wave came crashing in, blocking the doorway and into the room. I don’t remember anything after that.
Dear Christine,
In this dream you are trying to figure out how to deal with negative argument producing talk and also how to deal with criticism. The argument seems to have resolved itself in the dream with laughter, which means that when it comes to arguing or making a point, you don’t take offense or react too strongly to the opinions of others.
The wave coming into your house represents a wave of criticism which really disturbs things. The more is left undealty with, the bigger the waves become and then more negative water disturbs your own self. What needs to happen with all criticism is to have a big wave of positive encouragement. Criticism grows and takes over when there is not enough recognition and appreciation for the positive in the environment. The best strategy is to constantly find positive in others and tell them.
Sorry the name being Jane. Ann is my calling name. You can see from the email address. Same person.
Hi Richard,
I had another dream days ago right after the shark dream, the very next day. Goodness something must really be mysteriously odd this point of time. Anyway since that dream nothing. So its as if nothing. You just never know when it wants to come to you. Thank you. I hope you could get back to me soonest on this dream.
Anyway the dream below
I was in some other dream first I think cause I can’t remember but I was with a friend and another girl person in some settings doing things and talking can’t remember what, it was a gloomy like sun set ambient or lesser in hue meaning dimmer, in some building or what not, but at the end, I phased into another thing maybe or was it a flow. I can’t remember.
As I was all a sudden in a middle of a lake facing a shore which was further off me. I was sitting in something. It was awfully quiet and still like a dead place. It was so stiff and still you can’t hear anything and it gave me chills as I didn’t wanna find out what might just pop out the water and my only option was to obviously get to shore quickly if I didn’t wanna sit and wait for what would happen next. I don’t even know what I was sitting in and it must have been a boat, I don’t think it had paddles for me to move and I wouldn’t want to put my hand in the water to move the ‘boat’, it’ll give splashes and I felt vulnerable to have hands in the water to push my way to shore. In this dead like untouched or unfounded or abandoned whatever you might call it type of ‘place’. So I moved my lower body to and fro in my sitting position, to push me forward and to my surprise I was gliding somewhat like a skate board and stopping, before it stopped again I moved my lower body again to move again and repeatedly till I reached the shore, of course I got off and quickly discreetly wanted to get far from that shore, but when I reached it seemed like a bank of the lake, it was a walkable steep slope upward meaning I have to walk upwards on that slope which wasn’t a flat land as I thought. So it was like a higher ground beside the lake. Okay this earthy slope had individual darkish green plants growing from it. They looked quite tall and long meaning maybe half my legs height and the plant looks like two long slim leaves coiled or folded together which were those hard surface leaf, not those soft leaves which easily get crushed. So those two coiled leaves for plants where all arranged scattered individually on the sloppy bank in dark green.
If you have seen how corn looks like wrapped in its leaf you would have an idea this is something like that but not quite also as it looked like two slim long and hard leaf folded together which makes the plant. And I don’t think there was anything inside it and it was dark green and many of it settling two inches away from one and other on the soil of the up hill bank/shore/slope.
Anyway I woke up after focusing on the plant. And the setting was very dim and bit gloom, I think the lake was dim pale green however the soil of the earth at the bank slope was rich brown slight red. And the green plant was just rich darkish green prominently.
Dear Jane,
In this dream you have a problem because of the nature of the water, not because of your own self. The fact that you got away so easily means that you were not completely dysfunctional in the situation. You could move away from the dead environment. You could also focus on the plant.
The problem is that you found yourself in a negative dead environment and then with a steep slope to get out. The solution for you is to be more proactive in getting into environments that are full of life and growth opportunities. Try to avoid being in places where the people’s spirits are as if they are dead. That is what the gloomy lake represents. You need life and growth opportunities and you have to be proactive rather than letting life happen to you.
In my dream, I was at a new place my family just got. I was in my room, which had a small opening in the ceiling to see the night sky. I was walking towards my door and looked up at the black sky when a circle of light appeared out of nowhere. I immediately got a little scared because I had my suspicions that it was something bad, because I was in a dim setting and it was strangely quiet, already eery. Then suddenly an array of lights appeared in the shape of what appeared to be the front of a triangle, and it swiftly moved. It was a UFO! I was once told that if one sees you, you’ll be abducted, so I immediately began a panic as I struggled to unlock and open my bedroom door to get out and run for my mom. I wanted to run and scream for help as soon as I got out, ready to explain what was currently happening.. but as it hovered, I suddenly felt my throat close up, and I knew I had to hurry because the UFO was stopping my inability to scream, and I felt muffled. I finally got out and ran for another room, but it had windows. So I ran for my sister’s room, which was strangely small and had no windows because it was in the middle of the house, but if felt safer because nothing could see in. I can’t remember what happened afterward, but I didn’t get abducted. All I remember is I begged my sister to stay in the room because nobody else was home and anything could happen.
