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In my dream, I saw an incubus with a halo above his head.
He offered me a flower and seemed really nice. I forced myself to wake up, without taking the flower.
The incubus seemed somewhat familiar, however, I couldn’t fully recognise him.
What does it mean?
Hi Raspberry,
An incubus with a halo over his head is like a man who is charming and outwardly sweet, but inwardly controlling and just into a relationship for his own gain. It is very common in the culture which is why dating is not such a good practice as it doesn’t allow you to see the real person. When you are in that kind of relationship you will have some uncomfortable feelings, but the charm will fool you. If you go with the uncomfortable feelings by acknowledging them, then you will see the person’s negative character. The sweetness or halo is what is deceptive. The people that are the most vulnerable are those folks who have not had enough sweetness in their lives.
So I was watching a dream and there were my friends who are in a relationship but they are trying to keep it secret..They are hugging and are happy and so am I about them!
Can someone explain this!
Ps.I’m kinda jelaous about their relationship sometimes just their relationship not about any of them two cause they are both my best friends
Dear Nojre,
When you have this dream and see people relating well together, you admire what they can do and would like to be able to do it yourself. It isn’t so much that you are jealous, but probably more that you are protecting yourself from becoming involved more with a positive relationship. Protection means that you have some fear related to being in a relationship.
I had a dream that there was something wrong with my teeth. There was a gap appearing between my front teeth, but when I wore my retainer (I’m wearing it in real life after my braces came off) the gap disappeared. My parents took me to a monk for help. We went into a room, there were also many people in there waiting to see the monk. The monk told us to wait as he went out to greet the media. I went to a nearby mirror and took off my retainer. One of my front teeth broke and grew a mass of flesh that looked like cancer. That mass was visible on the outside as the flesh between my nose and lips rotted away. I went out of the room and told my brother to follow me. Somehow we ended up in the hallway of my first house (in real life, it was the house I was born in and before my family and I move, it sometimes appears in my dreams and it appears frequently when I had nightmares). This time, the atmosphere of the house was quite peaceful with slight warm breeze (the house appeared as gloomy and tensed when I had nightmares). I asked my brother what would happen if I die and the dream ended.
Dear K,
The problem you have with the teeth in this dream has something to do with the fear of appearing in a negative way to others. you are going to a monk probably to find a solution, but it gets only worse. The house where you were born is the place where this issue began. It appears to be more peaceful because you need to have peace within yourself about who you are. You get thrown oout of peace into nightmares when you compare and fear appearing in a negative way. No doubt this is the culture of your home.
I had a dream of my grandmother two days after she passed away. In the dream, she looked very healthy. She seemed wanting to help our family’s financial problem. She then told my dad to drive her to her workplace. What does this mean?
Dear Steven,
It is really interesting that your grandmother already is wanting to help your family right after her passing. It means that she always had the right spiritual quality that would solve the family’s financial issues. Financial problems are almost always spiritual in nature, not material. The way you get to solving the family’s problems is to meditate on her positive qualities and then apply them to the financial world. Most often financial problems are a result of lack of trust or dishonesty.
I dreamt that I was in a painting competition. I painted a night scenery which mainly consist of dark blue and black. I was so close to finishing the painting. Unfortunately, I was unable to complete it in time.
Dear Kelly,
This dream is about being able to finish what you start. Probably the problem for you is the competition, but it is hard to tell from the little information in the dream. Competition can make you judge your outcome so that you never think it is good enough. It can make you stop something even when you are close to achieving it.
Hi so to start off everything I’m going to say happens in the same dream. I seem to have dreams for hours instead of short ones. I can lucid dream and realize I’m dreaming inside the dream but can’t fully control everything and I didn’t teach myself that. I have deja vu dreams but the deja vu is only with places or things I’ve experienced in my dreams nothing relating to real life. I dream about world ending but I always end up surviving because I “know what to do” from the deja vu. Sometimes there’s tsunamis or very intimidating bad guys who I seem to get away from (most times) and if I try to kill them they won’t die no matter how hard I hit them. The lucid dreaming helps because I no longer have sleep paralysis. I’ll wake up very effected by these dreams too almost like I’m exhausted cause I’m doing so much in them. Sometimes there’s sex involved but im never the one having sex no matter how hard I try to. Sometimes im in a dark eerie abandoned building with my friends or people I know and I HAVE to get us to escape because I feel a horrible bad presence coming. The only times I can remember my dreams having any happiness is when I’ll be hanging with my favorite celebrity. But most times they’re just dreams that I seem to know what to do and have the answers to but are SUPER intense. This dreams are very vivid to me too as I said I wake up the next morning almost effected by what just happened. PLEASE explain this for me!
