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I was with my fiance and we were hanging out with at one of the friends house. She comes in with another friend of hers and then she takes her shirt off and lets her breast become exposed right there in front of my fiance. I was offended by this and called her out on it. She didn’t seem to care. Then I took this tunnel to someplace and I was at a university. I was enrolled there and with a group of other girls. We were waiting for our sorority sister. When the senior sorority sister showed up she showed us our “secret” sisters handshake and told us we would be going to our rooms soon. Then a girl from my highschool showed up and i was like HEY and she was like Who are you? and i said remember we went to high school together and she didn’t seem to care. She told me to follow her and keep up if I wanted to know where my room was. She ran off and I followed her. She made it the elevator and it closed before i could get in. I watched what floor it stopped on and took it to that floor. Once on the floor there was a long hallway of rooms. I looked in a few and didn’t see her. Then I piece of paper that was crumbled in a ball came from behind me and landed in this last door on the right. I walk in and there she is. The room was cramped, with 2 trundle beds and Mine was one of the trundle beds. I complained to her that how would this work, the other room mates have taken all the space and i am on a pull out bed on the floor. SHe told me I needed to figure it out. Then my phone rang and it was my kid. She wanted me to come home. I asked to talk to my fiance and he said I needed to come home because caring for kid was too much work to do alone. So i left and next thing i know i was in the car with him and our daughter heading home.
Dear April,
The problem in the dream is that people treat you as if you are invisible or not important. In each circumstance you have a difficult time because it is as if you are not there. There are two sides to invisibility that need to understand to get the most out of the dream. First there is being invisible which is negative which you are experiencing in the dream and then there is invisibility that is positive, which I will explain. Invisibility when it is negative is about not being regarded as important or worthy of consideration which you have experienced a fair amount according to the dream. When you have this kind of invisibility, it is important to continuously be assertive with yourself until people get it, to not accept being treated as if you are a non-person. The other kind of invisibility, which you also need to develop is a strong power that few people seem to have. When you have this kind of invisibility, then you make yourself invisible on purpose so that the other people can be more noticed. This is particularly important when someone else is in pain and needs a friend to listen to them or any work that is of service to others and requires compassion. For instance, when I am counseling a client, I try to make myself invisibility so that the session only becomes about them.
Hello I had another dream and it was about my current boyfriend and he was acting really weird and crazy acting like he was going to shoot me chasing me and I was hanging with a group of friends from one of my jobs and then he came back to the house where we were and ask one of my homegirls to take him home in the midst of that his children were with me along with mine and we went to a restaurant he wasn’t with us
Dear Marshe2,
So the dream is about your fear that your boyfriend is going act unpredictably and also be critical of you. When someone is going to shoot you down, it means being really critical like they want to put you down. You probably have this dream because there is some truth to it, but you do not know what to do if someone starts being like that. The important thing is be strong in your own empowerment so that you don’t get shaken by other people’s behavior. When you are strong and you know that he is acting abnormal, then you can have a lot of choice about whether you want to continue with the relationship or ignore the behavior or intervene in someway. The main thing is maintain your own inner strength.
H’lo Richard,
Please help; I dreamt that I had to jump off a very high cliff to safety, but the landing spot was impossible to reach. I could not proceed and there was no way to return. I was stuck and the extreme fear woke me up. I have similar dreams from time to time, like having to climb down very tall buildings, etc., all very frightening.
Many thanks.
Dear Hyran,
The goal of the dream is to maintain yourself at the elevation rather than having to jump down to safety. This comes when your fear of falling from grace. Getting to the top has a lot to do with grace and very little to do with justice or fairness. Being up or elevated is not something you earn. It is something that you can always have all the time. People thing that they will be joyful when they have reached a certain height like a certain position, but really being up is an internal state that you can always have all the time. It is not conditional on external events.
Thank you, Richard.