Hi Richard,
I can only remember part of my dream which was like an ocean maybe as it’s all waters and with huge great white sharks maybe 3 i don’t remember and it was close up to me. And also in the water surface, and under up front me. Waters were dark. Not sunlight waters. But it wasn’t night either. It’s just a gloom but waters and sharks could be seen clear.
Can’t remember the rest or any sequence.
Also on a long highway to somewhere away by car, and finally reaching a jam. Many cars blocking the road. Up ahead massive flood and a overhead bridge on the left, under the bridge a junction and with a big drain i think or sewer and a big fat pipe from it with water gushing out into the drain, however I doubt that caused the flood as the drain wasn’t full of water as I could see from its surface or i wouldn’t know it was a drain or sewer, and there was multitudes of cars all jammed up and further up cars were under water and one was moving under water with its car roof seen gliding. A man referee standing on a car controlling traffic with a whistle. Myself and others I know were standing on one car and they 3 jumped in the water to cross the flood i guess. And when I was about to jump referee told me to make sure I got everything like torch light etc. Hmm, and I was getting those quickly from a ‘bag in hand’ i guess, to transfer into my pocket and jump. And before that I woke up.
Water looked muddy like those flood waters. And those 3 with me aren’t people am close to or talk to in real life. I think the main thing is the water, journey to get away or get somewhere, and I’ve dreamt of great whites before.
Error: never dreamt of great whites before.
Dear Jane,
The sharks and dark waters represent people with really aggressive motives ready to negative things in your environment. The goal of this kind of dream is do the opposite which is to aggressive positively and bring lots of light to relationships.
The flood is the kind of disaster shark-like people create. The referee represents the energy that you have to have in dealing with the sharks and flood which is proper caution and a lot of wisdom. Sharks are good predators (sharks as people. ) They are usually better at what they do in a negative way than people who are positive can do in a positive way. This is why you need caution and wisdom so that you are guided properly. Eventually you will be able to do your really positive work in a positively aggressive way, but first you need a lot of wisdom in dealing with them.
Towards the end of my dream, my family was at a friend’s house. We were moving things and they had told me that for now, they moved my couch to my friend’s annoying brother’s room, so I got mad and went to to go take it back. I didn’t find it and he was bothering me somehow, so I started angrily clenching my teeth, till I felt a something tight! I ran for the nearest bathroom in search for floss to maybe fix the feeling of something wedged in my teeth, but no luck, so I checked my teeth in the mirror. They seemed fine, but I knew something was wrong. Then I spotted it, a wiggling tooth on the top set. I looked at my other teeth one more time, then when I came back to it, realized that other tooth was gone! Even worse, it was noticeably in the front, so I panicked when I could see that it was easily seen when I smiled. Then out of nowhere when I put my teeth together, Not clenching though, they just all crumbled out into my hand! Now this is where I thought in disbelief “ok this HAS to be a dream, my teeth can’t just all fall out,” I looked at my gums with little chips of teeth, worried, “Right? At least I hope this is a dream.” Then I woke up shortly after.
Dear Patricia,
First of all when you notice that you are dreaming when you are dreaming, this is called being lucid in a dream or lucid dreaming. What is good about it is that you can do the same thing in your waking life. When you are having a negative moment in real life, you can be lucid about it, wake up from the negative feelings and then change them. In the dream you are angry at the way the thing that could give you comfort, the couch, is moved to a place that is really annoying to you. Think about the couch as a metaphor for those things that give you comfort and ease. What annoys you is when those things are taken away and given to someone you loathe. So the first work you have to do with yourself is to get control over the things that bring you comfort rather than others having control over them.
When you lose control and they have it and they do whatever they want, you end up clinching your teeth and they begin to loosen and fall out. Teeth are symbols of decision making and making choices so when they fall out, you lose that ability. You can keep your teeth simply by relaxing finding your own inner comfort and ease all the time. A lot of people do practice like meditation or yoga to find inner comfort. I like to do a lot of running. Each person has their way to find it.