Dear Ralph,
Being able to do lucid dreaming for you means that you are capable of doing action that saves you or keeps you alive, but your lucidity doesn’t seem be able to create positive scenarios nor have intensely positive experiences. In real life this is analogous to being able to keep yourself surviving and to deal with world-ending scenarios, but keeps you yet from thriving fully. The bad guy never really dies and you stay alive, but really what you want to have in your life are extremely positive scenarios where positive visions can come true. The lucid part means that you can have a strong will, but the continually negative means that you are not driven by positive visions yet. The first thing that is helpful in this kind of mental pattern is to remember that you have an incredible strong will that is capable of achieving a lot. Then you have to change the way the world becomes so negative to you and replace it with positive visions. The drive for survival can be replaced by a drive for thriving. This is done when you go after really positive visions. When you start the visualizing process, your dreams will gradually change to being more positive with you achieving them.
Hi. I am 25 years old female. I had a dream that i was in a hiking group with some people. I didnt know most of them. I only knew three women. One was a childhood classmate, the other was her older sister and finally their mother was also present. Their mother started making fun of another person’s dead father. So i stood up to her. Everyone clapped and agreed with me including the daughters. I remember feeling proud of that. After the hike was over, our van was dropping off people near their homes. I remember missing my stop. Then the van stopped at a distant location which was a forest type region. A few other fellow hikers were also there in the van. I had to ride my bicycle towards home. But then i remembered that i didnt say goodbye to the person who took us on the hike. It was one of my school teachers. I went back and said thank you to her. All the other people who went on the hike with me left while i was saying goodbye to her. I remember feeling scared because i had to go home alone. I had to ride my bicycle through a forest area to get home. My dog was also going with me. Then something happened to my bike and i had to walk. It was a very muddy road with so much water. I was hurrying up as much as possible. My dog was then taken by some animal. I dont know who it was. It was either a giant lizard or a wolf. I chased after them to get my dog back. I remember my dog being free finally. But when i called him he did not come to me. Then because i made a lot of noise, it attracted a wolf. A white and black wolf. I heard other wolves approaching me too, but didnt see them. I ran away without even looking back. Then i remember being too scared and unable to see the rest of the dream. I thought i shouldnt see the rest of it because i might die and my dog abandoned me. So i dreamed that i was in a bathroom hiding from the wolves. They couldnt get to me. But they were getting closer. Then i woke up. I didnt know where this bathroom came from in the middle of the forest. I was pretty rattled once i woke up. Can you please tell me what my dream meant?
Dear Mia,
The dream starts out pretty positive because you are on an adventure and you are able to be assertive about setting your boundaries. You are also grateful because you are going back to thank the teacher. These are all positive things to do. The part of the dream you have fear is when you are alone in the forest and then chased by a wolf. When you have a animal dream like yours, you can think of animals as having two sides, a positive side which represents higher energy, and a negative side which represents ego energy or lower energy. The lower energy of a wolf is aggressiveness and greed which is something that the dream says you are fearful of especially when you are alone trying to make your way home in the forest of life. The positive side of a wolf is being assertive and working together to do positive things in the world. This is the positive energy that is trying to grow inside of you. First you have to let go of your fear and then embrace the higher energy. It is a process that is calling you for the time period ahead.