In my dream I was at my house. Not my real house in real life but in the dream it was my house. This house was high on a hill with a rocky cliff face that lead to a body of water. There was an airplane flying and started to come crashing down and it crashed at the edge of my bedroom next to the cliff face. I had all my children with me and we noticed that the frame of me window was starting to smoke and catch on fire. We were outside watching the plane crash and when my kids pointed out the smoke we all ran inside to grab what was most valuable. I went for this box of pictures I have and my kids went for typical kid items, favorite blanket, phone, stuffed animal, ect. As we were in the house it started to be engulfed more and more with fire. We ran out a couple times then back in. Once it had taken more than half the house in flames we stood outside. There were not neighbors for miles and we didn’t know how to call for help. so my son set of a firecracker standing in the kitchen right by the side door and the kitchen and living are were the only rooms not in flames, all the bedrooms were gone and burnt. When the fire cracker was about to go off we all ran outside and when it went off it was like a 4th of July firework display, instantly the firefighters were there and put out the fire in seconds.
Then we went to the neighbors house and there was this airplane show, but instead of the the airplanes flying they had these huge things coming off the nose, like a swordfish and were skipping and bouncing from area to area by sticking this long nose end in the ground and using it to jump to the next space. There was an announcer talking about how dangerous “airplane skipping” was and people die every year at this event, then a plane in front of us was pieced right in the drivers seat by another planes spear-nose.
Dear Leslie,
The house on the hill is representative of your higher self that you are trying to get to in life. When you are trying to be in that kind of higher space, it gets crashed by someone who is too high on themselves and too reckless. This causes fire in you and the family (which in real life is a lot of anger. The fire (anger) takes you out of the higher self and you see the reckless way people are around you. To solve the dream you need to start first with the virtue having your own vision that is positive but not unrealistic. To move to the vision you need a lot of calm and tranquil energy instead of anger and then you always be in your higher self rather than being affected by people who are flying high, but reckless.
Last night I had a scary dream. In this dream the house I was living in was haunted. There was some kind of evil entity in the house and sometimes I would mock and laugh at it to egg it on and it would mess with things around the home. Other times I would feel scared and pray or cry out to God to rid the spirit from the home and when I would pray or cry out to God I wouldn’t be able to speak. Like my voice was gone. I would try to yell as loud as I could for the spirit to leave my space and have God bless it and as hard as I would breath in and attempt to yell nothing could come out, the spirit was stopping me.
Dear Sandy,
When you live in a haunted house, it means that there is an aspect of you that is “haunted” or has “ghosts” in them. Ghosts in the dream world represent imagined thoughts that are not real, but they seem so real that you believe them. The thoughts are mind space seems real, when really it is just imaginary. That is why they are haunting. It creates worry or anxiety. To get out of the haunted mind space it is important that you focus on what is really positive about yourself and the positive memories that are really solid. When you live in a space of solid positive memories, you are capable of doing just about anything.
Hello. I had a dream and wrote to you last month, it never received a reply and I figured perhaps you missed it or were at a total loss of what it could mean. I let it go, however last night I had the SAME EXACT dream so I figured there is something from it my subconscious is trying to bring forth. Rather than retype it i have copied and pasted my first post.
I was with my son and were were at this yoga thing out of state. When we walked in it was a medium large dark room with high ceilings and a small stage. I didn’t have a mat but my son and I found some space about 50ish feet from the stage. There was plenty of space between people so it wa wasn’t crowded. When the yogi started talking these crystal like things began floating through the air, they were hexagon shaped and a yellowish orange. There was frequency tones playing in the background. As I would breathe in the crystals would surround and pass through my son and I and i would feel them enhancing and changing my energy. It made me feel at peace and calm and I much enjoyed it. This happened for a few breaths then we sat Indian style and started to side stretched and other yoga. I would look at my son and he was calm and having a good time. As class went on there was this woman in her 40s who kept just stating right at me….the whole time. Eventually I turned to her and asked to stop it, her eyes felt like they were piecing my soul (now that I’m awake I can still see her face and it makes me feel tense and at unease when I see here eyes). Anywho she said she was sorry but really wanted to see what I was like. This confused me so I looked back a little more and next to her was my husband, but in my dream he was my ex husband and that woman was his girlfriend or fiance (in waking life this woman is his ex fiance, I never knew her as I got with my husband a year or so after their split). Once I saw him I was angry. I asked why would he come and bring his girl into my space to observe me. He said she really wanted to see what I was like. I became very emotional and began crying as I was still not over our divorce in the dream. My son and I got up and I went to the ladies room and he sat on a bench right outside of it and waited for me. I just cried then gained my composure for my son. When I opened the door he was sitting there and my husband was talking to him and asking him if we were going to the next event in Tennessee, he said it would only be an hour drive and we could all go together. I walked up and said no way and my son and I went home. Our house wasnt the current one a live in but a lovely 2 story stone with tons of plants (I’m a plant person). There were some hanging on my front door and I had a guy there to install lights on the outside of the house. I was telling this guy the names of my plants that I wanted light on and I look over and in my driveway is that woman again….saying wow this is a beautiful home and talking about how lovely my house was. I felt awkwardness and asked the guy to also install flood lights on every corner of my house, then I woke up.
