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Hi Richard,
I am wondering how you interpret lightning in a dream, awhile ago I dreamt of lightning/electricity with blue zigzag lines coming down off all objects and everything around me, I was scared, suddenly my mother appeared and touched something with the back of her hand and it was like 1000 voltage hit it all at once leaving a burn.
I’ve some ideas I’m sort of attempting to connect and wanted to check in to see if you have any insights. Happy New Year btw.
Quick note that mum is deceased.
I should note after her hand got hit all the electricity vanished. Today in real life I went to pet my cat and we both got a little shock, now I wonder if the lightning in the dream was in fact static electricity.
It was inner electricity, not outer, physical electricity.
Hi Khi,
When lightning is negative, it means it is very destructive, but when it is positive it is magnified power of being electric. Electric means somethings like a mix of enlightenment and enthusiasm. The negative is like when someone uses negative force to strike terror in others. Your mother has a lot of lightning power, which means you do as well.
3 days worth of dreams:
going back to 3 nights ago:
My first dream I was running, like a marathon or something, there were other runners and I was in the mix of them. It felt good to be out and running
I woke up and fell back asleep, this time I was over at my ex’s house with his wife (in waking life we are decent friends). She had snapped at my son and I told her I wanted to talk to her about that and we did and it was productive. Then she got a call saying her mother passed away. I consoled her the best I could before leaving her house. On my way home I had my daughter in the back seat and my mom FaceTimed me and I was thinking I should not be looking at my phone while driving, but I answered it anyway and told my mom the news. There was a semi driving in the lane next to me and something had come off of it and slipped under my tired causing me to veer off the road, doing a 180 and slam into the cement median facing the other direction.
Two nights ago:
I was in an old house that I lived in and for whatever reason my husband and I had separate rooms (this was not a bad or weird thing in the dream). Next to my room was the kids bathroom and then another bedroom my kids were using. At some point in the dream I noticed there was an entirely new and second bathroom right next to my kids bathroom. I had decorated it upon moving in apparently and it had fresh towels, soft new rugs, even a new razor I noticed. I wanted this bathroom, but the kids current bathroom was closer. So i took all the new things out of the new one and placed it in the kids one closer to me and put all their stuff in this new one. As I was putting there stuff in the new one this tiny puppy came walking out of the bath. Its fur was still all wet and pressed down like it had just been born. It looked like a golden retriever puppy. I thought it was very precious and was showing 2 of my daughters, when I went to put it down its leg tripped in my hard and gave a soft yelp and limped, making me feel bad and I woke up.
Last nights:
I was traveling somewhere and my kids were not with me. I assume it was to work and it was a normal day. Then all over the US there were a series of terrorist attacks, blowing up Mount Rushmore, Capital Building and all kinds of various other landmarks. I was driving on a bridge and stopped. Next thing I new I was underground looking up at the top of the tunnel that had all sorts of explosives strapped to it. It went off causing the ground to collapse and crumble. more than 6,000 people died from that single explosion (everyone was Asian females) and I saw people getting up and being taken, myself included by this terrorist and his wife. They took us to this place (which ended up being at a room, but it was a house at the stop of a stadium and it was winter with LOTS of cold and snow and we were in Florida). They were killing other survivors who tried to fight them, I stunk behind a chair to pretend I was dead. When the male noticed I wasn’t he touched me inappropriately and i pretended to like it to not be killed. Later I was his other wife and now 2 of my kids were there and so was my husband, except my husband had to stay in the garage and was the one to go out and scout supplies and I was not allowed to speak to him. There was talk about this awesome internet connection that my husband had to go buy for the terrorist male so we could keep communication at our location. Then I was back at the scene in the tunnel, but this time it was in super slow motion and I was staring up at over a dozen rows of explosives being set off one by one by one until the finally blew. I then started thinking about where my other children were and how I needed to escape with my 2 kids and get to them and run away with my husband. It was understood that it was an apocalyptic situation out there, but I didn’t care I wanted to get out with my family and find my other kids.