My dream had four different parts to it and I don’t know if they should be interpreted separately or as one. Here it goes: The first part was very vague and I can’t really remember much but I was with my dads side of the family (whom I don’t see much) and everyone was there (something that hasn’t happened in years). There was some sort of celebration but I remember trying to leave, not because I didn’t want to be there, I wanted to, but I was still trying to leave. Then the next thing I knew I was in this place which was a summer camp for incoming college students (I’m starting college in the fall). I knew some kids there and was talking to them and having fun and then I went to the snack bar and was trying to order food but there was SO MANY people ahead of me it was taking forever and I knew I was missing out on some events. So I left the line in hopes it would be smaller when I got back and when I came back it was LONGER! So I decided to just stay because I was hungry. One guy who I kind of liked during my senior year got in line next to me and as he was with a friend I automatically assumed he broke up with his girlfriend so I began talking with him. The line moved and I was able to order my food through a machine which kept Messing up and I kept having to go to a different one. The guy I liked ended up getting ahead of me in line and then his girlfriend appeared and they started kissing so I gave up all hope of flirting with him. The sun was setting and my food still wasn’t ordering and the ladies in charge of the food got mad at me so I just left hungry. After the sun set my mom was trying to pick me up but I kept avoiding her. I went outside and it was dark and I saw this creature that looked like a monkey but also like an alien. Even though I don’t know who it was my dream self recognized it as a nature spirit who’s name was Lobo and suddenly I became a little boy (but I would switch from little boy to girl). I knew that if the spirit was in the form he was in he was angry and dangerous so I was running trying to avoid him and thinking of ways to turn him to his nice self (which was a monkey with white fur). I ran throughout the city and eventually switched over to a girl again and a little older but not quite my age that I am. My mom appeared and we were going to go into a restaurant to hide and eat since I still hadn’t eaten anything and then the restaurant caught on fire! We needed to get to the street which was on the other side but we couldn’t because the surrounding building were in danger of catching on fire so we had to maneuver through them (I lead my mom). Finally we were almost to the street but my mom had forgotten her jacket and it was snowing (even though it’s summer and we live in a hot climate). I told her to go on and that I would get the jacket. She was worried that the alien monkey spirit would get me but I told her I was fast enough to avoid him. I got her jacket and then saw Lobo and became afraid because he was too close for me to run but then we he saw me crouching (I was in that position to get the jacket) he became happy and turned into a normal monkey. He didn’t talk but I understood that he wanted to help me. The dream kinda switched (my dream self was still the same) but I was in my grandmothers house (my moms mom) and my family was over one the other room and a boy who looked only a little older than me was in the room. I could tell he was actually hundreds of years old and was a spirit too but one that didn’t have a good or bad form which worried me because his intentions could be anything. He was talking to me about the most mundane things as if he actually cared about me but the more we talked the more I could sense I dark energy around him. I began trying to make him like me because I thought that if he liked me he wouldn’t hurt me and one of my family members who was watching whispered in my ear “if you’re trying to make him like you like THAT (romantically, which I wasn’t trying for I was trying for a friend) he already does”. I looked at his face and realized that the look on it was someone who had a crush. Instead of being embarrassed that the first person to have a crush on me was a dark spirit, I began using it to my advantage. I began taking care of my baby cousin because I didn’t know if he would hurt my family but I knew he wouldn’t hurt a child. He helped me take care of her and it made him like me more and I began thinking I liked him too when I woke up, and in that half awake state I realized he reminded me of a character from a book that I really liked even though he looked nothing like him.
I know this dream sounds crazy but it all happened and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it for a few days.
Hi Gabriella,
Sorry for the delay in responding. The dream seems to be giving you information about the time period ahead when you will enter university. Your dad’s side of the family represents your masculine energy, while your mom’s represents your feminine energy. In actuality you are going to need both energies in the time period ahead. The celebration represents the fact that your masculine energy is coming into being. That is why the family is together. This represents energy like being assertive and going after what you set your mind on as well as strength. You leave the celebration because your spirit is hungry for new things like what you will experience in school, but you have a hard time getting fed. Both times in the dream you cannot get to the food which means it is a challenge to feed your soul or your spirit. Part of the problem you are facing is that when you get to new experiences like meeting new people you cannot tell if they are positive or negative beings. This is because people all have both energies in them. Aliens in a dream represent people that are new to you. Mostly when you see people’s positive energy and act in a positive way then things turn out really well. When you think of them as dark, then you will hold back from them. The goal actually of the dream is for you to begin to feel really comfortable going fully into new experiences so that you can learn and develop yourself. When you hold back because it seems alien, then you will not get the full benefits. There is a lot in the dream, but that is the gist of it. Feel free to ask for more.