Thank you in advance:)
Dear Christine,
Sorry that I missed the dream before. I usually only answer the dreams once or twice a week so it must have gotten forgotten. Anyway, this is a really cool dream. So the quality you are trying to get to is something like inner peace and calm which is happening in the yoga class. It is usually why people pick yoga as an exercise rather than doing something like a team sport. When you are developing the quality of peacefulness, the ego presents challenges to you that are like messengers so that you can grow to higher states. Peacefulness is normally connected with anger. If you want to become more peaceful, you need to overcome anger. This is a bit complicated since your husband is married to you in real life. When he was not married to you and in relationship with the other woman, he was seeking to develop something inside of him by being in that relationship. He never finished developing what he was supposed to in himself. Now that you are becoming calmer he is going to have that awakened in him again. It is not meant to be given to him by someone else, but it is common to try to get it from someone else. The more calm, patient, non-judgmental you are, the happier you will be and the easier it will be for him to develop this in himself. When you feel angry with him, then you need to just develop more tranquility. Then things will work out great.
A few years ago, I had a very toxic boyfriend. And I went on a vacation with him and his family to this water park hotel resort. And in my dream I was at that water park by myself. And then all the sudden my ex boyfriend pops up and keeps trying to talk to me. And I try to ignore him, but he keeps trying to talk to me. So eventually I just give in and talk to him. And we talk for a minute, and then he grabs my arm and starts cutting my arm with a knife. And I couldn’t get away, I couldn’t move. And for some reason, I didn’t bleed, each cut scabbed over immediately. And I don’t remember the transition from that part of the dream, to the next. I was just suddenly at my dead grandmothers house. (She lived in my aunts garage that they converted into a house) and in the dream, I was aware that she was dead. But all the lights were on at her house. And the door was unlocked. So I went inside, and it was exactly as I remember it. (She died less than a year ago). Nothing was out of place at all, which makes no sense because they gave away most of her things and put up the rest. And the oven was on, and I could smell her cooking. But she wasn’t there. I explored her small house and walked around and every single thing was in place. It was so vivid. But I refused to go into her bedroom. And her bedroom lights were off (the only lights in the house that were off) but the door was wide open. She actually died in her bedroom, so i dont know if it has to do with that. But then I walked out of the house, and it was pitch black outside. And my aunt was out there, asking me what I was doing. And I told her I was visiting nana. And she looked at me so weird and then I just walked away, down the drive way and to the road in the pitch black. And that’s all I can remember.
Dear Madison,
The purpose of this dream is to get you have the virtue of joy or playfulness activated more fully in your life. Right now the dream says that when you think of that kind of joy, you have an association of it with your toxic boyfriend. The memories are together, his toxicity and your desire for you. When you let go of the memories or fear that he caused in you then you can do two things. First you can have much more joy. Then you will be able to remember and have the positive qualities that your grandmother had because you have also inherited them. The two will be amazing for your life.