Dear Nina i dreamt of my dissabled brother and my dissabled friend but they were both ok. then I bought an umbrella from 2 old people a man and a women I gave the old man R35.00 for the umbrella then I noticed
that he cant see then he said the money was shot then I have him more then noticed that the amount was now R45.00 then decided to take the umbrella that fitted the amount. when I went back to school I decided to open the umbrella only to find out that the umbrella has holes in it then I woke up what does this mean.
Dear Mpumi,
When you see that the disabled people are ok, it means that their souls are in tact. Though they may have a physical disability, spiritually they are ok. An umbrella symbolically is something that you use to protect yourself from the rain. Rain, when it is negative, is a symbol for all of those things that dampen your enthusiasm and excitement in life. You are trying to protect yourself from this, but no matter what you spend in energy or time to protect yourself, you still get rained on because of the holes. A better strategy is the same one that disabled people often use. Despite their disability they remain optimistic and enthusiastic. They forget the handicap and then just go forward in life. The strategy that can work for you is to forget the rain and work instead on your inner enthusiasm and excitement as if it were a great big sun. When you are always enthusiastic despite the outward conditions, your life is always joyful and happy.
this is a lot and the content is kind of sexual so please proceed with caution. i also have a history of sexual abuse so that may play a role in your interpretation.
So we had a big family reunion at my grandpa’s house. It was fun because there was a lot of cool stuff to do
But there was also other big houses surrounding my grandpa’s house too
I wandered off somehow and got lost inside his house and went down to the basement where there was construction going on
I go down there and there’s a massive gay orgy going on between the construction workers
I’m very confused and the men are looking at me like I am next.
There’s also teen boys there fighting and blocking the door and when I tried to get out they tried to fight me
Somehow I get out and there’s all these different houses and for some reason I can’t find my grandpa’s even though I just got out of his basement ??
Ok then I see this house with a bunch of kids outside playing and I’m like, that’s it that has to be it
I go in there and it’s a bunch of creepily dressed adults sitting at these dining tables
This couple comes up to me at the door and they’re like “what’s the password” and I back away and about to take off running
They’re like throwing things at me and yelling things and they’re dressed in all black like they’re at a funeral
I’m freaking out then suddenly the lady is like helping me find my grandpa’s house
And I’m there talking about how terrible everything is and how children are being exploited in these houses
I end up in my grandpa’s basement for a brief time
I miraculously escape (again) and end up in an empty amusement park ??
My mom is with me and we go on this ride and I tell her that “some bad things are going on in grandpa’s house” but I don’t remember telling her about the surrounding houses
and that’s when it ended.
Oh and I just remembered when I first went into the basement these 2 construction workers were like kicking this white object around to each other and one of them passed it to me, which I wasn’t able to catch but then I think I did and kicked it back but horribly
Then one of the guys (he had blonde hair and blue eyes) started attacking me
Dear Nina,
When you have a dream about a basement and it is negative and fearful, it means that you are experience the lower nature or ego in your grandfather’s self. This is like his dark side. He probably also has a really positive higher nature, but this dream is an education for you about the darkness. The darkness is the culture of men, which is like rough construction workers. The gay part is that their negative domineering behavior is like having a gay orgy. They don’t want to give up the male dominance. The purpose of the dream is for you to recognize this in your family so that you can become detached from it and then seek a newer more enlightened path based upon equality and true intimacy. The darkness in the men is something you fear and something that you need to have a lot of wisdom about in dealing with because they won’t easily give up their old dark ways where they dominated even though it is not to their benefit in the long run. The sexual abuse history will make it difficult for you to be empowered in a strong way to get to the kind of equal relationships that you would seek. The best thing I can recommend is to go to a therapist that really works for you so that you can learn to trust others, feel safe, and not fall for fake love.
Hi. I had dream that I was fighting a bear. He chased me in my house and was attacking me
Dear Edna,
Bears, when they are aggressive and negative, mean that you are fighting with some kind of strong abusive energy from someone in your life. The purpose of the dream is get you to stop fighting and learn how to become strong inwardly like a bear. Then you will feel super empowered to achieve whatever you set your mind on because nothing will get in your way. It is important that you feel protected from any external negative force like people trying to force their will on you, then do the work it takes to become a strong bear. Most people need help becoming a bear inside because they usually have some kind of trauma to overcome.