Dear Christine,
The first dream tells you that you should think about what you are doing as if your running a marathon. This means that it is a long, not a short effort so you have to pace yourself through the challenges you face. Bathrooms, as in the second dream are for purifying and letting go. When you get the bathrooms right, then your puppy energy, love and friendship, can come out, but you have to be careful not to injure it. The third dream seemed to happen right before your eyes two days ago when the capital was stormed. When this kind of dream happens, which sort of parallels real life, then your mind has a tendency to only see the negative and explosiveness of the situation which can cause panic. What you should focus on is the positive things that are happening side by side with the explosions. They are not in the dream, but they are in real life if you look for them. For instance, while the outward negative apocalypse happened in Washington D.C., there was a positive big event happening in Georgia. The one in Georgia took a marathon of efforts to achieve, while the one in Washington was done by people who are trying to take short cuts as they have always done.
There’s two dream that I wanna know about.
The first one, I was in a place I never went to but somehow it felt familiar. I got dreams about a black mysterious book which seemed as if it was not opened since years. Everytime the book used to call me to find it. (The voice of the book still rings in my mind),So after few days I asked my parents in dream about my dream of that book. And they just shouted at me There’s no book like that. But that dream came up again and again every night. Everytime I asked to someone about it they tried to shut me up as if they don’t want me to discover about it.One day I had a dream of the path to reach that book which was through a very mystical forest. Next day I went to find it without telling anyone with a friend . As I got closer the voice of the book kept getting higher. But my friend wasn’t able to hear it. Following the voice I reached to it and found the book it had black hardcover and had a golden snake symbol in the middle. The pages seemed like old ethnic books. As I was going to read it, I woke up.
And the second one, I was with my friends (none of them I know in real).We were discussing about something regarding to magic. And then I and one of them went outside of the house. And found a large snake who seemed as if was waiting for us to come out. The guy I was with pushed me backward covering me in order to protect us. Then the snake called a wizard who seemed to do dark arts , people ran out of there seeing him shouting he is back. And some were clueless about what’s happening as of magic was something they never saw. But the me in the dream and the guy I was with seemed to know him. He signalled me to get in and get Outta here with everyone else. I gave him a concerned look and he said I would be fine and nodded. I ran Into my house and told them to get their wands and move in pairs in diff directions towards the forest as quickly as possible. And I took mine and joined the guy who was having fierce duels with the man. Seeing me he said I would be back after sometime and went out. The guy and I looked at each other and ran towards the forest as if it had something that would help us. The path was extremely dark and gloomy.It was night time . The forest was covered with mist. After this I just remember saying fire , water .
Dear Crystal,
The dreams are about awakening or learning to develop your mystical or intuitive abilities. Your parents are in denial or rejection of that kind of learning, but you are aware of it. The first thing you seem to need to be able to do is to read the book or listen to the inner world. The voice of the book is the voice of the inner world or mystical world. The snake is a symbol of the quality you need in order to learn your abilities. A snake represents having humility and flexibility which are requirements to open up the magical (mystical) aspects of yourself. Going into the forest means going into the inner world of the mind. When you are learning these abilities, it is actually helpful to go into the real forest as a kind of metaphoric experience for what is happening on the inside.