My dream was awful, to make things shorter, my younger sister doesn’t make the wisest decisions, resulting in me being overprotective of her because her actions can get her into trouble. Wel in the dream she was doing this, so I had to go with her to an event even though I was in the middle of something. While we were waiting for said event (an event I didnt think would be good for her to go alone to, but she never listens and would go anyway) I guess I said something she didnt like and she disappeared. I kept texting her but as usual to waling life, her texts were brief and I didnt know where she was or if she was safe because she was being rude and inconsiderate to how stressed I was about her. Well the scene changes and I’m in a the backseat crying while partner is driving fast down the highway, I’m stress crying over my sisters because I’m worried about their well being. Suddenly I’m in the passenger and my boyfriend stopps and starts turning the wheel ON THE HIGHWAY, cars are coming towards us as I realize the car is malfunctioning and continues in circles. He finally fixes the direction just in time as we continue speeding down the highway. Well hes on the phone with his mom now, discussing something important, and Im still stressing out. Well he asks me to grab the wheel, and I get upset because cant he see that I am under a lot of stress. Well I didnt grab the wheel in time so we started swerving to the left, where there is no railing and we are high on a mountain. We both rush to correct it, fighting it in different directions, when it finally veers off the road and into what I last seen as a big waterfall in the distance parallel to the mountain. We find a place to stay as we were on a road trip and lost our car. Next thing I know, Im in a stadium, and I hear people from my town shouting, I look around hoping I’ll find my sister and find out where she has been this whole time and if shes ok. Instead I see my mom, walking all the way up to her, and finding my sister with her. As we walk to the car, I was crying and lecturing her trying to get through to her, repeating to her what my mom and I always tell her, that she is always having us worried endlessly because she just goes off the grid and doesnt let us know if shes just alright. She was rolling her eyes, not listening, so I turned to my mom, sobbing my eyes out, explaining to her about how my sister had stressed me out, worried to death, and explained to her, my car accident as result. My sister finally heard it and felt bad and I seen her cry a little. Then my mom started crying and laughed through her tears saying, “Well why did you make fun of what she was wearing?” Trying to make lightness of the situation. i laughed along, but in all seriousness, I was truly still hurt and saddened about the whole thing and was upset that she turned it into a joke.
I woke up extremely upset, reminded up the stressful and worrisome burden my sister puts on us in waling life. I wish I didn’t have to feel this way and that she could understand and grow up.
Dear Patricia,
The reason that you worry so much about your sister is that she has gone missing. This means that her true self has gone missing. She is only acting out of her ego, not her true self. When you over worry and take responsibility for her, then your life gets out of control. As difficult as it may be the solution is let go of worrying about her and focusing only on your life. When you focus on the positives in your own life, then you will be able to do amazing things. Her life belongs to her. Worrying and taking responsibility does not help her in the least. She has to learn her own hard lessons.
I had a dream of me with my ex boyfriend in a bedroom. Them a woman walks into the room naked. My ex and I were not surprised or shocked by this woman naked. Later on I also my phone screen cracked. Again this woman was properly dressed and it seemed like we asked her to deliver something to my mother. I was bit surprised that she okay seeing me with my ex boyfriend. My mom said the lady can be a good maid.
2 weeks back I dreamt of the very ex boyfriend with my friend and I. We visited my ex then my friend opened the zinc tap to make tea. The water came from the roof dripping, floor as well as the tap. It was clear drinkable water. The security and the property manager walked in to fine my ex for breaking the rules by opening the tap.
Dear Rhandza,
What this dream indicates is that when you were with your ex-boyfriend, you lost your sense of right and wrong. He seems to make everything you do morally ok even when it is not. The quality the dreams seems to be calling you to is a stronger moral uprightness and to not lose it in a relationship. Moral uprightness is the quality most associated with being guided inwardly.
hi just woken up from a dream
my dream was
my friend was driving the car but we heard something like cracks so we decided that she check it out. she stopped the car and went down to check it out. but the car wasn’t fully stopped. it kept moving. it stopped for awhile but when the signal went to green it moved again. no one was driving. so the car kept moving and i was there panicking. i tried to stop the car but it won’t. when i finally did. i went down and say several dead people due to what i done. it was pretty graphic. crushed head crushed legs cut hand etc. it was horrifying so i woke myself up…how do you interpret this? thanks
Dear Raerosopa,
When you are not in control of the car, which in life means that you are not in control of how you get to your goals or how you get to where you want to go in life, then you kill the relationships with others. When you are in control of getting to where you want to go, then others will do the same and it will bring positives to many people. It will be like giving new life to others. The process is to change from letting others drive your life or letting life just drive itself, to you being in control.