Okay so I recently broke up with my girlfriend a week or so ago not for anything she did or anything like that. But the other night I had a dream about her. I dreamed that I found out she was going to be with another man shortly after I met up with her and took her into a river I then started kissing her along with more” intimate” thing’s when we were finished I told her that I love her and that she belongs with me and won’t let alone else have her then I kissed her again. Why would I dream that?
Dear Drake,
It is when you found out that she was going to be with another man, that you got serious about her in the dream. So then it was ok to break up with her, but the thought of her going with someone else makes you want to go after her again. It is usually not a healthy way to approach life because it is not out of attraction, but out of jealousy. Jealousy is never a good emotion to act from. The best thing to do is to let go of any jealous feelings you might have, and then go for positive relationships that you are attracted to. The scenario in the dream is long term trouble even if you would get her back short term.
I guess your right I’m just feeling guilty because I left her because of a medical reason
there is this guy I havent seen in 6 years. we weren’t friends or anything but he was that type of person to make me smile or laugh (not sure why) we were in grade school and high school together and I was always the shyest in the class but he managed to make me laugh and smile even without being friends. and now suddenly hes been appearing in my dreams and they are always different stories and different scenarios. The only thing that’s the same is that we end up liking each other and almost end up together.
Almost every night I end up having a dream of him and im getting really frustrated. I dont know if I should try to contact him or try to forget about him again and move on.
Why is he just now getting into my dreams and ending up liking me?
in grade school I guess I did have a crush on him
what are your thoughts?
Dear Bree,
The person that comes into your dreams is the guy who helped bring you out of your shy self. He did this by making you laugh and smile. The reason that you are having this dream is that you are in a similar situation in that you need to get out of your shy self and into a more positive one that can interact with the world. What is different now is that you don’t have someone to that. All you have is the memory of someone who can do it for you. His quality seems to be that he was light and fun which is the quality that you can begin to develop in yourself. When you do that, you will be able to get over your shyness. It is as if you have to him inside of you making you laugh. It is not about having a relationship with him, but develop the quality he has inside of yourself.
I looked out my bedroom window. It was night, but there was light from the moon brightening the yard outside. There were two happy pit bulls smiling at me, a black one and a white side by side like they were close to one another. There wasn’t really any sound, but they were playfully jumping up and scratching at the window to get my attention. So I called my sister to look at the sweet dogs.
Beyond them, the yard was packed with kittens everywhere, in a snow covered yard. There were multicolored kittens like black, orange, and white. There were black kittens, white kittens, gray kittens, just many kittens walking or standing around in the yard. I just looked and watched how cute the dogs and all the kittens were together.
I walked to my living room and when I looked out the window, I seen our past old chihuahua dog that my mom didn’t like, outside in the cold, curled up beneath something to keep warm. I brought him inside and he was skinny from being starved. I was mad at my mom for neglecting him, and got the bag of dog food, and fed him out my hand till he had a full stomach.
Afterward, I went to turn on a light, and the switch had a thin frame of blue fire behind it, like an electricity spark waiting to happen. I was nervous that if I messed with the light or the switch, it would spark and cause a fire, so I didn’t mess with it.
Dear Patricia,
This is a great dream for you. The pit bulls represent your own friendly and outgoing nature, while the cats represent your independence and ability to think for yourself. The fact that you have two dogs and multiple cats means that you have a lot of these two qualities. Not many people have both cats and dog inside of them, but you do. The part of you that is responding to the chihuahua is the part of you that is compassionate and caring. It too is strong in you. The only problematic part is when you try to turn on the light in your house. Turning on the light means being illumined or guided by the positive forces, the forces of light. This means that there is an energy in your home (family) that doesn’t want you to be so illumined and live a compassionate and caring life. As unusual as this may seem it is very common in a lot of families.
There is a guy I used to study with in high school and during school days we have never formally spoke & never saw him again for almost 9 years but last year we communicated due to working in the same company but in different departments so we became cosy and we developed an interest towards each other but for an unknown reason he started ignoring me and I took it as sign that he is no longer interested and moved on with my life without any grudges or bitterness, we dont communicate nor see each other because his office is in a different town than mine but now the problem is I keep dreaming about him and all these dreams are similar to each other.
1. I dreamt of us being in this area that’s not familiar to me and I couldn’t hear what he was saying, All i heard was the word “Please” and after that he pulled me close and hugged me so tightly and I woke up right after the hug.