three small corrections:#1 the easternmost side of the boulevard#2 then i happened to become aware of a golden light #3 small wonder if you find some of it baffling i apologize for the errors. they occur sometimes when i type at maximum speed
in the past you have interpreted two dreams with great insight.i hope you will do as well with this highly perplexing dream i had about a week and a half ago. it began with moving along a road near a very busy highway. but what was unusual was this: i was in motion but not walking-at least,not how the word is usually understood-moving effortlessly,noiselessly on the road and then moving over the highway(yes,literally over) half swimming,half floating through the air until i came to what i somehow knew to be my destination an oblong shaped building looking somewhat like a school and i entered, again evidently by willing myself there-i had no memory of entering by a door- once inside i found myself in a building with several floors much like a shopping mall or an office building either comparison could have been appropriate for i noticed both stores and offices. after looking around and deciding which would be best to go,i decided on a place which seemed to be half bookstore half arts and crafts store. what was very interesting were the people there. one in a formal tie and business suit , the second in a saffron and bright orange robe with a tonsured head much like monks or some holy men the third was an anthropomorphic feline but on 2 legs and wearing a light purple-gray robe. perfectly capable of speaking and claiming to be able to communicate with any living creature by reading its energy and a highly advanced form of mental telepathy. this one was behind the counter. the other ones were in the store(if i may call it that) i can remember palm trees in pots on either side of the entrance.what was very interesting were the pictures on the wall-only,these were not just pictures. they were in motion frequently which turn on and off. it was usually to illustrate a point,for some of these depicted a time long before photography or movies were invented i took a quick look around the room.it contained many different exotic and unusual objects suddenly the one dressed like a monk walked over to a large- i estimate about 4 feet high-porcelain jar white with green leaves painted on it. he began walking clockwise around it 5 times, then turned to me and said “3 coins 2 brass 1 copper” i reached inside my pocket and dropped the coins in the jar. then he went to a black lacquer jar roughly about the same size as the other,walked around it 5 times counter-clockwise and said “3 coins 2 silver 1 gold” i reached into my other pocket and there were the three coins which i put into this jar. i cannot remember all the conversation which passed between us but i do recall it was very encouraging. then when i left something equally unexpected happened- i found myself in a vehicle moving soundlessly about 8 feet off the ground almost like some extraterrestrial vehicles are said to travel i do recall it was moving west down a wide,sweeping boulevard and at first from a height downward as though it were on a hill. as it went down it increased speed,then came to a very busy intersection. one detail: on either side of the easternmost i saw an unusually large collection of military men,both past and present. i can recall one general on horseback in a scarlet uniform. on the other side a high ranking officer in a blue uniform my thought was “what next?” when i happened to become of a very soothing golden light from above. then i woke up i hope you will do as well with this dream as with other two. small wonder if you find some it baffling. it baffled me
Dear JH,
In the dream you start out moving along a highway, have floating and have swimming. Swimming is an action associated with travel or movement in social or relational air, while floating is the way you travel in the realm of possibilities. And because you are heading to what appears to be a school, but ends up as a bookstore, the dream says that you have to invest in learning if you are going to be able to get to where you want to go in your life ahead both in your relationships and in your work. The three people represent the three types of learning, traditional like you would get for a profession, inward as in being able to calm your mind and meditate, and more “out there” kind of learning like how to use your intuitive powers. When you do all three and invest in them like putting the coins in, then you are able to get to where you want as if you had that kind of vehicle. The golden light is a symbol of turning to the light for guidance especially after having a new way to travel.
dear Richard as always you have ,shown great clarity and insight in your analysis. however, is there any special significance to the movements the monk made-5 times clockwise around the white porcelain jar and 5 times counter-clockwise around the black enamel one? one other detail-the coins i put into the first white jar were looked very old,much like the coins used in very ancient civilizations. by contrast, the 3 coins i put in the second black one were shining, they seemed to be brand new and freshly minted. i know that copper is a great conductor and silver is a natural antibiotic. i have every confidence you will find the answer to this as well as you always do
Hi JH,
When you are in the monk space, it requires that you are methodical and repetitive like when you are meditating for instance. It is quite different than the type of energy you need to be more out there, radical. The purpose of the monk state is to calm your mind so that you are open to guidance, whereas the more radical energy is about flying to get to new places. Really good question about the coins. The old coins are in the white jar and the new coins are in the black jar. I don’t know exactly other than you need to invest in both the old energy and the new energy. I am not sure how this makes sense in your life, but it must.
I just woke up from a a dream where I was out to dinner with all my husbands family and him and one of our kids. Dinner was going fine and conversation was flowing. We were seated by the bathrooms and this attractive lady walks past and my husband stops her to say hi, she says hello and her name is Julie. I immediately say oh hell no and they continue a short chat And she walks away. Later she returns to give my husband her number. His brother writes it down on a sticky note and hands it across the table where I grab it and burn it in the candle in the middle of the table.
Then later we’ve left the restaurant and are staying in this cabin type place but ALL of my husbands family and I are only in the attic loft area (I don’t see any more of the cabin) she comes by to give my husband a card and I meet her take the card and tell her she can’t have him he’s married and she makes the comment that he doesn’t seem to want to be and so I shift and tell her a few of the what I feel are negative things that cause tension for us as a warning of what she will have to deal with with him and she says oh that’s no problem I’m exactly that way too and hops over the attic banister and leaves. I burn this card too.