I saw in my dream i m sleeping in same as i sleeping at that night .like i m sleeping but my soul is Wake up.I saw one dark big soul but i feared and Wake up.the time was that 4:00 am.Please Tell me what my soul is see at that night.
Dear Kuldeepak,
What this dream shows is that you are fearful of people who have negative qualities in them. When someone has something negative about them, you blow up to make it big and then you probably are fearful of being with that person. Almost everyone is mixture of positive and negative qualities. The goal is for building better relationships with human beings. You can do that by seeing the light or positive in others and then blowing that up. Sometimes you have to be careful with really negative people, but for the most part you can see the positive and blow it up. Then you will be connected to all of humanity.
Some time ago I had a weird dream that went like this:
Me and my cousins were packing up shotguns and flashlights to go on the hunt for Mothman.
We were going out there very late at night, and there was no Moon or stars in the sky.
We were transported there by Trevor Phillips from GTA 5, in his red pick up truck. When we got to the place, which was some kind of a mountain road with an abbys nearby, he wished us luck, and put on a hockey mask, like the one worn by Jason Woorhese, and then drove off into the darkness, while yelling something along the lines of “Wooooowie!”.
As we turned to the mountain, we saw a cave, that went deep inside. It was dark in there, so we turned on the flashlights that were tied to our guns.
At some point, me and my cousins split, and I’ve got really deep into the cave. When I went far enough, I found something that looked like an abandoned office, or a laboratory. And that’s when I started hearing the steps of the creature.
One of my cousins asked me if I saw anything, I pointed behind the wall. As we both looked there, we saw the creature sitting on the floor, looking at a stalagmite formation.
My cousin decided it was the perfect time to kill it, but he forgot to turn off his flashlight, and as he took aim the creature turned around.
It looked right into my eyes, that glared with blinding light, as if it reflected the light from flashligts. And when it opened it’s mouth to shout, instead of something you’d expect to hear from an insect-like cryptid, I heared an intro song from Shaman King (it’s an anime that I watched when I was kid, and didn’t think about it at all, any time close to having this dream), which was so loud it woke me up.
Dear Arty,
This dream shows you that what you expect to be evil and negative, never turns about to be fully that way. Trying to kill off relationships with other people because they have some negative qualities just leaves you in a friendless world. What you did in the dream was to have enough patience to see that the creature had a positive side. You also showed a lot of courage to go into the darkness to see what was there. Not being fearful of the darkness is a really positive quality because it will open up a lot of truth for you.
Had a dream : lots of little snakes, I was in the dream, my girlfriend and her best friend. The dream took place in my house and my girlfriends house. What does this mean please?
Dear Aman,
Snakes, when they are positive represent change or transformation. When you are with your girl friend, there are a lot of things you need to change about yourself if you want the relationship to last. It is not bad that you need to make a lot of changes. Being successful in a relationship is one of the most difficult things to do in life because there are volumes and volumes of things you need to learn. When you refuse to learn, then the snakes will bite you and even get venomous. Be open to learning a lot.
Hi, someone I know via social media – a girl.
She dreamt I broke up with my boyfriend last night in her dream. What does this mean please?
Dear PS,
First of all this dream is not your dream, it is her dream. If a friend goes through a difficult time, the idea is that you can support your friend through the down period, when they are in a lot of sadness. It is an “as if” dream. If you broke up, what should be her response. Her response would be to be compassionate and supportive. It is for her. Not for you.
Heres my dream: I was at my old school. I was younger in the dream than I am in real life. I was on stage about to receive an award because it was our awards banquet. I suddenly felt crumbled teeth in my mouth and walked off stage and asked a teachers permission to go to the bathroom. She gave me permission and I went to the bathroom and spit out a handful of crumbled teeth. When I was spitting out the teeth I noticed that the teeth were bloody. It wasn’t a lot of blood but it was noticeable. I didn’t feel any pain though. I looked in the mirror and i noticed that one tooth that hadn’t been there the first time I looked in the mirror was suddenly there again. There was still obviously teeth missing in my mouth. I walked out of the bathroom getting ready to leave when I over hear my teachers talking about my brother who had not lost any teeth but just spit up blood. The weird thing about that was that in real life I have an older brother but in my dream he was younger than me. I don’t even think it was actually my brother because he didn’t look anything like my real brother. We both got into our car and left. And that was were it ended. Any advice or comment would be appreciated. I just want to figure out what it meant.