2. last night i dreamt receiving a cellphone call from him and as I was about to ask him what he wants he asked me to please not argue with him and wait for him because his coming towards me and he will arrive on Sunday and he ended the call.
These dreams are confusing me and I would like to believe that I am receiving messages from spiritual guidance but I really dont know how to interpret them in my awakening life, could you please help me and share some remarkable wisdom with me id truly appreciate it.
Dear Jasmine,
The key to the first dream is actually the setting. The setting is unfamiliar. This actually means that the dream wants you to learn how to become comfortable and competent in unfamiliar places. Whatever energy he has inside is the energy you need inside yourself to feel comfortable when you are in unfamiliar territory. When you were “cozy”, you would have felt it. The idea of doing this kind of work is to develop the energy that he has inside your own self. When you do that, you will find a lot of guys and have a fantastic life. It will change you from waiting for advances to making a lot of your own advances.
Hey Richard
I had a dream over a month ago that I can’t figure out what it means but it still sticks with me every day. ….. I was spending time with a man who was not my boyfriend and I remember having to hug him good bye to go with my boyfriend and I felt extremely heart broken and sad to the point I couldn’t shake the sadness for the rest of the day and I still feel my heart drop when I think about it.. any ideas ?? What am I missing??
Dear Leah,
This actually means that you have a part of yourself that is male-like inside that you are really attracted to and want to be with, but you probably feel like you have to say good bye when you are with your boyfriend. Male energy is more assertive and action oriented and also strong like with opinions, etc.. You need him with you. If your boyfriend cannot handle it, it is time to say good bye to your boyfriend.
Hi I had a dream that I had a misscarige had to change my clothes then I was just walking about no pain every 1 else was being normal an I was like in a world of my own x
Dear Mary,
Having a miscarriage in a dream means that a part of you was going to be born is now not alive in you. What you can do is find out what the part is inside of you. It is something that you wanted to develop in yourself. You have to reawaken the energy. Usually this kind of dream happens when the part of you that wants to be born doesn’t feel safe to develop because of the people in your environment. I would need some other info about you or another dream to know what wants to be born in you.
Hello Richard I dreamed first of having more money in my bank account than it changed and I was in a training room with a lot of people sitting at tables. I sitting in a chair I left but when I came back, someone was sittting there…I stood behind her and told her this was my seat I stood behind her and waited for her to get up. The girl was upset and she and her friend got up..I sat down. We went on break I was walking down the hall but I was unable to move forward I kept walking but my movements was slow and it felt like someone was holding me back…A teacher was in front me looking at me struggling. I told her I can’t move.. I removed one arm from the sweater I was wearing when I looked back something invisible was holding the arm of the sweater my arm was in. the sleeve was up in the air something was holding me back..I somehow removed my other arm from the sweater..suddenly I was holding a six month old baby I was holding it to me when the baby looked behind me the baby cried in terror. The baby saw something terrible . I Held the baby tight to me to protected it from something that was after it. I didnt look back, I knew it was evil.. I prayed and rebuked it.. i spoke before it can stop me from talking it disappeared. I held the baby tight to me with my head down covering the baby…I started walking forward.. I woke upvans looked down at my arms and realize it was a dream the baby was not in my arms. I can still see the terror in the baby face.
Hi Lovely,
The metaphor of having more money in your bank account means that your spirit wants to develop the virtue of generosity more fully. This is how it goes with money in a dream. When you begin to experience more wealth, it means it is time to be more generous. What holds you back firstly is when someone takes your place and then you have to assert yourself to get it back. You can do this ok in the dream, but the feeling on the part of the others will tend to make you less generous. Were there other options other than just taking back your place? This is what you can ask yourself. The baby in the dream represents the part of you that is learning to be generous, but you are hampered in your quest for generosity when evil is present. Evil means people with bad motives such as when there is a lot of greed in the environment that is characterized by cheating and stealing and lying. Greed comes about because people are fearful that they are not going to have enough or they have fear of poverty. When it becomes a pattern of thought, a person could become very wealthy, but thinks they never have enough so they have to greedily go for more. It is how the environment gets destroyed. In the face of that kind of evil it is easy to pull in and not practice generosity, but that is exactly when it is needed. In countries like the U.S. people tend to worship those who make huge amounts of money as if they have it all together, but really one should really focus on how generous you can be with your wealth. That is the real measure of a person’s character. You are being called up to this great quality. My own experience with generosity is that I am truly generous when I get as much or more joy out of giving something to someone as I would if were getting it myself. Some days are better than others, but it is an amazing quality to have.