Hi I had a dream that I was doing a little girls hair for school also I’m in the house I live in she had bleach blond hair about four years old big brown eyes I was just woundering what it means
Dear Kala,
The girl represents the child-like energy inside of you that wants to appear about in the world. Child-like energy has a lot of enthusiasm and curiosity. These are things you need to make your life work right now.
Hi.I hope tou help beacause im not feeling good since yesterday.
I had a dream about me staying in a cemetery,with a lot of people but i went there accidentally.After a few minutes staying there,i turned my head and saw lot of closed coffins.than inwas walking out of cemetry and i met my younger sister 15 years old,ou of cemetery it was a fiels full of tulips and it started to rain.than i was runing in the rain and met my 4 year old brother and felt worried about him.I took him with me and he wasn’t wearing any shoes so i found a pair of them in front of a stranger house for him to wear.than i left with him,worried.and woke up also worried.
Dear Ana,
Here is a quick interpretation of your dream. A cemetery is a place associated and symbolic of death. It is as if you are in a dead place in your life by accident. Even when you go with your sister to a happy place, a field of tulips, you get rained on, which in a way deadens the joy. When you stay in the rain-filled, death-like emotions, you also worry about your youngest brother. What you need to do, which will help you a lot, is to change the scene in your mind from a cemetery to a happier place like the beach or a beautiful park. Then you also need to get out of the rain and into the sunshine in your life.
This is all mental habits, but it will help if you actually go to uplifting places that are sunny. You need to change the mental habits of negative and darker thinking to positive and brighter think. Then your life will really work for you.
Hi. I am hoping you can help me. I had a dream this morning that has left me confused. There was a man that said he is a reaper & is here to reap my brother. He said I had to go with him. Next thing I know we are in a car driving on the freeway. While on the freeway I see a man who was on the news…the police say he kidnaped his 4 month old daughter…in my dream I see this man & a little girl. There is some thing, man?, Deanna, I don’t know but, he wraps himself around the man while I open my car door & grab the little girl to save her. Next to happen is we arrive in a hospital where my brother is. I’m told he was in a car accident, though outwardly it does not look like it. My brother looks much younger than his actual age. He says he is fine but I can tell he’s in pain. Then I woke up because a door slammed. What does all this mean?
Hi Janet,
Normally a reaper would by like the grim reaper which means he would be taking your brother to the next world because he was going to die. In your dream the reaper helps you to save the kidnapped girl and then you go to the hospital to see your brother. What this means is that you have an extraordinary ability to help people out of really difficult situations as if you are getting supernatural help. Your brother seems to need your help now because of something that happened to him when he was younger. You can help him.
Hi Richard,
I dreamt I was having problems with my lower lady parts so I went to the doctor for an exam. Upon conclusion of the exam the doctor told me that I have breast cancer. Since I was there by myself and in shock the doctor held me for a while and let me cry. I came home and told my boyfriend and he told me that my insurance wouldn’t cover my treatments. Then I woke up.
Dear Desiree,
What is really interesting about your dream, Desiree, is the structure of the dream, not necessarily the parts of your body. The structure of the dream indicates that you have a pattern in your mind that makes things go from uncomfortable to really bad to worse. If you understand how the pattern works inside of you, then you can reverse and have things go from comfortable to really positive to even better. Your “lower lady parts” are metaphorically where you experience the most intimate and blissful feelings because it is where you get an orgasm in sex. Breasts are where you do nurturing because they give milk to a baby.
So when you are feeling positive about getting really close to others, then you can really nurture abilities in others, and then it will make you financially secure. This indicates that your income source has a lot to do with getting closer to others and nurturing them. I don’t know how exactly. I am just reading what the dream says when you turn it into a positive. You can get really excited about this because it just means that you need to work on getting closer to others. You are probably naturally already good at it. Then things will go from good to better to amazing.
I am gay in real life. I haven’t come out to my parents yet but my sibling know and accept me for who I am. My mother lobes me a lot.I dreamt that my mother was going through my things in my room and suddenly she saw a picture of me and a girl kissing each other. She came to me and showed me the photograph and got very angry. And she was screaming that-“Steffi how can you be gay?” Then I woke up.