Later my husband and I are headed into my
Workplace holding hands, but he is midget sized. We approach this stair area and it’s filled
With gifts people sent to each other and he goes looking for a card from this woman and when he doesn’t find one he becomes upset and tells me that he thought she’d leave him a card. I say she did and I burned it and he is mad.
Then at some point she comes to our cramped attic loft again with a bunch of presents. The first two are for my husband. She opens the first box and it’s a type of chip he likes but the wrong brand and I take the box thank her for it as I dump it in the trash, she then leaves. But she got presets for my kids too. My daughter opens a chair and another 4 BB guns my husband makes the remark he wants to leave me and I am angry and upset I yell for him to pack his and his daughters things and leave. My daughter then tells me if dad and I are splitting she wants to live somewhere else and I yell to her fine to also pack her things and get ready to pay her own bills (she is almost to middle school age).
Then I woke up.
Dear Christine,
You can make sense of this dream if you can answer the question, Who is the woman in the dream? The woman could be his work or some other activity, but does not seem to an actual woman. It is something he does to leave you that makes you jealous. The issue in a dream that has jealousy is almost always about intimacy. I would say that there is something, probably a childhood trauma that makes it difficult for emotional intimacy. In the dream you are trying to stop him from going for the attractions, but that does not seem to work. What works is open yourself up to the things you have always been attracted to, but have not allowed yourself to go for. It may sound a bit counter-intuitive, but it works. Feel free to ask more. Happy New Year.
I had a dream I needed the toilet and I ask someone where I can go to use the toilet and the person pointed round the corner, I asked her if she was sure I could use the toilet round the corner and proceeded to go to this toilet and once I was standing in front of the door to this toilet there was a label which said Gods plans and I proceeded to open the door where I was met by this angry lady who sent me away. I have been battled a lot this year and have lost a lot and still have been prayerful and helpful I am highly gifted and pray for other. Am not perfect but I think I try my hardest and have endured a lot with no help or support physically this dream has really troubled me.
Dear Cilla,
When you have a toilet dream, it means that there is something to let go of emotionally. In real life we use the toilet to let go of wastes and negatives. We need to be doing the same spiritually all the time. It is best to do it daily because the ego is ever present. The answer to your prayer and the way to God’s plans for you is through the letting go of the anger. The angry lady could be your loss. You are holding onto anger. When you let it go, the guidance will come, but it cannot come until the anger is gone. The angry lady is the answer to the prayer because she is a doorway through which you will find your guidance. Think of anger as something that you need to let go of.
Also, you can write me at dreamsforpeace@gmail.com if you have further questions.
I had a dream I was working at Walmart and this guy was trying to hurt this little girl I’m telling him let her go and he then kills himself the little girl disappears 2 other coworkers come and seen what happen we’re panicking trying to find the little girl in the midst of this over the loud speaker they say my name and the 2 other coworkers are wanted for murder ppl are looking and staring and I get away into my car which the police pull up and park right next to me as soon as I get home I strip and shower and laying with my dog I call my bf and he already knows telling me to turn myself in I ask him how do you know he steady telling me turn myself in I’m crying and telling him but I didn’t do anything I have to call my mom I hang up in the time I’m calling my mom the police come busting in the door a lady comes in first I have my hands up and she tells them I’m unarmed and not dangerous my bf and kids show up I’m crying telling them ima going to be ok and telling him to call my mom he so nonchalant I put on pants and socks I got to put a shirt on and a guy gives me a shirt and tells me to put that on not my own clothes I ask about shoes he says my own is ok my phone rings and looks to be my mom my bc silenced it and I’m screaming crying please call her back take care of my babies tell her to find the little girl so she can tell what happen please my babies
Dear Marshe2,
So this dream tells you that you have a strange association in your mind that makes you believe that when you go to the aid of others who cannot protect themselves, things will be turned against you as if you are the criminal. This actually happens to people who stand up for others or try to protect them. It is like if you were to stand up against a corporation, then the corporate lawyers would make you seem like the criminal in order to hide their crime. What this dream should tell you is when you help the downtrodden or people in more vulnerable positions, that there are negative forces that want to keep you from doing so for their own advantage. Beside standing up for others as you did in the dream, you need an awful lot of wisdom and cleverness and understanding of the negative forces that sustain negative power.