Hey there. I’m kinda a lucid dreamer, and basically this has been more of a long term pattern rather than a one-off thing.
I usually wake up in my own bedroom. I usually run a test or two to make sure I’m dreaming (by trying to levitate, I usually can in dreams). I usually climb out my bedroom window (I live in on a very high apartment floor) and try to fly out.
It’s kinda a 50/50 chance. I do not fear falling. Even if I smash face first into the ground… I’ve always known that I don’t take fall damage anyway so. Yeah. Bad news is it’s usually difficult to fly very high once you reach the ground in the dream sequence so..
Sometimes I succeed in flying, and I usually just want to fly as far as I can, to see what I can discover. I usually try to fly as high as possible as well, hoping I won’t fall as easily or get obstructed by buildings, telephone lines etc.
A more recent theme is the thunderstorms. Truthfully, a lot of the time I actually seek out thunderstorms. And fly straight into the storm clouds. To absorb their power.
Thing is, I habitually shapeshift in my dreams. I just like to do it when I can.. it’s just.. my thing. When I fly, I like to imagine self turning into a dragon (or trying to). I just really like dragons generally. So as I fly, I see a storm cloud and I think… it is time to evolve into a storm dragon.
I feel ticklish with electricity… and restless.. wanting to let loose a powerful blast out of my jaws and see just how much I can sear. Well, it doesn’t always work but oh well.
In the dream home.. I usually feel anxious. Like maybe there’s a serial killer in there.. or maybe one of my parents are the killer! Or a ghost of some sort.
While there has been one sequence where I could actually turn into a dragon in my own home (and blow the whole house up along with the ghost before crawling out of the rubble and flying in circles around the rubble, proud of my own destructive work, no ghost can harm me!).. it is exceptionally hard to turn into anything indoors so.. I usually climb out to have any chance of transforming.
Um yeah haha just a few patterns look forward to your response.
Hi Marissa,
I really enjoyed reading what you can do in your dream world. I am going to tell you what it means to be lucid in real life, but first of all I am going to tell you the problem in your home. Homes in a dream represent the self so you can understand that inside of your self there is some kind of negative ghost. Ghosts are normally imagined thoughts from your mind that don’t have reality, but I think that because you think that one of your parents is a serial killer in the dream, then you have a fear that if you reveal your true identity, that one of your parents is going to try to kill it. Metaphorically it means they would criticize you or put you down for it. This is why you go to the thunderstorms to get the power and become a dragon. It allows you to destroy the ghosts or killers that might kill your true self. Anyway, you feel under some kind of threat for what you are capable of doing. Now, what does it mean to be lucid in real life. Lucidity in the dream world means that you can do things and become whatever you choose such as flying or getting power in the thunderstorms. That is all well and good, but so what? If it begins and ends in the dream world, it doesn’t mean much. It is a little more than a video game that you have fun manipulating during your sleep. The really good part about being lucid is actually what you can do in your waking life. Being lucid in your waking life means that you have to power or ability to imagine a positive state and then become that. (You also have the power to become a destructive force). You can fly, shapeshift, and go into the heart of a storm. There are real world equivalents that you can in your everyday just as you do the supernatural things in the dream world. The problem you have is that in the real world you don’t feel like you can be yourself because of the ghosts or serial killers. What is a real world equivalent? You have, for instance, the capacity to go into a real life storm where people are fighting with each other and destroying each other emotionally and then use your power to create peace and harmony. You also can fly off in your mind to a really positive future and then have the future be actualized. These are examples of your positive lucidity. But as long as their is a ghost in your self, family, then you are going to have the desire to use the power in a negative way to get rid of things. This aspect of being lucid doesn’t come from your true self. It comes from fear. You have to deal with the fear you. What is difficult with lucid dreamers in terms of dealing with their fears is that they are all about controlling the dreams so that the fears don’t come in. In this way you miss the message of what a negative dream could give you. I usually don’t recommend too much lucid dreaming because I like to get the message of a negative dream and then transform it to a positive capability. What I recommend is being lucid in the real world. That is a powerful act. Anyway, hope this helps. You have some great abilities and you can do a lot of amazing things for humanity.