Dear Adelyne,
When you lose teeth in a dream, it means that you lose your ability to chew on ideas, to think and process things that come to you. This often happens in school when awards are given because the focus becomes on what you have to do to please people to get awarded and not on thinking for yourself. The brother is not your real brother, but others who are like you that have the same difficulty. The dream wants you to focus on your ability to think and process, the chew on ideas, and be strong in it, and then getting awards will be about pleasing others, but about actual achievement.
Here’s some of my dream’s patterns
– Running on two legs? Impossible. It’s like trying to walk underwater. Now.. four legs? Ohoho now THAT’s what I call running. It just feels good, it feels right, and is usually faster than *urk* TwO LeggEd running. The feeling I get is something like.. turning into a wolf or some other animal.
– I generally prefer to be outdoors. Flying as far as I can go preferably but I have not been good at flying for a while now. So I settle for (4 leg) running. Anywhere is fine, preferably somewhere new, and DEF no tunnels or buildings!!
– Nothing good lasts. Whether its food or a dream character I’ve come to like. The moment you look away, they never existed. It makes me anxious.. I end up keeping my eyes glued but sometimes they just fade right in front of you.
– Being inside a building or tunnel is never good. I always feel like I’m in a horror movie. One is the ceilings that prevent you from flying very high. Two is the nagging feeling that there’s a killer/ghost/demon right around the corner.
– A dream usually starts by me “waking up” in my room. I can either jump out my bedroom window to start my “journey” or opt for the door that leads to the rest of the house. Second option is usually more… heavy. It makes me nervous. Because of the whole haunted building thing.
First option may or may not be viable. Common problem is that the windows might have metal bars or very very thick curtains that stick to the windows.
– I live in a high apartment floor so when I jump out a window, i try to fly out. I don’t succeed often, i usually just plunge all the way down. It’s a good thing I don’t get fall damage in dreams.
– Half the time my dream starts in my old classroom. I never enjoy classes – Classmates tend to be contemptious or just ignore me and I never understood whatever is happening on the blackboard in these dreams. Also, spending hours a day sitting still in this dump? No way. As soon as I realize that it’s a dream I try to leave the school.
– Elevators? Horrifying. One, they never work as intended. The buttons don’t make sense, and chances are you will get some disturbing paranormal disturbances inside anyway. It will then spit you out at a random place. Or plunge to hell. Stairs are similarly scary.
– Toilets never work. Either they’re broken, missing or filthy.
– I like lakes. And oceans. Large bodies of water. Swimming pools don’t count, they are small shallow and sad. Where’s the adventure.
– During my journey, I always assume I’ll be travelling for the long run, so I try to gather whatever money, items or food I can find. My assumptions are always wrong obviously, a single sequence never lasts long. Sometimes I try to eat other animals if I have a particularly animalistic persona in that sequence.
Dear Crosell,
I am going to give you the basic issue and then if you have more questions, please write. You prefer to fly and you over use flying when you need to be more wolf-like. Flying is the ability to see possibilities and go for them courageously and freely, but when you overuse this aspect like jumping out a window you go nowhere or start things but cannot maintain the vision. Wolves are characterized by the quality of endurance. Once they have a vision, they maintain lots of grounded effort for long periods to reach their desired ends. You seem to be trying to reach ends without making huge efforts. If you become like a wolf, everything will come to you. It is mostly about making more efforts.
Ah alright, thanks.
How about the fear of buildings, elevators and tunnels?
You do not want to be confined at all. Everything is about flying and feeling free. When you need to confine yourself like use self discipline in a positive way, you are fearful because you are fearful it is going to take away your freedom. You can start seeing things like determination and self-discipline and endurance as ways to get to freedom.