Weird dream
Dec 27 at 11:43 pm I had a dream, I was walking somewhere I didn’t recognize. some one came up behind me and pulled my hair. I could feel them breathing on my neck. I told them to stop. I started yelling help she’s pulling my hair. I woke up with chills and feeling very scared
Dear Jennifer,
This dream will make sense to you if you think about its positive opposite which is what would have really wanted. What you wanted was someone to approach you from the front and admire your beautiful inner self. This is the basis of the a true relationship because it honors the amazing person that you are. The fear is that others want to take advantage of your outer beauty for their own selfish purposes. To solve the dream you first have to see your inner beauty and admire it.
Hello.
I had two dreams in one night.
I have been seeing a lot of medium size dead fishes all around the shore .I happen to take two fishes back home. Next episode is me and my partner in the kitchen back in my country of birth and there are two fishes on the table and I saw him taking fish and eating but it wasn’t prepared. The next dream I was coming home (again the home in my country of birth) from the same kitchen window large brown Doberman dog was looking and waiting for me to come and was friendly. Just to let you know my partner never was in my country of birth and mother lives in another country so the apartment is empty. It is strange and I wanted to see the possible meaning.
Today i again had a dream where my friend opened the fridge (freezer part) and there was this large fish and once he took it out dream finished.
This dream is like the other one only it shows you that instead of being cold, what you need to be is warm and friendly. The old idea is probably that you need to be tough and cold (freezing). The new idea is that warmth brings a lot to your life and makes you amazingly successful.
Dear Unknown89,
The dead fish represent the dead ideas that you still have from your country of birth. Eastern Europe??? The Doberman represents the energy that you need to have now to make your life work fully. Dogs are symbols of loyalty in friendship. This is what you need. First you need to let go of the dead fish, the old ideas or teachings that don’t serve you.
Hey Richard:
I hd a dream a few days ago, it was weird to say the least. I don’t remember much of it. What I do remember is that I am in some kind of building that has several floors but in the middle it’s open, I don’t know how to explain it. , I am in what i guess is the corridor of one of the floors and I am talking to my crush who is on the window on the floor above me, for some reason I had just gotten out of her apartment thru that window. I don’t remember much of what happened next, I think I am chased by all the neighbors and then I find myself in the lobby telling them something along the lines of if they don’t want me to make her happy that I didn’t care and I said a few more things along the line. I get into the elevator and I pressed a button for the second floor, in which I guess was her floor? Other people come inside as well and I see the elevator go up and it doesn’t stop on my floor, the others get out, the last floor they got out was on the 10th, i pressed the second floor button again and the elevator flew off, like in a drone type of thing, but it turned me around, it was hectic, you know those elevators that have two doors on each side? That kind of thing, but i was against the roof and I can see the elevator flying off to another building and it was dark outside, all i can see are the lights and the building itself, but no details. It was pretty weird and I am really trying to make sense of it. Something happened before the whole apartment thing. I was in a school corridor and they had asked me to go i guess to her room? Classroom? I am going there with some other students, they had given us like medals of some kind. When I go inside I don’t know at first it was her, it was strange, There was some type of arcade game and one of the other students ( I am saying students, but college students) sit in one of the games and start to play to get some rewards or something and tells me that i should do it. i give this person my medal, but it was more like an ID badge that needed the name or photo fixed, the person takes them and I go to lay down on one of the sofas, later I am alone with her, I see a window behind me, that’s from where i had walked in before, there was no door, and it was bright outside, she tells me that I have to get out the window and I do so. And that’s when the whole apartment thing begins. It’s very confusing and I hope to get some clarity, it’s been in my head for a few days now. Maybe it’s nothing but I am just hoping you can help me out.
Happy Holidays and thank you 🙂
Dear Barbara,
This dream has less to do with your crush, and more to do with the way you are easily influenced or lead by others which is also a cause of your annoyance at others. When you try to elevate your life (elevator metaphor), it is out of control. You cannot elevate yourself because you are controlled by others. The key is to be more in control of your own life, unaffected by others and what they want you to do. When you are more in control of your own self, then you can feel elevated, and get to where you are headed. Your crush may be a person who can do that and that is why you are attracted to her. I am not sure exactly about that.