Thanks Richard.
Just posted a new dream haha, you can look if u want.
Well… let me correct myself. I’m a lucid dreamer, but not the all-powerful kind who can shape dreams however they want or do anything they want. Semi lucid? Or just vivid? eh.
I don’t know what’s going to happen in a dream. It’s just that 70% of the time, in the dreams i remember, i’m just aware that i’m dreaming. what kind of powers i am able to conjure depends on luck tbh, i can only try and see what works in the particular sequence.
haha well my fears and ghosts aren’t really gonna disappear that easily. i am not that powerful and honestly i’m just tired. but yeah, thanks for reading my dreams.
I had a dream of a boy who had confessed his love to me (I have not reply my feelings to him). In the dream I saw another girl forcefully kissed that boy. After seeing that, I walked away from the scene feeling hurt. The dream ended with him asking me why did I walk away. What does this mean? Have I fallen for him despite of haven’t gotten to meet him for a long time?
Dear K,
Having a boy tell you he loves you can be a really problematic thing. It tends to put people in a bit of a paralysis because they are not so sure about how to respond. If you respond positively, you may end up in a relationship you do not want to be in, and if you respond negatively, you can lose an opportunity. The hesitation on your part (by not responding) allowed someone else to take advantage of the situation and walk in. This shows you that the boy was really insincere with you because in one moment he says he loves you and in the next he is with another girl. The love confession was a ploy to get anyone in a relationship with him. Hesitating was actually the right thing to do because it is so improper for someone to do what he did in the dream. It misses all kinds of steps that allow a person to get acquainted and see the other person’s character before going into a full out relationship. The girl in the dream was also pretty foolish. The dream tells you to be patient and take it slow in the beginning.
I had a dream where I lookeed down on my vagina and I had these round silver bugs on me almost looked like ticks and I would pick them off only for more to reappear in its place. I remember it not hurting but it itched and the look of the bugs scared me the most and had a feeling of helplessness as I would try to remove them for only them to multiply I also remember feeling as if I would never be able to get them all and would need someone to help me but was to embarrassed for someone to help. What does this all mean?
Dear Ann,
The problem with sexual parts is that they are meant to be private in real life. So when something goes wrong with them it feels a bit embarrassing. In actuality is just like any other part. Bugs actually represent something that is irritating you so you can think of this as something is irritating you about your sexual life. The vagina is also where urine passes through, which would be a letting go issue, but I think yours is more sexual in nature. When you let go of the embarrassment, you can find the right help for what you are going through. Sometimes you just have to will your way through the embarrassment, that is, feel it, but ask for the help anyway.
I dream that someone told me that my deceased mother is very tired and will die 24 july but she has already passed
Strange dream
Dear Agnes,
In this dream you are being taken to the future, July 24, where you will relive the past, your mother dying. So this tells you that your mind has the habit of going to the future and just seeing the things that have already happened, rather than new things full of possibility. You can train your mind to see possibilities and new things and then begin to move toward them. First you have to change the beliefs that keep you stuck from seeing things in a new way. It is probably something you shared with your mother although I am not entirely certain about this.
Thanks so much Richard!
I had this dream last night about asking my mom to resolve my death. I told her and my youngest brother that i’m dead and asked her to pick me up but she didn’t believe it. I gave her a vision about my whereabout but she still don’t believe me. She saw my bleeding eyes and it was almost comiccall in a way with her trying to describe that eye image. But untill before i woke up we still having the same debate over and over again. I woke up feeling very unsettle over that eye images. What was that supposed to mean?
I would be so gratefull if you could help me interpret this. Thank you
Dear Caesaria,
This dream means that the part of that involves visioning positive possibilities is dead inside, which means it isn’t functioning very well. You are trying to get help to bring it life, but are not successful. Probably what this means is that when you tried to have a positive vision and go for it in the past then something bad happened where you failed or got hurt in some way.
Now you can let go of the negative association with visioning and wake it up again. Try doing small positive visions first.