Dear Stefanie,
In the dream your mother asks a really interesting question at the end (if you take out her anger and shock). She asks you how you can be gay? It is a really interesting question. When you do dream work, you always have to start in the spiritual world and then move gradually to the real world as in real time and space. In the real world you are attracted to other females sexually. In the spiritual/emotional world you are frightened to let your mother know because you are fearful that it is going to interrupt the bond you have with her. You love her and she loves you, but you are playing out in the dream what her reaction is going to be if you tell her. It can’t be very easy for you and it won’t be easy for her. The first step you are going to need to make is to switch the perspectives you are taking. Instead of you being fearful of her reaction and her lack of acceptance of you, you can flip it. There is a part of you that does not accept your mother for who she is, and she has done a really good job in the family to keep it secret. She is hiding something about herself and you have to find out what it is. The problem you have is that when you find out, you are going to have a hard time accepting it. When you do accept her fully, then talking about being gay will be relatively easily and you will be able to both ask important questions of each other. It takes a great deal of openness to get to the deeper stuff so be sure that you are prepared for it. If you do the more traditional way, which is to just come out and say you are gay, it will be really difficult for your relationship with her. She has stuff she is hiding that she wants to share with someone. Best if it is you.
Hello.
In my waking life I live in a an apartment alone away from my parents. I am studying in college. They live in another state. I saw a dream yesterday and it was really scary. In that dream I saw that while I was trying to sleep a ghost(or spirit) came and it was a girl dressed in black with long black hair and I saw her pacing through the room. I tried to catch her but couldn’t. I tried to stop her but couldn’t. She was running very fast throughout the room. I thought that it’s not real. So I took a blanket and slept in my bed but then I saw that she came near me and pulled me by my leg and I was screaming. She was dragging me along the floor but then she disappeared. I then went to my bed and tried to sleep again but the same thing happened. Then I thought I need to get out of this room asap. So I tried to quickly get out of the room. She tried to hold me back and stop me from going out but I managed to go out of the room and I took a blanket and pillow along with me. I went to my landlady’s room and told her what happened. She laughed at me. She didn’t believe me. Then I woke up.
Note: I couldn’t see the face of the spirit but I know it was a girl.
Hello, the past week I have dreamt about a different significant ex. From yearssss ago 3 in total.Now the past two nights the same one, my most recent ex who I am also pregnant by. Last nights dream was kinda a blur now. But I dreamt I drove out to some grassland and had set some alligators or crocodiles free. I was walking amongst them not scared one bit. And then I got back in my truck I Remember having to shut the door really quick so the alligator or croc wouldn’t try and get back in the truck with me I knew they needed to stay where I had took them. Then I go back home and end up with my most recent ex and we proceed to sexually arouse each other. Then I end up in a class room as a student with some people I haven’t seen in a while. My youngest son was also present with me in the classroom. (I’m nearly 30 now ) In waking life I’m being pressured to have an abortion by my family. They don’t think it’s a good idea to have a baby again by some one who left me. I don’t believe in abortions. Also I have this feeling in waking life that I’m soon going to pass this baby by miscarriage. I don’t feel
Pregnant anymore. And I also dreamt the night before last I had a miscarriage. And my most recent ex was in that dream as well.
Hi The reason that you keep dreaming about your ex boyfriends is that you keep making the same kind of mistake in your relationships. The ex boyfriends are represented by the alligators. You set them free which is the right thing to do, but then you go right back to being sexually aroused by one of them as if you never learned anything from previous relationship. You keep attracting alligators, which are men that lurk, see where you are vulnerable, and then pounce. When they leave, you are left with all of the responsibility. You are right to keep the baby at least to not get an abortion.
You seem to have a vulnerability to men who are not so responsible. They probably promise you love and the sex feels good like a drug so you go after it, but it is just going to keep you getting you in a big mess. It seems to me that you are an otherwise positive person and have quite a bit together, but you don’t have a very good selection process with men. You especially need to stay out of bed with men until you can see their true character, especially their ability to take on a man’s true responsibility for his family.
This is not an easy issue to solve by yourself or with your family alone. You would benefit a lot from good professional help so that you can keep yourself strong.