I dreamt that it was evening time and I was standing in a short hallway between the kitchen and the living room to get something and I was about to take a step towards the kitchen when I paused as something told me something really bad will happen and to get away as fast as I can. As I thought this I felt an increasing heat overhead and something growing brighter outside the kitchen window. I stepped back, ran into the living room and tackled my partner to the ground instinctively as a celestial body (i am not sure whether it was a meteor/comet/asteriod) impacted through the building and right at the spot where I was standing, it was bright, red hot and molten that disintegrated everything around it and kept going outwards. As everything slowed down in my dream I heard screaming, my partner was screaming in my dream, I woke up and he was screaming in his dream and in his sleep (he didn’t remember what he dreamt about) but it was disturbing to say the least. Usually I am good at deciphering my dreams but on this one, I am stumped. Would really appreciate some clarity on this one 🙂 and thank you in advance
Dear Mishel,
This is a very interesting dream because it tells you something about what is happening to your partner in his life. He feels like he is under attack from a higher up source probably like authority. I would say that the reason that he is not remember the disturbing dream is because he doesn’t want to have face the difficult situation. You get the dream because you can create the environment that helps him work through it.
Thank you for your interpretation, very interesting to see from a different perspective that I never thought about before :).
Ok so in the dream I was in this openly magical town. A person walked me into a blank building and gestured me in. Its one room, it had balls of light sitting everywhere and a giant book against the wall. A little person popped up and asked for my card, they scanned my eyes and let my in. I touched a light ball and started watching like a movie. I asked out loud what was I watching and someone said me from a past existence. I opened the book but I couldn’t read anything on the pages. I unrolled a scroll on the wall and saw like directions and ingredients to make magic wands. Then I heard clapping like a fake audience. It was like being in a harry potter movie
Dear Celia,
This dream shows you that you are opening up to more magical parts of yourself, but you do not yet have conscious understanding or control over it. In most people the first step in opening to a more magical existence is the use of intuitive powers. The reason that they are harder to control is because, by nature, they are unconscious. All of us have a more logical and rational side as well as an intuitive one. The world is largely oriented toward the rational, which is a really great gift, but the intuitive side is also great. It comes to us more as a surprise like when we least expect and is not to be controlled like when you use the rational mind. Right now you are in the stage of fascination. Later it will help you with guidance.
I don’t really remember much about the dream. But I think my fiancé was in it and he ended up turning my ex before him that was abusive mentally and psychically. I can’t get the one part of the dream out of my head he had three long skinny glass tubes coming out of his ears but they were broken on the end and covered in blood. Everytime he would pull one out another seemed to like push out again in the same place at the same length as the last one. He didn’t seem as tho he was in pain he acted like it was normal and that it was like some kind of medical disease. Me and my fiancé have been fighting a lot and bad. I think that why if he did turn into my ex that would be why but someone please help me figure out the ear part……I have no emotions at all for my ex and never think of him. Usually I can make sense of stuff like that in my dream but I need help on this one….
Turning into my ex I meant in the beginning
Dear Claud,
There is a part of your fiancé that is like your ex is probably why you are fighting. There is something wrong in the way he processes hearing. He doesn’t seem to be hearing things correctly. It is not something you want to have in a long term relationship and why you are fighting. You want to be in a relationship where your partner listens to you and hears your point of view so that you can make decisions together.
I was living in a house a just purchased. It was an older house but nice. The living room was a room that needed remodeling. My biological father who chose drugs over me in waking life and was rarely around showed up in this dream. He was pulling up pieces of the living room floor…they were wet and moldy looking. He was telling me it needed to be replaced as he pulled them up. Later he was gone and the same flooring he pulled up was back down like he never touched it. Then a family friend came over and started replacing these boards and beams under the house with new ones.
Hi Christine,
What this shows you is that your biological father has no positive effect on who you are and your life. The people that have the positive effect are those like your family friend. It says to let go of your biological father and hold onto precious friends.