What if you have many dreams in one night? I had three in a row a few days ago and was trying to work them out and am wondering if one dream was showing a problem and the last one a solution, then thought what was the middle one showing?-how I’m tackling it? Can you look at dreams this way,?Just wanted to know your thoughts – thanks
Dear Khi,
Usually when you have more than one dream in an evening, it is along the same theme, often different time periods in your life or different incidences related to the same theme. It is usually an issue you have to solve.
This makes much more sense, been going through them since this response and yes, it was three different somewhat jumbled periods and I can see the theme a lot more clearer, like memories in weird pictures, I think I know what to do next, thanks a lot.
Hi, so to understand where I’m coming from, first an introduction about me might be needed: I’m 19 years old born and raised in United States Arizona, and I’m currently with my 7 month long online relationship with my wonderful 21 year old Indonesian, born and raised Indonesian. We both decided that I will be going to live with him in Indonesia, so in the meantime, I’ve been learning the language and culture and history, etc, everything about the country, including one of the most famous people from there, Suharto/Soeharto. Now, i haven’t even thought about that leader of Indonesia now for weeks, because I’ve had so many other things to worry over in my life currently. But just last night, I dreamed of eating dinner with Suharto, with me asking him questions about ‘how is Indonesia?’ and so on. Suharto never even looked at me except twice the whole dream, and never said a word the entire dream either. I don’t even remember what the food was in the dream. I told my boyfriend about the dream and he told me Suharto was the most corrupt dictator in Indonesian history before he died.
So now I’m curious as all heck about why I dreamed what I dreamed, please advice if you have any.
Dear Carly,
Basically the dream is saying that you have one picture in your mind of what it is like in Indonesia, but in real life it is another reality altogether. If I were you, I would take the relationship a lot slower than you are doing right now especially since it is online and you haven’t been to Indonesia. It could be that the relationship will work out, but there are probably a lot of things that you have not considered yet that are on the more practical aspect of life.
I was supposed to set up one of my rapists to see if we could catch him trying to rape me again. He was staying with me for some reason. He got to my house and it almost felt friendly. He raped me in the ditch in front of my house, the ground was covered in snow and it was still snowing. My mom and dad got home. And I showed him to his room which was next to mine. I felt embarrassed of how messy mine was and tried to shut the door. He raped me again. My dad showed him how to cook on the grill, I stayed in my room and there were no lights on. Cleaning. My mom was mad and chewing me out for some reason, I think because my room was messy. It seems like a lapse in time in this dream, next we were in my backyard going to prom which I think was also in my backyard? His family was there. Next, He had to leave to go back to base, and I was sad and was going to miss him. I called the base trial team to check in with them and verify that I was raped again by him. I was back in high school during the call (even though in real life I graduated a month before I was raped) and they flew me out to California (where the rape occurred) to question me. I remember being asked if I was sure I was raped. They didn’t believe me and nothing more was done. I remember there being more to the dream, just not what it was. The only other part I remember is seeing Main Street(where I take a lot of walks and see all the time because it’s the street over from mine in real life) and it’s summer time.
Dear Maya,
Rape in this dream means being treated badly by others. You allow yourself to be treated badly because you are holding out for some love. The problem is that being treated never stops because you are so hungry for love. The key for your life is to get out of the cycle of trying to get love from others. That is what sets you up for being treated badly. The goal is love your own self and who you are and then the relationships will be much better because you will be giving out love instead of being so needy for it.
Hello, I had a dream last night of my boyfriend he was married and still with me, we were all in the bed me and him have now and he was in the middle and I was on his side and the other woman was on my side and he cuddled with her more than me I was almost falling off the bed. I was the only one that worked and I worked at Burger King but I wasn’t my usual kept up self my hair was all over the place I was dirty and homeless looking I had to walk to work and I was in dirty flip flops he never called to check if I got to work anything and it was as if the other woman looked down on me because she was well kept up. At the job there was this girl I’ve seen several times in my apartment and she helped me at work while the manager helped also
Dear Marquessa,
This dream tells you that your boyfriend is mainly in the relationship for what he can get out of it. He is not there fully you to support you during your difficult times when things are rough. Others are, but not him. It is time to seriously evaluate whether you should be in the relationship.