Thank you for your response. Greatly appreciated. As far as sex I actually hate it. Hate giving myself away, I tend to avoid it with excuses..The selection in men definitely though you are correct, It sucks badly and never ends well on my end. Been dealing with an alligator for 4 years 😞 Thanks again 🙂
My leg is hurt in real life and prohibits me from walking and driving. In my dream, I was over at a delanghy’s house from school with a bunch of other girls from school (Kat, Sam, Shelby, Maddi, is all I can remember), and Nick. They all decided they wanted to go somewhere, but there wasn’t room in their cars to drive me, so I insisted they go on ahead, and they promised they would be quick. I expected Nick to stay back with me because he only knew Kat, but he decided to go with them. It made me extremely upset, but he went anyways. I stayed back and delanghy’s house and waited, and eventually fell asleep because I was exhausted. I was woken up by all of them coming into the house, and I turned to the clock and it said 1 a. m., which was 5 1/2 hours later than they originally said they would be out. When they came in they were all happy and laughing and talking, and when they saw me they joked and laughed and said they forgot I was there. I broke out into tears, and grabbed my car keys and started heading toward the door to leave (Idk how I was able to walk and drive because of my leg), and I turned around and saw Nick sitting super close to all of them and laughing and talking. I asked him why he went with them, and he said they are more fun than you and then started laughing. I turned around to leave, hysterically crying, and he stood up and came over to me and asked where I was going, and I told him to go back to his 14 girlfriends and I was going home. He then said, “well if you insist”, and turned around to walk back to the bed without any hesitation. I ran out of the house and to my car, and sped off. While I was driving I was trying to come up with a way that I could instantly kill myself by crashing my car, and then I woke up.
Dear Lily Beth,
In real life you cannot move because of a physical problem, but in the dream world you found out in a negative manner that you are capable of moving quite easily. If you would have known in the dream that you are capable of moving in a non-physical (spiritual) environment, the dream would have had a different outcome. You would have been with them the whole time and you wouldn’t have been left out. What this tells you is that, despite your physical limitations, you are capable of moving in the non-physical world. This means, in this case, that you have the ability to include yourself with others. To do this you have to believe you can. You can because you offer to them something that no one else has. When you figure that out, you will never be excluded.
I dreamed 3 times about a tall handsome man with dimples staring at me and smiling… I can see him from head to toe… and I’m wondering in my head why is this guy staring at me but he say nothing… the third dream finally again he look and state but nothing, then finally just before I woke up he asked me “why do you put up with that?” The back ground look as if it was a resturant but not sure…
Dear Chicha,
In this dream you are being shown that you have the ability to attract men into your life, but you don’t have the ability to initiate action with them. They are standing there, but you are waiting for them to say something to you. If you would just be the one to initiate and make the first steps, then he will have the chance to reciprocate. Most people are fearful of initiating even when attracted because they are fearful of rejection. Go forward.
Richard your correct….I always felt there was another me inside that’s not afraid, that I keep from coming out… That’s on the surface…I will have to look deep inside and find out about my work place..you brought up something I never considered. thanks..
Hello.
I am very worried about this dream I just saw. I woke up in a sweat. It was horrible. In the dream,I saw that I am in love with a witch(or magician,I don’t know the exact term but she does magic and she’s a very powerful one at that and she was very beautiful). So what I did is cast a love spell on her to get her love and attention. But then I saw that she got angry and sent a man whose height was very small. That man can to our house to kill me probably or attack I don’t know. I fought it and my parents were there with me too fighting him and protecting me. But I was in the front and fighting him with a sword and I cut his two hands off. And my mother threw an egg at him. And he licked the yolk and one of his hands grew back again.So mom decided not to throw any more eggs at him. Then he went back. I am very scared to be honest. I hope you will be able to interpret it.
And one more thing is that I cast three or four love spells on her one after the other..
Dear Marie,
This is a dream about having to deal with black or dark energy that appears like magic. In real life dark magic is the negative ability of people to take a darkness or weakness in someone else and then use it to their advantage for their own personal gain. In your dream you are so frightened by it that you don’t know what to do other than try to make the person love you, but they see you are really full of fear so that they go after you. Even when you try to destroy them, they are more powerful than you and try to come after you. In actual life there are people who do this by manipulating friends and others to get what they want for their own gain. They are not at all interested in helping or benefiting others. They are completely self-oriented. They get to you by trying to turn others against you or trying to make you look really bad in the eyes of others, and at the same time making themselves look as if they are in the good. It is really negative stuff so you should respect what they can do. What works with them is to build your own positive relationships with others that is not self-serving but beneficial to others. In others words, you build relationships where you are uplifting people and helping them without selfish motives. As soon as you have motives that are impure or selfish, they know how to get to you. It is what they are good at. Work on your positive relationships with others and leave the manipulators out of your life.
Thank you for your response. It’s very detailed and I agree with you and thanks for such a great advice,trying to implement it wholeheartedly in my life.