I had a very vivid dream about intoxicating a younger male friend and then convincing/seducing him to have sex with me. I thought about my real life boyfriend and thought who cares about him since (in real life) he joked about suddenly marrying someone else to see my reaction when the truth is he’s away at a relatives wedding and couldn’t ask/tell that he’s taking a break all of a sudden the right way. Like a Rachel & Ross situation on FRIENDS, we were on a break, and unlike Ross who basically “cheated” on the same day, it’s been a week since we’ve talked, so I wasn’t even worried if he found out…I kind of wanted him to find out and realise that it’s not okay to just withdraw yourself without warning and expect the other person to remain lonely & unfulfilled waiting for you
However after waking up I feel disgusted at the way I treated my male friend, I mean even if I should cheat it should be with a stranger or old hookup, I shouldn’t be using a friend as a pawn and ruining a friendship as well, I don’t want to think about my friends in such a manner
And in real life I don’t want to cheat either actually only in the dream
Dear Oh No,
I think that the issue for you is that you are not getting as close as you would like to get with your current boyfriend so in the dream you are trying to get a different friend to let go of his inhibitions and get really close to you. If you substitute yourself for the friend, you can see that you need to let go of some of your inhibitions in order to get a better state of intimacy. It is not that you should be using substances, but that you have something holding you back. Usually when you have an inhibitions problem it is because you are holding onto some rules that don’t serve you.
In my dream: I was camping outside with friends and came across a large cobra snake. I immediately realized I had to warn everyone and get them away as soon as possible. I was able to save all but one person, as their tent was behind the snake and I didn’t want to pass the snake to get to them. That person happened to be an ex best friend of mine. The next day, me and everyone else went back to check if the snake was still there and then realized it wasn’t a big snake at all I had seen it wrong and it was just a rope.
Dear Dreamer Girl,
Imagining a big cobra is imagining that a venomous person, one who uses malicious gossip, criticism and backbiting, is going to ruin your adventure and gathering. Because you imagined the snake and it became a rope, you can do the opposite in a positive manner and get a huge amount of success. The opposite is to remember positives about everyone and find a way to say it to them. Snake energy is really great to have when you are in an environment where you have relatively little authority and the environment tends to be negative. Snakes are flexible and can get into emotional spaces that others cannot get into. For example, you have a coffee with someone and find something positive to acknowledge. When you call out positives in others, it changes a negative environment quickly with people not actually knowing how it happened.
Fell in love with a ghost from 1841, she had 1 sister, a mom and a dad. They all lived in a Victorian era 2 story home. I discovered the house (in our time period 2020) upon wondering up a hill side partially covered by forest. Once I found the house it appeared old, discolored and covered in moss, mould and aspesdus. I walked closer to the house and opened the front door which was unlocked and slightly ajar, upon entering I heard sounds of a family talking and there appeared ghosts of the dad, the mom and 2 daughters standing side by side as if to greet me, I felt a feeling of depression and sadness come over me as well as an immediate sense of each family members personality and emotions. The father of the house felt as if he had a strong hold on the mom and 2 girls, the mother seemed to be accepting of the fathers choices and the 2 daughters felt caged within their own home as if they never had a life of excitement outside. I wondered around the outside of the home for awhile and felt the presence of the oldest daughter watching me, I also felt a calm feeling, a connection to her as she watched me. I started to feel an attraction to the oldest daughter even though I was alive and she was a ghost. I left the home after awhile and wondered off not far from the house into the woods, I sat on a fallen tree and thought about the attraction I had for the oldest daughter. After some time had passed and the sun had begun to set I looked over my right shoulder and there appeared the ghost of the oldest daughter looking at me still with curiosity, I was surprised to see her as I felt she wasn’t allowed out or away from the house but I felt no fear or anxiety seeing a ghost, I just felt attraction and thought how beautiful she is, she came close to me and we stood face to face before we kissed each other, during the kiss we had closed our eyes and when I opened my eyes I was in 1841 when she was still alive and I was very amazed and felt overwhelmingly happy I could be with her now that I’m in her time period while she was once alive.
Dear Brandon,
This is a very cool dream. In most ghost dreams people are in an apprehensive state, but in your case, you are calm and attracted. The house and the people represent your ability to sense and communicate with invisible energy, to feel energy and have it speak to you. The girl represents your attraction to the ability and complete comfort with it. 1841 means that it is an ability that has been in your family for a long time, but is now reawakened in you. Allow yourself to get used to it and keep working on having pure intentions. Purity is the quality that allows for clear communication. A lot of people have interference from ego, which is more like false communication. Welcome to a whole new world.
I had 2 dreams on the same night. The first one was a bit weird I don’t remember everything.I was in a some kind of party or something like that in a castle and then there was a sudden attack. Everyone started running out of the castle to save their lives.There were duells going on between people. I too took out my wand and joined the duells to save others lives. But they were very powerful than us all. They were more in number. Many got severely injured. Some of them started destroying the castle. A woman looked at me with a concern and said ” You have to get out of here ” i was going to reply , not willing to go.. leaving everyone but she screamed “NOW”.Then a guy came grabbed my hand and said follow me. (It seemed like I knew him in the dream).I heard her say to herself as we ran downstairs”You both must stay safe”.We came out of the castle somehow . I don’t remember What exactly happened after that but something bad must have taken place. As after that I was injured .I got out of that place and came into a forest with some other people.And the guy who was with me was unconscious. I was crying as I said “Why did you have to do this ,you saved me but look what happened to you”.I said all this while caressing him.The others sat beside me to comfort me.
(And as I woke up tears started flowing from my eyes.i don’t know why I but I felt really bad.
I fell asleep after sometime saying to myself that it was just a dream.)
And then the next dream swept in.I was in a place that didn’t felt normal .The floor was cloudy or I was standing in the clouds.The only thing I could see was the white sky filled with clouds everywhere and some sparkling objects. A guy came from behind and called out my name.i was so happy to hear his voice I ran and hugged him I said”I miss you”.”I know , I miss you too” he replied. (I just remember his lower face and hairstyle) I said “I have weird dreams, but no one listens to me.They would think I have gone crazy if I say them to anyone” .He replied ” But I do “.. Then I said him everything about what happened in my last dream. He just said” Do you think there’s some connection with something? Because I think so.Maybe something you should know.” ..” The places and people were complete starangers but It felt familiar. Maybe there’s something to know about past things”I replied after thinking for a long time. He smiled” Yes maybe Past liv…”
And I woke up . So I don’t know what he was going to say after that.
Dear Hritika,
The first dream starts out where you are in the midst of conflict. When you are in that state, you desire to help others to safety is awakened. This is the first positive about you. Then when the conflict becomes too dangerous, you have to flee, even though you want to stay and help. You end up caressing and showing a great deal of care and compassion. So you can say that the dream wants you to open up your caring and compassionate self. The problem is that it takes a conflict to do so. What needs to happen is that compassion and caring become such a part of you that you are able to do it all time, even when there is no conflict. Once you have the quality of compassion, then you need the quality of understanding and guidance which is what the second dream is about. The guy represents your inner problem solving self which helps you to get understanding. In both dreams you have a lot of affection as well which means that you already have a great deal of love inside of you.
I had a dream that there was a man. I’ve never seen him before but in my dream, he felt familiar, like I had feelings for him. He asked me to marry him. I asked him why would I do that since I was already in a happy arranged marriage, not in love, and I was a Queen. He responded with, “Marry me and find out”. As he said this I noticed the blanket on the bed that we were standing next to started to change, almost as if it were by tiles, and it went to the walls and I watched as the house changed right before my eyes into my dream home. I was shocked and I asked him ” How did you know?” He said that we could live there, start a family, and be happy. He said there was even a pool room and there was a pool also. I looked out of one of the windows and saw the pool in the back. I was speechless. He asked me to marry him again and I said I needed a minute. I took a look around and everything was perfect. I noticed on the patio that there were two small plates of half-eaten strawberries next to two half-drunken glasses. I heard faint music in the background and I remember thinking that we must have guests. I walked through the kitchen and there were trays of food like at a party. I grabbed a small bowl and got some chicken and the last little bit of teriyaki sauce on it, before going to look for him. I saw some other people and I asked them where he was and they pointed me to his office/man cave. He asked me again if I’d marry him and I started to say yes before I woke up.
Dear Jadyn,
There are two aspects to a happy marriage. One is that you find someone who your attracted to where is a great deal of mutual love. The other is that the two of you together both have the strong character to build a family together. It is not either-or. It is both-and. You have to have both to make it work. In a sense you are marrying both situations, love and character.